Anyone here have no friends?

[computerguy]

Anyone here have zero friends....maybe you had class room friends in high school but no real/close friends?

How do you deal with it emotionally?
Have you ever cried yourself to sleep? or maybe just cried because you were thinking of your future?

If you don't want to answer here, then you can pm me.

[B40]

My best friend is RFD.

[weedb0y]

meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee


no friends, no girlfriends..all nerdz that i play online games with..are they my friends or not?

PLEASE HELP ME..

[Truth]

Yes it is true once you leave high school your social circle can scatter apart and most often drift away in one form or another. Some of your friends may depart from the city and head to college/university elsewhere, a few may move out on their own with their lovers and ta dah have kids, others may end up working long hours in some jobs, etc etc.

Some people can cope with this well and develop new friends due to their access via the environment they find themselves in (College, work programs, rec centres) ;

while others may have a tougher time finding common peers after high school. I for one was one of these people who had a rough time hooking up with former friends from high school and meeting new ones after graduating grade 12, several years back. I was living on my own for the first time with my g/f and struggled working in crappy jobs and dealing with all the other problems those who live at home with their parents can never understand until they walk it. Our health became effected due to our sudden poor eating habits, our stress level revolving around keeping a roof over our heads for sure effected us dearly, and being broke was no joke. So in short there was little time and money to connect with former high school buddies (some who i'm sure were dealing with their own issues too) or meet new friends.

To be honest, even today when things are a bit more financially, mentally, and physically better...... I don't go out with friends too often. I'm still too busy working and figuring out my life to really "hang" like the old days. Also it may be good to mention that a lot of these so called "friends" I've had in the past have either stabbed me in the back somehow or commit actions that often contradicted their words. Thus i am very aware of who I accept into my circle and those who I don't.

[Emancipated]

Yes it is true once you leave high school your social circle can scatter apart and most often drift away in one form or another. Some of your friends may depart from the city and head to college/university elsewhere, a few may move out on their own with their lovers and ta dah have kids, others may end up working long hours in some jobs, etc etc.

Some people can cope with this well and develop new friends due to their access via the environment they find themselves in (College, work programs, rec centres) ;

while others may have a tougher time finding common peers after high school. I for one was one of these people who had a rough time hooking up with former friends from high school and meeting new ones after graduating grade 12, several years back. I was living on my own for the first time with my g/f and struggled working in crappy jobs and dealing with all the other problems those who live at home with their parents can never understand until they walk it. Our health became effected due to our sudden poor eating habits, our stress level revolving around keeping a roof over our heads for sure effected us dearly, and being broke was no joke. So in short there was little time and money to connect with former high school buddies (some who i'm sure were dealing with their own issues too) or meet new friends.

To be honest, even today when things are a bit more financially, mentally, and physically better...... I don't go out with friends too often. I'm still too busy working and figuring out my life to really "hang" like the old days. Also it may be good to mention that a lot of these so called "friends" I've had in the past have either stabbed me in the back somehow or commit actions that often contradicted their words. Thus i am very aware of who I accept into my circle and those who I don't.

So textbook.

[B40]

My 2nd best friend

[reflex]

go to ytmnd.com, search up emo, and you'll find your friends =P

[CRXGSR]

Anyone here have zero friends

I think everyone who is a regular here has no friends. Myself included (except I have my family and girlfriend). I just belive in the saying "it's lonely being at the top".

[gorf]

Whew, I guess its a good thing I'm not here 24/7!

There's been times when I've felt alone. I've ended up ditching friends because I didn't like the path they were taking or they were getting involved in some heavy crap that wasn't for me. All you do is regroup, figure out your priorities and take it from there.

[Jucius Maximus]

My 2nd best friend

Dude I thought you were left handed!

[djpharoah]

Dude I thought you were left handed!

thast jokes

[enforcerviper]

If you're a regular here, you're probably got no, or a few friends. Otherwise you'd be going out instead of posting.

The funny part is most of us are in the same age group. 18-30

[deep]

Dude I thought you were left handed!

Which explains his choice of "friends"....he wants it to feel like a stranger.

[elusion]

my best friend is food and sleep. forget friends..Lolz
just keeding. i got ma drinkin buddies =)

[T-Man]

Wow.... I guess this is a pretty touchy subject for some people. But yeah I find it pretty tough too after high school, then college was great, everyone meeting everyone. Then after graduation, people moved away for jobs or whatever. Kinda my case too. Sure living with my girlfriend thats great. But since I"m an independant contractor, I"m often out there on my own, doing my job, no boss to look over my shoulder but at the same time, no co-workers either. Sure, in my line of work, I meet over a hundred people or more a day, but its in the capacity of me selling to them.

So yeah, then coming home from work, doing what you got to do. Then sleep and next day work all over again. Kinda sucks, been thinking about taking hip hop dance classes, martials arts or something.

So yeah, its kinda lonely being an independant contractor I guess. I would envy my girlfriend, works at the same place, see the same people all the time, so then has time to develop relationships with her co-workers, etc.