Worst rejection ever

[kamilio]

What is the worst way someone rejected you? My worst actually wasn't when asking someone out, it was actually during the date! I came up with what I thought would be a neat date idea and she was insulted by the idea and asked me to drive her back home.

Btw my date idea (first part of it) was for us to go to Walmart and buy each other very cheap (max $15) gift that represented something about one another. It was sort of a surprise but when we arrived at Walmart she blew a fuse about how she is too high class to step into Walmart and all of this Ballony. Lol made it worse that I sort of laughed at her rediculous statements so she got even more mad and asked me to drive her back home. Btw it was only the first phase of the date and it was supposed to be fun. Lesson learned though - LGs hate Walmart.

What is your worst rejection story? It can be an initial rejection or a rejection on the first few dates. Should be fun!

[peanutz]

This is not a date story, but totally heartbreaking rejection.

In my teenage years I sometimes chatted on Yahoo Chat and this gay guy and I hit it off and we were chattering away blissfully. Then all of a sudden someone brings up the issue of abortion and he asked me if I was pro-life or pro-choice. You knowwwww. I said I'm pro-choice, and he went off on me and said how I'm a baby killer and that he didn't want to talk to me anymore.

:cry:

I can't think of any other rejections right now.

[diggler649]

I was in Grade 9 at a high school dance and I asked a girl to dance during a slow song. She laughed at me in front of all her friends. :D

[spike1128]

What is the worst way someone rejected you? My worst actually wasn't when asking someone out, it was actually during the date! I came up with what I thought would be a neat date idea and she was insulted by the idea and asked me to drive her back home.

Btw my date idea (first part of it) was for us to go to Walmart and buy each other very cheap (max $15) gift that represented something about one another. It was sort of a surprise but when we arrived at Walmart she blew a fuse about how she is too high class to step into Walmart and all of this Ballony. Lol made it worse that I sort of laughed at her rediculous statements so she got even more mad and asked me to drive her back home. Btw it was only the first phase of the date and it was supposed to be fun. Lesson learned though - LGs hate Walmart.

What is your worst rejection story? It can be an initial rejection or a rejection on the first few dates. Should be fun!

This is the most funny thread I have ever read, LoL. :D

Dude, LGs go for bling, not walmart c#ap. Didn't you learn from RFD from all the guys who is bring out their Rexus and Bimmer to take out LGs. What made you think it was a good idea to go to Walmart? Tell me what is the best thing in Walmart that represent her? Now if you bought her to a jewellery store, then you are talking and might end up getting something at the end of the day.

[ji2o0k]

This actually happened to me twice with different girls, no idea what happened.

Girl #1- we went out on a few dates and I thought things were going well....then one day she abruptly told me that maybe we should just be friends. A few days later, she got back together with her ex-bf....

Girl #2- went out on a few dates and I thought things were going really, really well. We were getting "closer" physically and relationship-wise...then after one Sunday afternoon when we went for walk around a popular downtown Toronto street and I dropped her off at home, she just dropped off the face of the earth.

Didn't return my calls, texts or VMs afterwards...it was so bizarre. If she wasn't into me, no problem- just tell me and end it there....it was the not knowing that was so hard. To this day, don't know what happened- though I do know she is around.....

[setell]

What is the worst way someone rejected you? My worst actually wasn't when asking someone out, it was actually during the date! I came up with what I thought would be a neat date idea and she was insulted by the idea and asked me to drive her back home.

Btw my date idea (first part of it) was for us to go to Walmart and buy each other very cheap (max $15) gift that represented something about one another. It was sort of a surprise but when we arrived at Walmart she blew a fuse about how she is too high class to step into Walmart and all of this Ballony. Lol made it worse that I sort of laughed at her rediculous statements so she got even more mad and asked me to drive her back home. Btw it was only the first phase of the date and it was supposed to be fun. Lesson learned though - LGs hate Walmart.

What is your worst rejection story? It can be an initial rejection or a rejection on the first few dates. Should be fun!

That is such a sweet date idea. :cry:

[45ED]

That is such a sweet date idea. :cry:

It is, until she buys him something like a clown toy. Or a dog treat. Or a pacifier. Or one of those Dummies guides books.

[setell]

It is, until she buys him something like a clown toy. Or a dog treat. Or a pacifier. Or one of those Dummies guides books.

Who pick those? I would pick out something that is sentimental to the guy!

[XtremeModder]

What is the worst way someone rejected you? My worst actually wasn't when asking someone out, it was actually during the date! I came up with what I thought would be a neat date idea and she was insulted by the idea and asked me to drive her back home.

Btw my date idea (first part of it) was for us to go to Walmart and buy each other very cheap (max $15) gift that represented something about one another. It was sort of a surprise but when we arrived at Walmart she blew a fuse about how she is too high class to step into Walmart and all of this Ballony. Lol made it worse that I sort of laughed at her rediculous statements so she got even more mad and asked me to drive her back home. Btw it was only the first phase of the date and it was supposed to be fun. Lesson learned though - LGs hate Walmart.

What is your worst rejection story? It can be an initial rejection or a rejection on the first few dates. Should be fun!

That's a stupid idea (sorry) how can you buy something for either of you that represent anything when you know nothing about each other....

My worst rejection, was with this girl for 6 months. During dinner at a restaurant (after our food got there) she blurted out she didn't love me anymore.

I just left and drove home leaving her with the bill (was her idea to go out for dinner) as well as a 2+ hour walk home.

[45ED]

Who pick those? I would pick out something that is sentimental to the guy!

Yeah, you would. But there are plenty of guys and girls out there who put the honest in honesty. Or don't have filters in their heads.

[spike1128]

Who pick those? I would pick out something that is sentimental to the guy!

If only if it had been you going out with kamilio. It would have made his date less ackward.. :D

[renoldman]

Kamilio,

What the heck could you buy each other from just meeting each other?

[iEyeCaptain]

I was in Grade 9 at a high school dance and I asked a girl to dance during a slow song. She laughed at me in front of all her friends. :D

And now you're a high networth multi-billionaire and no LG can keep their hands off you.

Look how far you've come.

[popogrey]

What is the worst way someone rejected you? My worst actually wasn't when asking someone out, it was actually during the date! I came up with what I thought would be a neat date idea and she was insulted by the idea and asked me to drive her back home.

Btw my date idea (first part of it) was for us to go to Walmart and buy each other very cheap (max $15) gift that represented something about one another. It was sort of a surprise but when we arrived at Walmart she blew a fuse about how she is too high class to step into Walmart and all of this Ballony. Lol made it worse that I sort of laughed at her rediculous statements so she got even more mad and asked me to drive her back home. Btw it was only the first phase of the date and it was supposed to be fun. Lesson learned though - LGs hate Walmart.

What is your worst rejection story? It can be an initial rejection or a rejection on the first few dates. Should be fun!

Cute idea but sounds like you did this before you knew the girl well .. If you did this with a steady gf, it'd be ok. If she's crafty, she'll love stuff like this.

Honestly I think its a terrible idea b/c 1) force someone to buy you a gift out the blue (thinking of what to buy give me headaches) and 2) going to a walmart (you just look cheap, no offense). I like walmart, but it's really not a date location. It'd be ok if you were buying groceries together tho.. try a cooking date instead?

[NorthYorker]

I just left and drove home leaving her with the bill (was her idea to go out for dinner) as well as a 2+ hour walk home.So mean...

[popogrey]

That's a stupid idea (sorry) how can you buy something for either of you that represent anything when you know nothing about each other....

My worst rejection, was with this girl for 6 months. During dinner at a restaurant (after our food got there) she blurted out she didn't love me anymore.

I just left and drove home leaving her with the bill (was her idea to go out for dinner) as well as a 2+ hour walk home.

How is this even a worst rejection? Sounds worse for her than for you. Feelings change over time. Live with it.

[kamilio]

That's a stupid idea (sorry) how can you buy something for either of you that represent anything when you know nothing about each other....

My worst rejection, was with this girl for 6 months. During dinner at a restaurant (after our food got there) she blurted out she didn't love me anymore.

I just left and drove home leaving her with the bill (was her idea to go out for dinner) as well as a 2+ hour walk home.

We "sort of" knew each other. By that I mean that my buddy was dating her close friend and me and her ran into each other a few times and had some phone convos before the first date. Lol either way though, lesson learned like I said.

[kamilio]

That is such a sweet date idea. :cry:

Thank you! I thought it would be more original than the comedy club, movies, theatre play crap that I usually do. And that was only part 1 of the date!

[d182]

Didn't return my calls, texts or VMs afterwards...it was so bizarre. If she wasn't into me, no problem- just tell me and end it there....it was the not knowing that was so hard. To this day, don't know what happened- though I do know she is around.....

Sorry to hear man >:( My gf experienced the same thing with her ex - they dated for months with things going steady and BOOM! He dropped of the face of the earth without responding to calls/emails/txt etc.

[ji2o0k]

My worst rejection, was with this girl for 6 months. During dinner at a restaurant (after our food got there) she blurted out she didn't love me anymore.

I just left and drove home leaving her with the bill (was her idea to go out for dinner) as well as a 2+ hour walk home.lol damn brah...you cold blooded!

Lol, not sure how I would react but probably angrily as well....maybe not as ballsy as you to leave her at the resto though...but definitely wouldn't want to eat my meal with her, that is for sure!

[ji2o0k]

Sorry to hear man >:( My gf experienced the same thing with her ex - they dated for months with things going steady and BOOM! He dropped of the face of the earth without responding to calls/emails/txt etc.thx dood...ah well, live and learn (well kind of, in this case not really- didn't learn what happened or what went wrong)...

But I should have known something was up....the last few times I asked her out and it was on a Saturday night, she would say "yes" initially and then change on Friday night before the Sat...always with a new excuse and ask that we do stuff on Sunday.

So we would end up doing stuff on Sunday...hence that last Sunday afternoon walk....she was really cute (korean too!) but obviously had something going on...maybe issues or some other guys chasing her or her ex-bf...who knows...

[XtremeModder]

How is this even a worst rejection? Sounds worse for her than for you. Feelings change over time. Live with it.

I said MY worst rejection not that it was and some else saying it was mean, sure it was, it's still bring rejected after 6months when you think there is no problems

But don't tell "I don't love you anymore" right after we get dinner at a restaurant, that's *****, why not tell me before or after. The reason I got up and left is cause that girl I cared a lot for, and we got along pretty well I just didn't see that coming so all I wanted to do at that point was just not be out in public and just wanted to be alone. But now that I look back on it, her and her whole family were all stuck up thinking they were all important over everyone.

If she cared in the end she would have told me that after the dinner and when we got home.

Mean? Yes
Deserved? Not sure
Would I have done things differently? Of course...


Want to know the best part?

3 days later I had this party with a few friends of mine + all of her friends (who don't talk to her ever anymore and talk to me all the time).

Anyways as the party dwindled down that girls best friend asked me if I wanted to have sex with her (said it in better terms though ;)) so why the hell not. 3 days her and I just banged and chilled. Turns out she's wanted me since the day she met me. We still talk all the time but seeing as I've been with my current gf for almost 6 years and that I would never do anything behind her back this other girl and i just chill whenever and have a smoke.

[kamilio]

This reminds me of another rejection. There is this girl that I was seeing a month ago but I stopped calling her Or going to see her because I had a designation exam to study for. Now that the exam is over I called her up but she wants nothing to do with me. Do women really expect you to pick them over your career? LGs are picky these days!

[sylpherware]

Got dumped 4000km away while playing Rockband at friend's place. Couldn't stop singing Creep for the rest of the night :cry:

[kamilio]

Got dumped 4000km away while playing Rockband at friend's place. Couldn't stop singing Creep for the rest of the night :cry:

Lol classic! I am loving this thread...why do I get do much joy at others' misery?

[45ED]

Lol classic! I am loving this thread...why do I get do much joy at others' misery?

Schadenfreude

[d182]

This reminds me of another rejection. There is this girl that I was seeing a month ago but I stopped calling her Or going to see her because I had a designation exam to study for. Now that the exam is over I called her up but she wants nothing to do with me. Do women really expect you to pick them over your career? LGs are picky these days!

Did you let her know that you were busy studying before you stopped contacting her?

[ji2o0k]

This reminds me of another rejection. There is this girl that I was seeing a month ago but I stopped calling her Or going to see her because I had a designation exam to study for. Now that the exam is over I called her up but she wants nothing to do with me. Do women really expect you to pick them over your career? LGs are picky these days!dood...you have to give her a heads-up and tell her that you got exams and might not see much of each other for the next month...

If she cared about you, she would understand. If she throws a hissyfit, she wasn't the right one....

**damn, d182 beat me to it- again, the radio silence and not knowing is the hardest part....keeps people wondering "what happened" with no chance for answers**

[XtremeModder]

lol damn brah...you cold blooded!

Lol, not sure how I would react but probably angrily as well....maybe not as ballsy as you to leave her at the resto though...but definitely wouldn't want to eat my meal with her, that is for sure!

Think about it this way, she wanted to go for dinner, then says that and expects me to pay $70+? I don't think so. I was more mad at the fact she told me during a dinner out in public. It's not like I left the place crying, no, I got home called up some of her friends and they were (bout 8 of them) over within a half hour, they haven't talked to her since, which now is going onto 7 years. And what did we do? Drank and just chilled out. (that stuff with me banging her friend was a couple data later

Let me tell you though after I got over it (thanks to help of that friend ;)) I had one of the best single years of my life. Now I'm not really happy at all :s

[popogrey]

I said MY worst rejection not that it was and some else saying it was mean, sure it was, it's still bring rejected after 6months when you think there is no problems

But don't tell "I don't love you anymore" right after we get dinner at a restaurant, that's *****, why not tell me before or after. The reason I got up and left is cause that girl I cared a lot for, and we got along pretty well I just didn't see that coming so all I wanted to do at that point was just not be out in public and just wanted to be alone. But now that I look back on it, her and her whole family were all stuck up thinking they were all important over everyone.

If she cared in the end she would have told me that after the dinner and when we got home.

Mean? Yes
Deserved? Not sure
Would I have done things differently? Of course...


Want to know the best part?

3 days later I had this party with a few friends of mine + all of her friends (who don't talk to her ever anymore and talk to me all the time).

Anyways as the party dwindled down that girls best friend asked me if I wanted to have sex with her (said it in better terms though ;)) so why the hell not. 3 days her and I just banged and chilled. Turns out she's wanted me since the day she met me. We still talk all the time but seeing as I've been with my current gf for almost 6 years and that I would never do anything behind her back this other girl and i just chill whenever and have a smoke.

Cool bro.. sounds like you haven't been rejected much. You might have taken it the wrong way. Maybe she couldn't wait to tell you because it's been bothering her so much but hey, at least she didnt tell you over email/phone. Don't want to comment too much but telling someone you dont love him isn't that easy either.

Btw, sounds like the other girl just wanted to get laid/ get back at her friend. If she wanted you, she wouldn't want to be a rebound. But kudos to your long term relationship!

[ji2o0k]

Think about it this way, she wanted to go for dinner, then says that and expects me to pay $70+? I don't think so. I was more mad at the fact she told me during a dinner out in public. It's not like I left the place crying, no, I got home called up some of her friends and they were (bout 8 of them) over within a half hour, they haven't talked to her since, which now is going onto 7 years. And what did we do? Drank and just chilled out. (that stuff with me banging her friend was a couple data lateri understand man.....just saying you got some balls to just do what you did, I probably couldn't do it (not enough courage). But I would definitely be mad and upset if a girl pulled that on me...i would be thinking "wtf? Now?...you tell me now?"

But yeah, what she did and the timing was really selfish of her....not even sure why she asked you to go for dinner then, she wanted a free meal? In any case, whatever....it happened, it is in the past and you had a really nice remedy after ;)


Now I'm not really happy at all :sdood, you need to take care of that.

Man up and address whatever it is that isn't making you happy....life is short, everyone needs to spend their time doing stuff that makes them happy and enjoy life...be healthy and enjoy life is what is important!

[diggler649]

What is the worst way someone rejected you? My worst actually wasn't when asking someone out, it was actually during the date! I came up with what I thought would be a neat date idea and she was insulted by the idea and asked me to drive her back home.

Btw my date idea (first part of it) was for us to go to Walmart and buy each other very cheap (max $15) gift that represented something about one another. It was sort of a surprise but when we arrived at Walmart she blew a fuse about how she is too high class to step into Walmart and all of this Ballony. Lol made it worse that I sort of laughed at her rediculous statements so she got even more mad and asked me to drive her back home. Btw it was only the first phase of the date and it was supposed to be fun. Lesson learned though - LGs hate Walmart.

What is your worst rejection story? It can be an initial rejection or a rejection on the first few dates. Should be fun!

Curious. Are you Asian?

[iEyeCaptain]

Thank you! I thought it would be more original than the comedy club, movies, theatre play crap that I usually do. And that was only part 1 of the date!

Some girls like cheesy stereotypes.

Not much for originality.

Since they grew up watching/reading about stereotypes, they want their own experience to be moulded after such.

[UrbanPoet]

Sorry to hear man >:( My gf experienced the same thing with her ex - they dated for months with things going steady and BOOM! He dropped of the face of the earth without responding to calls/emails/txt etc.

Damn... With such easy cop out forms of communication... I'm surprised people do this.

A simple text or even a friggin sticky note with "I'm just not that into you sorry" would have been better (as sad as that sounds). Much better then dropping off the face of the earth!

[diggler649]

And now you're a high networth multi-billionaire and no LG can keep their hands off you.

Look how far you've come.

Tell me about it. I sent an email to J Biebs asking for advice on how to handle having millions of LG fans.

[ji2o0k]

Damn... With such easy cop out forms of communication... I'm surprised people do this.

A simple text or even a friggin sticky note with "I'm just not that into you sorry" would have been better (as sad as that sounds). Much better then dropping off the face of the earth!if only I was as ballin' as UP! No girl would reject me then!

I would be lockin', poppin' and rockin' and all the girls would love me....

:D

[spike1128]

Cool bro.. sounds like you haven't been rejected much. You might have taken it the wrong way. Maybe she couldn't wait to tell you because it's been bothering her so much but hey, at least she didnt tell you over email/phone. Don't want to comment too much but telling someone you dont love him isn't that easy either.

Btw, sounds like the other girl just wanted to get laid/ get back at her friend. If she wanted you, she wouldn't want to be a rebound. But kudos to your long term relationship!

Modder is like the baller man. He and his bangin stories. We sometimes wonder why there is never any chicks that come up to you during a party and get it on suggested by the girls.

It doesn't matter about rebound or whatever. He got some, that's all it matters. At the expense of that other rejection girl.

[LostInTruth]

Cool thread. I don't really have any stories right now, but responding to another poster is there really any good time to say "I don't love you anymore?" what she did sucks, but maybe she did I over dinner in a public place because she didn't know how you'd react?

[XtremeModder]

Modder is like the baller man. He and his bangin stories. We sometimes wonder why there is never any chicks that come up to you during a party and get it on suggested by the girls.

It doesn't matter about rebound or whatever. He got some, that's all it matters. At the expense of that other rejection girl.

Trust me, this girl that I banged is to this day one of my best friends, ever seen those threads where I ask for advise on how to help my friend and whatnot cause she's in a really ***** situation? Well that's her.

Know what else? She wants to be with me not just physically and I know this cause she's told me before, and as much as I'd love to be more than friends with her I just can't do that right now. Any time I try to make a reason to leave where I am now my gf makes an excuse with how shell try to save towards the future (something im doing well with, saving $1400/month, end of next year I'll have 40k saved for a home).

[spike1128]

Trust me, this girl that I banged is to this day one of my best friends, ever seen those threads where I ask for advise on how to help my friend and whatnot cause she's in a really ***** situation? Well that's her.

Know what else? She wants to be with me not just physically and I know this cause she's told me before, and as much as I'd love to be more than friends with her I just can't do that right now. Any time I try to make a reason to leave where I am now my gf makes an excuse with how shell try to save towards the future (something im doing well with, saving $1400/month, end of next year I'll have 40k saved for a home).

I got the feeling it was her you were talking about.

I won't comment on your current gf and this girl. I am not you, so I don't pretend that I know how you feel. I can understand how hard it is for a saver to be partnered with a spender though. Maybe that's what making you miserable?

[wilsonlam97]

This is the most funny thread I have ever read, LoL. :D

Dude, LGs go for bling, not walmart c#ap. Didn't you learn from RFD from all the guys who is bring out their Rexus and Bimmer to take out LGs. What made you think it was a good idea to go to Walmart? Tell me what is the best thing in Walmart that represent her? Now if you bought her to a jewellery store, then you are talking and might end up getting something at the end of the day.

LV is very important;)

[No Frills]

My worst was when her response was "I dont know". I would have gladly accepted "no", "im busy", "i dont think it will work", "im seeing someone"....but I got "IDK". I wasnt gonna chase if that was the intention or was supposed to be a nice way of saying no and I moved on and was in a relationship a month later.

[Syne]

This reminds me of another rejection. There is this girl that I was seeing a month ago but I stopped calling her Or going to see her because I had a designation exam to study for. Now that the exam is over I called her up but she wants nothing to do with me. Do women really expect you to pick them over your career? LGs are picky these days!

I think as long as you reassure them you're just busy and you're still interested, most people will understand. If you just dismiss a person and stop talking to them for days, of course they are going to distance themselves emotionally from you.

..

[wilsonlam97]

Cute idea but sounds like you did this before you knew the girl well .. If you did this with a steady gf, it'd be ok. If she's crafty, she'll love stuff like this.

Honestly I think its a terrible idea b/c 1) force someone to buy you a gift out the blue (thinking of what to buy give me headaches) and 2) going to a walmart (you just look cheap, no offense). I like walmart, but it's really not a date location. It'd be ok if you were buying groceries together tho.. try a cooking date instead?

I think she was being picky....

[wilsonlam97]

Sorry to hear man >:( My gf experienced the same thing with her ex - they dated for months with things going steady and BOOM! He dropped of the face of the earth without responding to calls/emails/txt etc.

I hate it when girls get cold. At least have the courage to leave a nice break-off message :confused:

[UrbanPoet]

I can't think of a rejection that bad.

I've had the 'dissapearance' act happen to me before. But to be honest... I always looked at the bright side. At least I got to hit that! If you know what I'm saying!!!
But really, its all the experiences inbetween that matter. The courtship. The initial feeling of love and giddiness and the rush of intimacy.
Even if things don't always end well... I see all these girls who go in and out of my life as leading up to my ultimate goal of finding true love and happiness <3

After all... IT didn't work out for a reason. It was either the time, place, or stage in life...

[wilsonlam97]

Lol classic! I am loving this thread...why do I get do much joy at others' misery?

Screw you lol

[particleman]

It sounds to me that it worked out for the best. I would be counting my lucky stars that I didn't waste anymore time on someone who blew a fuse just over going to Walmart. While going there on a first date probably isn't the best idea, I wouldn't want to spend my time who was too stuck up to go to one.

My wife loves Walmart, she is also one of the stingiest bargain hunters I know. We don't go there for fashion, but there are a lot of things you can get there that cost less for the equivalent item if bought elsewhere, so why pay more? As an RFD'er I don't think I could be with someone who pays thinks they are "too good" to pay less.


What is the worst way someone rejected you? My worst actually wasn't when asking someone out, it was actually during the date! I came up with what I thought would be a neat date idea and she was insulted by the idea and asked me to drive her back home.

Btw my date idea (first part of it) was for us to go to Walmart and buy each other very cheap (max $15) gift that represented something about one another. It was sort of a surprise but when we arrived at Walmart she blew a fuse about how she is too high class to step into Walmart and all of this Ballony. Lol made it worse that I sort of laughed at her rediculous statements so she got even more mad and asked me to drive her back home. Btw it was only the first phase of the date and it was supposed to be fun. Lesson learned though - LGs hate Walmart.

What is your worst rejection story? It can be an initial rejection or a rejection on the first few dates. Should be fun!

[wilsonlam97]

My worst was when her response was "I dont know". I would have gladly accepted "no", "im busy", "i dont think it will work", "im seeing someone"....but I got "IDK". I wasnt gonna chase if that was the intention or was supposed to be a nice way of saying no and I moved on and was in a relationship a month later.

I know this feeling and I agree with you. God dammit.

Also was combined with disappearing act. Felt bad about it but now I've manned up. Well I got plenty of resources for other women now -sigh-

[007craft]

Some bad rejections Ive had:

1. Became good friends with a girl at work over the course of 3 months. Finally asked her out when I was talking to her one night on the phone. She turned me down. I felt really dumb because we spent so much time together and I guess I cant read signals worth crap I guess. Its been 4 years. This girl is my best friend today... so I cant say its all bad.

2. A girl invited me to goto Vancouver island with her on a camping trip. We met each other a couple weeks before, had been talking on the phone and it was HER idea to go camping. I mean this was no easy trip. I had to travel for like 3 hours to get to her there. I made a move when we were drinking that night and she rejected me. It was ultra awkward since we were sleeping in the same tent and had plans to spend the next day together too.. I peaced out early the next day... making an excuse about work. Shes still single today (2 years later) and I can see why. I have no idea what she was thinking. Even all my friends where shocked as they had met her too and thought she was totally into me.

3. Met a girl at a club once. We had a good time making out and started texting alot the following couple weeks. She was into the texting and everything but always made excuses why she couldnt meet up again. I stopped texting after a couple weeks... wasting my time.

4. Slept with a girl 4 or 5 times and then asked her if she wanted to get together/date and she turned me down. Shes actually still my friend today but shes really hopeless. aside from myself, shes slept with lots of good guys who have been into her and she turns everybody down. Shes going to end up a cat lady I think.

5. Had a weird frienship going with a girl for 6 months. There was lots of kissing, and 2nd base action, but no sex. I lived in a shared house with a bunch of people who were her friends and she could never show any sort of public affection. She refused to think of us as a couple (despite talking everyday for 4+ hours). All our friends knew what was going on too. Finally I moved out and instantly our relationship fizzled. I stopped calling her, finally smartening up when I realized I was wasting my time. Today shes dating some other dude. I have nothing against her tho. She clearly didnt want to be with me but my persuasiveness kept her interested

6. A chick who keeps getting rejected after 2-3 months with a guy was dating me for a couple weeks. She didnt want to be with me because she thought I was going to dump her. She was just overall crazy. She would cry at night. Also, she was not my type at all. I was only with her because she was hot. So im glad she dumped me.

7. There have been other ones, but nothing I can really remember too bad.

[mbk.2k3]

great thread

whats an LG

[kamilio]

Curious. Are you Asian?

No not Asian, why?

[peanutz]

That's a stupid idea (sorry) how can you buy something for either of you that represent anything when you know nothing about each other....

My worst rejection, was with this girl for 6 months. During dinner at a restaurant (after our food got there) she blurted out she didn't love me anymore.

I just left and drove home leaving her with the bill (was her idea to go out for dinner) as well as a 2+ hour walk home.


I said MY worst rejection not that it was and some else saying it was mean, sure it was, it's still bring rejected after 6months when you think there is no problems

But don't tell "I don't love you anymore" right after we get dinner at a restaurant, that's *****, why not tell me before or after. The reason I got up and left is cause that girl I cared a lot for, and we got along pretty well I just didn't see that coming so all I wanted to do at that point was just not be out in public and just wanted to be alone. But now that I look back on it, her and her whole family were all stuck up thinking they were all important over everyone.

If she cared in the end she would have told me that after the dinner and when we got home.

Mean? Yes
Deserved? Not sure
Would I have done things differently? Of course...


Want to know the best part?

3 days later I had this party with a few friends of mine + all of her friends (who don't talk to her ever anymore and talk to me all the time).

Anyways as the party dwindled down that girls best friend asked me if I wanted to have sex with her (said it in better terms though ;)) so why the hell not. 3 days her and I just banged and chilled. Turns out she's wanted me since the day she met me. We still talk all the time but seeing as I've been with my current gf for almost 6 years and that I would never do anything behind her back this other girl and i just chill whenever and have a smoke.
DUDE. How are you SUCH a boss with the first story (I agree with what you did) and then SUCH a frustrating @$#^@#%! in the second situation? Anyone who's familiar with your story knows about that flakey trainwreck who tried to hook up with you while knowing you have your GF of 5+ years.

It's driving me nuts to continue to hear this story and I really really do wish you would just break up with your current GF and get together with Nutcase Nympho. My head's about to explode whatwith you constantly reminding us about how miserable you are in your current relationship. It's so unfair to your GF and I hate girls like your "best friend" AGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

[iEyeCaptain]

DUDE. How are you SUCH a boss with the first story (I agree with what you did) and then SUCH a frustrating @$#^@#%! in the second situation? Anyone who's familiar with your story knows about that flakey trainwreck who tried to hook up with you while knowing you have your GF of 5+ years.

It's driving me nuts to continue to hear this story and I really really do wish you would just break up with your current GF and get together with Nutcase Nympho. My head's about to explode whatwith you constantly reminding us about how miserable you are in your current relationship. It's so unfair to your GF and I hate girls like your "best friend" AGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Here peen... have a Valium.

[wilsonlam97]

DUDE. How are you SUCH a boss with the first story (I agree with what you did) and then SUCH a frustrating @$#^@#%! in the second situation? Anyone who's familiar with your story knows about that flakey trainwreck who tried to hook up with you while knowing you have your GF of 5+ years.

It's driving me nuts to continue to hear this story and I really really do wish you would just break up with your current GF and get together with Nutcase Nympho. My head's about to explode whatwith you constantly reminding us about how miserable you are in your current relationship. It's so unfair to your GF and I hate girls like your "best friend" AGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

lol. Its his decision to make. But as long as he's gettin that all is okay right?

[peanutz]

Here peen... have a Valium.I don't need YOU to give me a Valium. ;)

BUT I FEEL LIKE I'M TURNING INTO THE HULK EVERY TIME I READ ABOUT THAT W---E.

Seriously please just hook up with her and either live happily ever after or realize she's a cuckoo who has no sense of self and responsibility. Either way, it is actually pissing me off to know that there is a THIRD PERSON involved in all of this (your actual GF) who would be hurt to know about what is actually in your common history, and heads/hearts.

GAHHHH RAWRWRRrwrR ragingggg

[mrperfect]

Not really a rejection but when I was very small and an Uncle of mine used to live overseas. I remember him promising me a Super Nintendo one day, I patiently awaited his trip for months in advance. I remember not sleeping entire night, getting ready and going to the Airport and asking him if he got my video game and he said yes. Then he went back to his home and promised to give it to me after unpacking his suitcase. Hours turned to days and I never got one, it turned out his wife decided to give it to some other kid from her family. :( Suffice to say I was heartbroken, and I cried, feeling helpless, miserable and pity on myself and seeing how my mom tried to pacify me that it wasnt the end of the world...

Thinking about it now it is so petty and not a big deal, but back then it really hit me hard for whatever reason it still brings tears to my eyes. Funny thing is years later I ended up helping them back during their bad times.

[mysticalinfluence]

It is, until she buys him something like a clown toy. Or a dog treat. Or a pacifier. Or one of those Dummies guides books.



Dummies guides books :lol::lol:



great thread

whats an LG

LG is Lucky-Goldstar Corporation :D

[iEyeCaptain]

Seriously please just hook up with her and either live happily ever after or realize she's a cuckoo who has no sense of self and responsibility. Either way, it is actually pissing me off to know that there is a THIRD PERSON involved in all of this (your actual GF) who would be hurt to know about what is actually in your common history, and heads/hearts.


PM'ed qaz.

[plucky duck]

Lol this thread is golden! Haha! :)

[SquirreI]

Well I wasn't really rejected directly but me and this girl were going out for the first three weeks of February, 2012, and one day we were walking around the mall and at the time I thought we were already a couple. Anyways, we were walking around and I saw my friend, and so we stopped and said hi, and then 'my' girl and my friend hugged and ...kissed and went out to dinner that night, and my mind was going psychotic that moment, and I just left. And so...I just didn't know they were that close, nobody told me. But she stopped talking to me the day after, and my friend has been texting me about his days with the girl of my dreams, and I stopped talking to that *****. I've been heartbroken ever since. It sucks when your mind denies the fact that you were friend zoned all this time.

[_Allan_]

Between age of 8-10 my "mom" let her new husband beat me. (Not punish, but actually beat me, and he was charged.)
At age 10, she let him talk her into sending me into Foster Care.
At age 18, she told me she wished she'd aborted me, I was the worst part of her life, and that she wished I would die.
When I was 30, she basically reiterated what she said when I was 18.

I think I win?

[XtremeModder]

Between age of 8-10 my "mom" let her new husband beat me. (Not punish, but actually beat me, and he was charged.)
At age 10, she let him talk her into sending me into Foster Care.
At age 18, she told me she wished she'd aborted me, I was the worst part of her life, and that she wished I would die.
When I was 30, she basically reiterated what she said when I was 18.

I think I win?

Man that's harsh sorry to hear.

[wilsonlam97]

Between age of 8-10 my "mom" let her new husband beat me. (Not punish, but actually beat me, and he was charged.)
At age 10, she let him talk her into sending me into Foster Care.
At age 18, she told me she wished she'd aborted me, I was the worst part of her life, and that she wished I would die.
When I was 30, she basically reiterated what she said when I was 18.

I think I win?

I will take back a lot of the things I've said about you. You had it hard but don't act like a d1ck sometimes! People aren't understanding in general until taught so.

[wilsonlam97]

LG is Lucky-Goldstar Corporation :D

Sure ;)

[_Allan_]

I will take back a lot of the things I've said about you. You had it hard but don't act like a d1ck sometimes! People aren't understanding in general until taught so.

I'm over it mostly ... and as for being a ***** ? I can't change that! Look what my "momma" gave me! *L*

[Canada_7]

This seems to also include dumping stories so here we go...I have an acquaintance who took their GF on a date to the CN Tower for the girl's birthday. She wanted to go there and then during the dinner at the CN Tower, she gets angry and asked where her present (or purse, can't remember; anyways as a present) in a rude way or something. Dude gave the girl a different present to which the girl isn't happy. He was obviously pissed so he just got up, paid the bill and left her there with no ride (they lived like way west end GTA or something). The girl contacted like an hour later to apologize but he was done with her. He explained to me the reason he paid the bill was so that at least she wasn't completely stuck there.


Between age of 8-10 my "mom" let her new husband beat me. (Not punish, but actually beat me, and he was charged.)
At age 10, she let him talk her into sending me into Foster Care.
At age 18, she told me she wished she'd aborted me, I was the worst part of her life, and that she wished I would die.
When I was 30, she basically reiterated what she said when I was 18.

I think I win?
Damn, sorry to hear that.

[Wilmega]

Well I wasn't really rejected directly but me and this girl were going out for the first three weeks of February, 2012, and one day we were walking around the mall and at the time I thought we were already a couple. Anyways, we were walking around and I saw my friend, and so we stopped and said hi, and then 'my' girl and my friend hugged and ...kissed and went out to dinner that night, and my mind was going psychotic that moment, and I just left. And so...I just didn't know they were that close, nobody told me. But she stopped talking to me the day after, and my friend has been texting me about his days with the girl of my dreams, and I stopped talking to that *****. I've been heartbroken ever since. It sucks when your mind denies the fact that you were friend zoned all this time.

LMAO - you thought you guys were a couple? WTF is this - how far did you get with her and why did you let your friend hug and kiss your "GF" in front of you. That's sad bro...and im being nice too

[kamilio]

Well I wasn't really rejected directly but me and this girl were going out for the first three weeks of February, 2012, and one day we were walking around the mall and at the time I thought we were already a couple. Anyways, we were walking around and I saw my friend, and so we stopped and said hi, and then 'my' girl and my friend hugged and ...kissed and went out to dinner that night, and my mind was going psychotic that moment, and I just left. And so...I just didn't know they were that close, nobody told me. But she stopped talking to me the day after, and my friend has been texting me about his days with the girl of my dreams, and I stopped talking to that *****. I've been heartbroken ever since. It sucks when your mind denies the fact that you were friend zoned all this time.

I am his friend. Hey say hi to our dream girl... Lol

[epik89]

man this thread makes me feel so much better.

but yeah man these girls are true heart breakers :(

[ben_liu]

In high school, I was completely oblivious of girls and signals but there was this one girl that basically knew everything about me. On my birthday, she gave me a present as she waited at my locker and all I said was thanks and never tried to talk to her. I felt like a biggest A-Hole ever. I actually sent her some messages years later apologizing but she was over it.

The best way to ask a girl out is to say, "I love rejections" before they can give their answers. It's actually quite funny to say at the right moment.

[_Allan_]

The best way to ask a girl out is to say, "I love rejections" before they can give their answers. It's actually quite funny to say at the right moment.

Nah ... confuse em ... ask them the following:
"If I asked you [to have sex with me][to go out with me]... would the answer to that question be the same as the answer to this question?"
Watch her face as she tries to figure a good way to tell you she doesn't want to date you! *LOL* (btw choose one of the [] statements.)

[Kunman]

i was always rejected normally, nothing bad, or mabye im just numb to rejections now.

Anyways

If this girl I rejected was on RFD she would totally write about it in this thread.

During the grade 7 school dance all the guys and I weren't really dancing, we were just ***** around grinding on couples that were dancing. HAHAHA.... I used to be a chubby lttle fattie back than and I got tired from the all da grinding so I found a place to site down with some friends. Before the next song started, this girl asked me to dance with her, after she was rejected by my friend earlier during the dance. I was like errr okay, lets dance .....baaabee. And I stood up, facing her. I was ready to boogie. But right as the song started, I ran away. out of the gym. I duno why, I just ran lol....SHE WAS PISSED. We went to the same highschool after, and whenever we passed each other in the hall, I would get the meanest stare ever from her and I really deserve it and I still feel bad about it till this day lol...

[blzn]

I feel bad for dishing out a really bad rejection but it was in grade 5 in my defence, I said to her:

Roses are red
Violets are blue
Garbage is dumped
And so are you

I still feel bad till this day, she doesn't even remember it (allegedly).

I got it bad myself when I fell completely for this girl who had to be one of the prettiest girls I've ever met and everything was great for the first couple weeks then she just stopped talking to me, this was after she begged me never to leave her.. lol. Girls are evil :(

[Kunman]

I feel bad for dishing out a really bad rejection but it was in grade 5 in my defence, I said to her:

Roses are red
Violets are blue
Garbage is dumped
And so are you

I still feel bad till this day, she doesn't even remember it (allegedly).

im using that next time

[peanutz]

Between age of 8-10 my "mom" let her new husband beat me. (Not punish, but actually beat me, and he was charged.)
At age 10, she let him talk her into sending me into Foster Care.
At age 18, she told me she wished she'd aborted me, I was the worst part of her life, and that she wished I would die.
When I was 30, she basically reiterated what she said when I was 18.

I think I win?You win lots of hugs, man. That really sucks.


i was always rejected normally, nothing bad, or mabye im just numb to rejections now.

Anyways

If this girl I rejected was on RFD she would totally write about it in this thread.

During the grade 7 school dance all the guys and I weren't really dancing, we were just ***** around grinding on couples that were dancing. HAHAHA.... I used to be a chubby lttle fattie back than and I got tired from the all da grinding so I found a place to site down with some friends. Before the next song started, this girl asked me to dance with her, after she was rejected by my friend earlier during the dance. I was like errr okay, lets dance .....baaabee. And I stood up, facing her. I was ready to boogie. But right as the song started, I ran away. out of the gym. I duno why, I just ran lol....SHE WAS PISSED. We went to the same highschool after, and whenever we passed each other in the hall, I would get the meanest stare ever from her and I really deserve it and I still feel bad about it till this day lol...Dude, that's hilarious. You troll.

[maddydo]

hm about 12 years ago i was a young teenager and just starting to get to like boys
and i really like this one boy with a really fancy bike that was in a some sort of racing gang (not violent gang)...got to know him from my good friend who was also in the gang....

we hung out a bunch of times, rode the bike lots but then i talked to my good friend and wondered if he was into me or not ...
then found out supposedly he wasn't... just wanted to be friends and no relationships...i felt kinda hurt...after this talk i didn't hear from him again
then shortly after i hung out with my good friend and saw him with his ex riding on the back of his bike...whom he was complaining so much about and saying how crazy she was.....

:(

that was the only time i ever felt rejected in my life...after that i just toughen up and never again wasted my time with someone who isnt showing interest

[Yu_Qing]

Between age of 8-10 my "mom" let her new husband beat me. (Not punish, but actually beat me, and he was charged.)
At age 10, she let him talk her into sending me into Foster Care.
At age 18, she told me she wished she'd aborted me, I was the worst part of her life, and that she wished I would die.
When I was 30, she basically reiterated what she said when I was 18.

I think I win?

that's awful.

hope that husband who hurt you is dead. really.

[djemzine]

My worst rejection ever would be in my first year of undergrad. I met this chick during Frosh week and we'd hang out on a weekly basis, etc. So months progressed by and in that period I had actually liked her and based on the "signals" she gave I thought she was interested in me too. Turns out it wasn't as I was being led on. Any how at this coffee shop we both meet up and I told her that I like her, etc. Her reaction was this "Sorry to burst your bubble but I don't like you and I don't find you attractive at all, but we could be friends. Sorry that I led you on." What was worse that there were others around us who heard this. Sure made me embarrassing for sure. At which point we just didn't talk any more until this day.

[djemzine]

Between age of 8-10 my "mom" let her new husband beat me. (Not punish, but actually beat me, and he was charged.)
At age 10, she let him talk her into sending me into Foster Care.
At age 18, she told me she wished she'd aborted me, I was the worst part of her life, and that she wished I would die.
When I was 30, she basically reiterated what she said when I was 18.

I think I win?

Yes you do definitely win and sorry to hear that dude. I hope that husband of her and your "mom" (sorry to bring that up) do not have a great rebirth next year.

[Jucius Maximus]

What is the worst way someone rejected you? My worst actually wasn't when asking someone out, it was actually during the date! I came up with what I thought would be a neat date idea and she was insulted by the idea and asked me to drive her back home.
Actually I think it was pretty decent of her to just cut it short instead of wasting your time and money on the date and your efforts on her.

[_Allan_]

Thanks everyone for the kind words.
Let me be clear - I've given up on my family being 'normal' or 'good'.

I've taken to 'adopting' family from the friends I have, that I think (know) I can trust. It works well.

[yao416]

That's *****ed up Allan and welcome back :D

[yao416]

In high school, I was completely oblivious of girls and signals but there was this one girl that basically knew everything about me. On my birthday, she gave me a present as she waited at my locker and all I said was thanks and never tried to talk to her. I felt like a biggest A-Hole ever. I actually sent her some messages years later apologizing but she was over it.

The best way to ask a girl out is to say, "I love rejections" before they can give their answers. It's actually quite funny to say at the right moment.

Playa gonna play

[Xiaohaibao]

Between age of 8-10 my "mom" let her new husband beat me. (Not punish, but actually beat me, and he was charged.)
At age 10, she let him talk her into sending me into Foster Care.
At age 18, she told me she wished she'd aborted me, I was the worst part of her life, and that she wished I would die.
When I was 30, she basically reiterated what she said when I was 18.

If she said that to you at 18, why were you still talking to her at 30? I hope you have cut off all contact with her.

[stuntman]

Actually I think it was pretty decent of her to just cut it short instead of wasting your time and money on the date and your efforts on her.

+1 OR just plain lucky. You don't need that BS.

[_Allan_]

That's *****ed up Allan and welcome back :D
I wasn't gone man.


If she said that to you at 18, why were you still talking to her at 30? I hope you have cut off all contact with her.
I thought "gee, 12 years, maybe she's become a mature adult." I guess I was wrong eh?

[at1212b]

This was a bad one and I wasn't even trying. Back in the High School days, a few friends are over. One friend, a girl wants to set me up with her friend. I really don't want to at that moment. Never even met her. She calls her friend, and hands the phone to me.

'm in a really awkward position, I feel awkward.. even when she's handing the phone to me, she's like "Here!!". Me: shaking my head 'no no'. Hands to me anyways. All my friends also egging me on.

They all take off since we were going somewhere. I'm now on the phone with her. It's really awkward. Shortly after, she says "hold on" and goes on the other line. I hold for about 5 mins, she still doesn't come back. I just hang up and catch up with my friends.

[djemzine]

Thanks everyone for the kind words.
Let me be clear - I've given up on my family being 'normal' or 'good'.

I've taken to 'adopting' family from the friends I have, that I think (know) I can trust. It works well.

You're most welcome.

[kingrukus]

I whipped out a 2 can dine for $5.99 coupon on my last date. The girl started yelling about how she is all highclass and how I need to treat her like a real man, blah blah blah. I asked her to get infront of my car and check to see if the headlights were working, then I ran her over and drove home. She got rejected in the end, not me.

[XtremeModder]

I feel bad for dishing out a really bad rejection but it was in grade 5 in my defence, I said to her:

Roses are red
Violets are blue
Garbage is dumped
And so are you

I still feel bad till this day, she doesn't even remember it (allegedly).

I got it bad myself when I fell completely for this girl who had to be one of the prettiest girls I've ever met and everything was great for the first couple weeks then she just stopped talking to me, this was after she begged me never to leave her.. lol. Girls are evil :(

Try this:

Roses are red
So is my bed
So shut the **** up
And give me some _____

[Nook]

What is the worst way someone rejected you? My worst actually wasn't when asking someone out, it was actually during the date! I came up with what I thought would be a neat date idea and she was insulted by the idea and asked me to drive her back home.

Btw my date idea (first part of it) was for us to go to Walmart and buy each other very cheap (max $15) gift that represented something about one another. It was sort of a surprise but when we arrived at Walmart she blew a fuse about how she is too high class to step into Walmart and all of this Ballony. Lol made it worse that I sort of laughed at her rediculous statements so she got even more mad and asked me to drive her back home. Btw it was only the first phase of the date and it was supposed to be fun. Lesson learned though - LGs hate Walmart.

What is your worst rejection story? It can be an initial rejection or a rejection on the first few dates. Should be fun!

After her little tantrum, you actually gave her a ride? :facepalm:

[wilsonlam97]

I whipped out a 2 can dine for $5.99 coupon on my last date. The girl started yelling about how she is all highclass and how I need to treat her like a real man, blah blah blah. I asked her to get infront of my car and check to see if the headlights were working, then I ran her over and drove home. She got rejected in the end, not me.

Police. Arrest this man.

lol jk but... yeah. b1tches be crazy!

[wilsonlam97]

LMAO - you thought you guys were a couple? WTF is this - how far did you get with her and why did you let your friend hug and kiss your "GF" in front of you. That's sad bro...and im being nice too

Yeah man! Man up!

THERE WILL ME MORE LGs. That saying always cheers me up :D

[wilsonlam97]

i was always rejected normally, nothing bad, or mabye im just numb to rejections now.

Anyways

If this girl I rejected was on RFD she would totally write about it in this thread.

During the grade 7 school dance all the guys and I weren't really dancing, we were just ***** around grinding on couples that were dancing. HAHAHA.... I used to be a chubby lttle fattie back than and I got tired from the all da grinding so I found a place to site down with some friends. Before the next song started, this girl asked me to dance with her, after she was rejected by my friend earlier during the dance. I was like errr okay, lets dance .....baaabee. And I stood up, facing her. I was ready to boogie. But right as the song started, I ran away. out of the gym. I duno why, I just ran lol....SHE WAS PISSED. We went to the same highschool after, and whenever we passed each other in the hall, I would get the meanest stare ever from her and I really deserve it and I still feel bad about it till this day lol...

I've sympathized for every story so far. :cry:

[ovechkin1]

walked up to a girl, said wana f*** she said no.

[wilsonlam97]

walked up to a girl, said wana f*** she said no.

I swear that's the best way LOL

Plain, simple and easy. I mean at the end of the day if the answer is yes, you've already reached your primary goal.

[Nook]

Met this girl this one time at a supermarket who was maybe 5-7 years older than me. I started chatting her up about the coconuts she was buying and eventually we got each other's numbers. After a few weeks of hitting it off, we agree to meet back at her place to "watch a movie." I had groomed myself and all that day so I head over, and as she lets me in, she has this seductive smile on her face and is showing more cleavage than usual.

After some pizza and a few minutes of the movie, there is some tension so she leads me to her room from the couch. As I enter the room, she heads to the bathroom to freshen up. I look around to witness the novels she reads neatly organized, her fragrance collection and a picture of her family that she left when she was younger. As I look closer at the photo, I notice the baby in the mother's arms looks familiar. After some more examination, I notice that the baby is me and she must be my long lost sister!! So before she could come out from the bathroom, I just took my jacket and ran the hell outta there.

True story.

[angy]

When I was 13, I had my first love, there was nobody that compared to my baby and nobody came between us or could ever come above she had me going crazy, oh, I was star-struck, she woke me up daily, don’t need no Starbucks. she made my heart pound, it skipped a beat when I see her in the street and at school on the playground but I really wanna see her on the weekend. she knows she got me dazing cause she was so amazing and now my heart is breaking but I just keep on saying...

[Nook]

When I was 13, I had my first love, there was nobody that compared to my baby and nobody came between us or could ever come above she had me going crazy, oh, I was star-struck, she woke me up daily, don’t need no Starbucks. she made my heart pound, it skipped a beat when I see her in the street and at school on the playground but I really wanna see her on the weekend. she knows she got me dazing cause she was so amazing and now my heart is breaking but I just keep on saying...

Ooh baby baby baby oooohhhh. :D

[Ziggy007]

What is the worst way someone rejected you? My worst actually wasn't when asking someone out, it was actually during the date! I came up with what I thought would be a neat date idea and she was insulted by the idea and asked me to drive her back home.

Btw my date idea (first part of it) was for us to go to Walmart and buy each other very cheap (max $15) gift that represented something about one another. It was sort of a surprise but when we arrived at Walmart she blew a fuse about how she is too high class to step into Walmart and all of this Ballony. Lol made it worse that I sort of laughed at her rediculous statements so she got even more mad and asked me to drive her back home. Btw it was only the first phase of the date and it was supposed to be fun. Lesson learned though - LGs hate Walmart.

What is your worst rejection story? It can be an initial rejection or a rejection on the first few dates. Should be fun!

To be fair that is an awful date idea.

You need to work on your game brah, because it sounds like you have none

[Manatus]

I swear that's the best way LOL

Plain, simple and easy. I mean at the end of the day if the answer is yes, you've already reached your primary goal.

I remember reading an article about someone talking about a friend of his who wasn't smart, good looking, rich or fun to be around, yet who always seemed to find a "companion" every time they went out... just because he kept asking that question (maybe not that specific question) over and over to basically every girl he saw. The moral of the story is why should you care if you get rejected harshly 99 times, when all you need is one person to say yes and then you're golden.

[ji2o0k]

Maybe not the worst rejection ever but there was this red-head girl that I met through a mutual friend....we started seeing each other for a few weeks..

She is cute, athletic...we have similar interests, find each other attractive, enjoy each other's company and even play the same sports (tennis)...so things are progressing well.......we are getting "closer" and I even cooked for her....

Then one day, there was an article in the Star about welfare and she was complaining about the article slant/bias....we start discussing politics and I find out she is really right-wing...doesn't believe in the role of government and only free markets etc..

And with me being raised in Canada, I take the more middle-ground stance...

Anyways, the day after the discussion, we talk on the phone after work and she tells me "I can't be with someone that doesn't share the same political view as me"...

I was a little stunned, things were going so well too...her views were pretty extreme but I didn't think we were that different (I mean I was right of middle and she was far right)...

That was the last I heard from her.......

C'est la vie...

[mech9t5]

I might get laughed at but... what's an LG?

[diggler649]

I might get laughed at but... what's an LG?

Korean conglomerate. They make appliances, cell phones, TV's, etc.

[vaportech]

Lg is pronounced elllllll gee long ellllll short gee.

[mech9t5]

Korean conglomerate. They make appliances, cell phones, TV's, etc.

let me rephrase the question.

What is LG in the context of this thread ("LGs hate Walmart")? If it is LG the corporation, what is the connection between the Lucky Goldstar corporation and women?

[diggler649]

let me rephrase the question.

What is LG in the context of this thread ("LGs hate Walmart")? If it is LG the corporation, what is the connection between the Lucky Goldstar corporation and women?

LG's are "little girls". You know those Hello Kitty types that giggle on the escalator whenever a white guy tries to talk to them. FACT.

[renoldman]

LGs are Little Girls.

Basically they are females who have always relied on Daddy for everything. They haven't grown up because they always rely on someone for something.

If you can't give them what they need, they will find another Daddy.

If you can, they will give you a good time.

What you thought girls were interested in personality? LOL.

[Wilmega]

This happened in Highschool - some friends told me this girl liked me and talked about me all year. Last week of school I decided to ask her out. I asked her if I could talk to her - so we walked through the hallway. I never asked a girl out and had no idea what to say to her...so their was some extreme awkward silence between us. As we walked outside all I could think of to say "Hey I wrote a song for you.....roses are red violets are blue, sugar is sweet and so are you...do you wanna go out?"

Completely improvised on the spot. Her response "umm well..you're always playing video games when i talk to you on msn" She gave me her number though ...but I never called. Looking back still gives me shivers - I talked to her a few years later. Apparently my friends lied when they said she liked me. It was a good learning experience though. I'll never recite another poem to a girl as long as shall live. Damn it I hated my socially awkard highschool days.

[whampoa]

I whipped out a 2 can dine for $5.99 coupon on my last date. The girl started yelling about how she is all highclass and how I need to treat her like a real man, blah blah blah. I asked her to get infront of my car and check to see if the headlights were working, then I ran her over and drove home. She got rejected in the end, not me.

Do you have an outstanding warrant for hit and run, and failure to remain at the scene of an accident?

[uber_shnitz]

What you thought girls were interested in personality? LOL.
What you thought guys were any more interested in personality? LOL.

[Tabooger]

Back in hs, this girl was always competing with me on tests and assignments. She would sarcastically make fun of me, would hang out with me at the lockers, physically poke and prod at me with her finger, and all my friends who would hang out with me thought she was totally into me. I didn't realize it much till a friend pointed to how oblivious I was, and she was smart, funny, witty, and average looking imo, so I asked her out...she flat out said no :facepalm:

I think I rejected someone just last week, this girl is always calling me everyday to come over, after work, during weekends. I have zero interest in her look wise or personality wise, so flat out said to stop calling me. she stopped but still whatsapps me...:|

[Aznsilvrboy]

Wtf guys, anything except a yes is a no:

No = No
Maybe = No

:facepalm:

[d182]

Anyways, the day after the discussion, we talk on the phone after work and she tells me "I can't be with someone that doesn't share the same political view as me"...

I was a little stunned, things were going so well too...her views were pretty extreme but I didn't think we were that different (I mean I was right of middle and she was far right)...

That was the last I heard from her.......

C'est la vie...

hahaha Awesome story. I suppose that's why political discussions should be a no-no before one has 'sealed the deal'. :D


LGs are Little Girls.

Basically they are females who have always relied on Daddy for everything. They haven't grown up because they always rely on someone for something.

If you can't give them what they need, they will find another Daddy.

If you can, they will give you a good time.

What you thought girls were interested in personality? LOL.

Edit: Damn, who came up with this? lol. And where does one meet such LGs? The ladies I know are mostly independent, stable jobs and buy their own 'luxury items.' This includes my gf!

[iEyeCaptain]

Wtf guys, anything except a yes is a no:

No = No
Maybe = No

:facepalm:

+1

The judge made this very clear to me, too.

[dragon_drift]

Got rejected 3 times from the same friend over the course of about 2 years.

$%&@!

First 2 times, she was out of the country, the 3rd time, she ignored.

http://i1.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/003/619/Untitled-1.jpg

[LaserEnvy]

One time I worked up enough courage to talk to a girl. I asked her a question to initiate small talk, then she rolled her eyes, gave a one word answer and walked away. That's as close as I've ever come to having a gf. :(

[wilsonlam97]

Got rejected 3 times from the same friend over the course of about 2 years.

$%&@!

First 2 times, she was out of the country, the 3rd time, she ignored.

http://i1.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/003/619/Untitled-1.jpg

There will always be more LGs.

[dragon_drift]

There will always be more LGs.

True, but she was special though. Oh wells. I'll settle for pmall lg's now...

[wilsonlam97]

True, but she was special though. Oh wells. I'll settle for pmall lg's now...

Oh bro. I meant that regardless.

[dragon_drift]

Oh bro. I meant that regardless.

word.

[spike1128]

+1

The judge made this very clear to me, too.

Clearly there is a lot of fellow RFD friends who don't know this. No is a No. Maybe is a No. Complete silence is a NO. Chicks can be so cruel sometimes.

At least some RFD friends has their right hand as their friends.

[Psubs]

When I was 13, I was clueless.

So, me and my friend were balling on the court. It got late and most of the kids left and one of the girlies stuck around and we chatted. My friend goes to me, okay let's shoot to see who asks her for her number. I eventually won, so he took off but my ride was coming. I talked a little bit more but chickened out and parted ways. :facepalm::facepalm::facepalm:

Friend through a University club asked me out but wasn't attracted at all and declined and a year later she got leukemia and died. :confused:

Around 5-6 years ago went out with my sister's co-worker and things were progressing but I wasn't developing feelings for her. She was going to make me pasta at her place for our next date and decided to break things off before having sex if I didn't fin her attractive enough and don't think I would've. Around a year or 2 later, she's dead, not sure if it was depression\suicide\or brain anuerism rumour.

[wilsonlam97]

When I was 13, I was clueless.

So, me and my friend were balling on the court. It got late and most of the kids left and one of the girlies stuck around and we chatted. My friend goes to me, okay let's shoot to see who asks her for her number. I eventually won, so he took off but my ride was coming. I talked a little bit more but chickened out and parted ways. :facepalm::facepalm::facepalm:

Friend through a University club asked me out but wasn't attracted at all and declined and a year later she got leukemia and died. :confused:

Around 5-6 years ago went out with my sister's co-worker and things were progressing but I wasn't developing feelings for her. She was going to make me pasta at her place for our next date and decided to break things off before having sex if I didn't fin her attractive enough and don't think I would've. Around a year or 2 later, she's dead, not sure if it was depression\suicide\or brain anuerism rumour.

Wait what? People are dying on you? This is horrible.

[wilsonlam97]

Clearly there is a lot of fellow RFD friends who don't know this. No is a No. Maybe is a No. Complete silence is a NO. Chicks can be so cruel sometimes.

At least some RFD friends has their right hand as their friends.

+1

[ji2o0k]

Friend through a University club asked me out but wasn't attracted at all and declined and a year later she got leukemia and died. :confused:

Around 5-6 years ago went out with my sister's co-worker and things were progressing but I wasn't developing feelings for her. She was going to make me pasta at her place for our next date and decided to break things off before having sex if I didn't fin her attractive enough and don't think I would've. Around a year or 2 later, she's dead, not sure if it was depression\suicide\or brain anuerism rumour.Dood...you are the true "ladykiller"...

Literally!

[peanutz]

Oh Psubs, that is really sad and reminds me of something similar.

About 4-5 years ago there was this boy who really wanted to be friends with me but I found him annoying so I avoided him and I refused to add him to anything that could help him keep in touch with me. About a year later I found out he died, from suicide or drug overdose or both. I didn't know him too well but the shock and the guilt really hit me for a few days.

There was no way I could have known that he might be unhappy, though. He was very energetic and loud (it made me weary to be around him).

[whampoa]

Dood...you are the true "ladykiller"...

Literally!

Maybe he's drop dead gorgeous to the lady.

[LaserEnvy]

Oh Psubs, that is really sad and reminds me of something similar.

About 4-5 years ago there was this boy who really wanted to be friends with me but I found him annoying so I avoided him and I refused to add him to anything that could help him keep in touch with me. About a year later I found out he died, from suicide or drug overdose or both. I didn't know him too well but the shock and the guilt really hit me for a few days.

There was no way I could have known that he might be unhappy, though. He was very energetic and loud (it made me weary to be around him).

lol! For a few days.

[peanutz]

lol! For a few days.Yes. Like I said, I didn't know him too well. But if I'd known he was very unhappy and needed me as a friend I would have been there.

Am I supposed to bear this cross for eternity? Please.

[ji2o0k]

About 4-5 years ago there was this boy who really wanted to be friends with me but I found him annoying so I avoided him and I refused to add him to anything that could help him keep in touch with me. About a year later I found out he died, from suicide or drug overdose or both. I didn't know him too well but the shock and the guilt really hit me for a few days.


lol! For a few days.lol! Until she got her new copy of Rockband and started jammin' all day and all night....

[peanutz]

lol! Until she got her new copy of Rockband and started jammin' all day and all night....Yeah, that's what happened.

Seriously, though. The one friend who saw me crying at the news told me to get a grip and realize that I could not have been the sole factor, or even perhaps a factor at all. But yeah, it still bugs me to this day to think I could have made a difference in someone's life, had I known about his troubles. I did not know he did drugs or was unhappy. People don't open up.

[sylpherware]

Someone should PM Deals^3 about this thread. I'm sure he'll have some interesting stories to tell :lol:

[renoldman]

Edit: Damn, who came up with this? lol. And where does one meet such LGs? The ladies I know are mostly independent, stable jobs and buy their own 'luxury items.' This includes my gf!

Independent = Not an LG.

LGs are for Ballers.

That's why taking an LG to a Wal-Mart is stupid.

It's trollish behaviour.

If you want an LG basically your wallet needs to be bottomless.

You could ask your mother or father to support your LG addiction, in fact I am pretty sure that we have a few here who do just that on RFD.

[spike1128]

Yeah, that's what happened.

Seriously, though. The one friend who saw me crying at the news told me to get a grip and realize that I could not have been the sole factor, or even perhaps a factor at all. But yeah, it still bugs me to this day to think I could have made a difference in someone's life, had I known about his troubles. I did not know he did drugs or was unhappy. People don't open up.

Peanutz, no need to eternal think it's somehow your fault. Trust me, us humans we are pretty smart to convince ourselves that is not our fault and can totally get over it. I am sure you are a good person to think that you could have saved him, well you could have. Next time you can make a difference in someone else's life, so the next one don't end up dying on you.

Psub just has death written all over him. Better not be his friend, or we will die too LoL :).

I know a friend who had their dying friend call her up before her suicide, the friend said she didn't bother to pick up the phone call. The girl end up dead. She end up saying the same thing, "if only I pick up that phone call". Then she went on her marry way to her own happy life. Meanwhile, some of my friends are still insensitive as ever and don't give a rat's @ss about anybody else, and self justify their evil deeds.

[rsasp]

What is the worst way someone rejected you? My worst actually wasn't when asking someone out, it was actually during the date! I came up with what I thought would be a neat date idea and she was insulted by the idea and asked me to drive her back home.

Btw my date idea (first part of it) was for us to go to Walmart and buy each other very cheap (max $15) gift that represented something about one another. It was sort of a surprise but when we arrived at Walmart she blew a fuse about how she is too high class to step into Walmart and all of this Ballony. Lol made it worse that I sort of laughed at her rediculous statements so she got even more mad and asked me to drive her back home. Btw it was only the first phase of the date and it was supposed to be fun. Lesson learned though - LGs hate Walmart.

What is your worst rejection story? It can be an initial rejection or a rejection on the first few dates. Should be fun!

Actually you are luck that things didn't turn out well.
Because girls like that are spoiled, you will have a nightmare if you ever want to get into marriage.

[Tabooger]

The worst one is rejection by friend zone. I've had a couple of girls who would re-iterate how great friends we are whenever something serious happens, then you just lose hope that they'd want to go out with you. Some girls you can be friends with, but some you just can't after you get feelings for her lol

[Kunman]

The worst one is rejection by friend zone. I've had a couple of girls who would re-iterate how great friends we are whenever something serious happens, then you just lose hope that they'd want to go out with you. Some girls you can be friends with, but some you just can't after you get feelings for her lol

+1

[ben_liu]

Got rejected 3 times from the same friend over the course of about 2 years.

$%&@!

First 2 times, she was out of the country, the 3rd time, she ignored.

http://i1.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/003/619/Untitled-1.jpg

Don't worry DD, I got you. Pick a girl and she's yours ;)

[kamilio]

Actually you are luck that things didn't turn out well.
Because girls like that are spoiled, you will have a nightmare if you ever want to get into marriage.

Lol Marriage? Hell no - this girl def wasn't marriage material if you know what I mean.

[LaserEnvy]

The worst one is rejection by friend zone. I've had a couple of girls who would re-iterate how great friends we are whenever something serious happens, then you just lose hope that they'd want to go out with you. Some girls you can be friends with, but some you just can't after you get feelings for her lol

I think when a girl puts you in the friend zone, they are stringing you along becaus, subconsciously, it boosts their egos and gives them a possible safety net.

[spike1128]

Lol Marriage? Hell no - this girl def wasn't marriage material if you know what I mean.

You are saying you just want to tab that?

[EbonyRose]

Don't worry DD, I got you. Pick a girl and she's yours ;)

He wants your cousin :lol:

[XtremeModder]

Someone should PM Deals^3 about this thread. I'm sure he'll have some interesting stories to tell :lol:

Haha yea where is he? He always has a thread about not knowing what to do next with whatever girl he's talking about.

[Psubs]

Wait what? People are dying on you? This is horrible.

I couldn't even bring myself to go to the funeral for the first one with the other exec of the club. :(


Dood...you are the true "ladykiller"...

Literally!:confused:


Oh Psubs, that is really sad and reminds me of something similar.

About 4-5 years ago there was this boy who really wanted to be friends with me but I found him annoying so I avoided him and I refused to add him to anything that could help him keep in touch with me. About a year later I found out he died, from suicide or drug overdose or both. I didn't know him too well but the shock and the guilt really hit me for a few days.

There was no way I could have known that he might be unhappy, though. He was very energetic and loud (it made me weary to be around him).

That was the 2nd one. Just wondered if the rejection had any part with her being more depressed. :(

Yikes, these things don't happen in 3's, right. :-0

[Supercooled]

Shoulx have just made that high society wannabe take tge bus, dumbass.


I asked a girl out and she gave me her number which was 967-1111.. I got the hint and just said "oh ok.. Well played".


What is the worst way someone rejected you? My worst actually wasn't when asking someone out, it was actually during the date! I came up with what I thought would be a neat date idea and she was insulted by the idea and asked me to drive her back home.

Btw my date idea (first part of it) was for us to go to Walmart and buy each other very cheap (max $15) gift that represented something about one another. It was sort of a surprise but when we arrived at Walmart she blew a fuse about how she is too high class to step into Walmart and all of this Ballony. Lol made it worse that I sort of laughed at her rediculous statements so she got even more mad and asked me to drive her back home. Btw it was only the first phase of the date and it was supposed to be fun. Lesson learned though - LGs hate Walmart.

What is your worst rejection story? It can be an initial rejection or a rejection on the first few dates. Should be fun!

[Canada_7]

I'm Chinese and I didn't understand what a LG was until I read it on RFD. I don't understand the appeal of one though. To each their own I guess.

[Kunman]

if girls want to give out phony numbers they should only give out:

416-733-8544

or

647.344.7867

[Psubs]

if girls want to give out phony numbers they should only give out:

416-733-8544

or

647.344.7867

Rejection hotline? Are they still operational?

[Kunman]

Rejection hotline? Are they still operational?

lol u should serch up the numbers

[angy]

i feel offended for the girl that you brought her to walmart :cheesygri serious

[bobbings]

Who pick those? I would pick out something that is sentimental to the guy!

Trojans, Nuff said

[kamilio]

i feel offended for the girl that you brought her to walmart :cheesygri serious

Pfft you must be an LG

[Supercooled]

I'm Chinese and I didn't understand what a LG was until I read it on RFD. I don't understand the appeal of one though. To each their own I guess.

Whats it mean?

[kamilio]

I'm Chinese and I didn't understand what a LG was until I read it on RFD. I don't understand the appeal of one though. To each their own I guess.

You Chinese and you no know what is LG. You no baller my compadre.

You no real Chinese Mi compadre.

[dragon_drift]

Don't worry DD, I got you. Pick a girl and she's yours ;)

Not handsome like you, benny. :o


He wants your cousin :lol:

Shh, stop exposing!

[Psubs]

Shoulx have just made that high society wannabe take tge bus, dumbass.


I asked a girl out and she gave me her number which was 967-1111.. I got the hint and just said "oh ok.. Well played".

You should've said "no creamy garlic sauce for you!". :razz:

[Ironsmack]

When i was 13 (or 14, can't remember) i had this huge crush on this girl that is 2 years older than me. At the time i knew she had a BF, but that didnt stop me.

Valentines day was coming up and i wanted to get her something. I only get allowances every week. So i saved up, didnt buy lunch or anything for almost 2 months and bought her a small teddy bear, a box of chocolate (cant remember) and a bouquet of red roses. So the beginning of classes, i told my friend to give it too her (since i chickened out) and my friend came back a few hours later to come see me. I asked her if she liked it, my friend said my crush took it and gave the box of chocolate and teddy bear to someone else. I asked her, what happened to the flowers?

My friend hesitated and told me to meet her later at lunch.

Went to see my friend at lunch and she showed me the flowers. It was in a garbage bin. I took the box outside the bin and looked inside. They were cut up and put back in the box.

That one hurt.

I think thats the worst rejection i ever had.

[SkimGuy]

When i was 13 (or 14, can't remember) i had this huge crush on this girl that is 2 years older than me. At the time i knew she had a BF, but that didnt stop me.

Valentines day was coming up and i wanted to get her something. I only get allowances every week. So i saved up, didnt buy lunch or anything for almost 2 months and bought her a small teddy bear, a box of chocolate (cant remember) and a bouquet of red roses. So the beginning of classes, i told my friend to give it too her (since i chickened out) and my friend came back a few hours later to come see me. I asked her if she liked it, my friend said my crush took it and gave the box of chocolate and teddy bear to someone else. I asked her, what happened to the flowers?

My friend hesitated and told me to meet her later at lunch.

Went to see my friend at lunch and she showed me the flowers. It was in a garbage bin. I took the box outside the bin and looked inside. They were cut up and put back in the box.

That one hurt.

I think thats the worst rejection i ever had.

Ouch :(

[tsxnation]

.

[qmelley]

Was never good in talking so i put it into words and delivered the letter at her door step. she read it, cried and slammed the door. Boom! That's the story of my life

[LaserEnvy]

Was never good in talking so i put it into words and delivered the letter at her door step. she read it, cried and slammed the door. Boom! That's the story of my life

Why did she cry

[dankup]

I guess this qualifies as my worst rejection ever because it's my only one - ever. Nevertheless, I'll tell the story. I was into this girl in high school, grade 11 to be exact. I started liking her but didn't say anything to anyone and we kept being good friends. Grade 12 came around and I was really into her but kept quiet. It seemed like she started giving me signs too (I was wrong however). I kept making excuses up like I need to get some money for a date first and I need my G2, etc. Time went on and mid grade 12 I got my G2 and had a few thousand in the bank by that time.. I had no excuses lol. Still, I didn't ask her to prom (and didn't go myself) and lost contact with her all through the summer and into 1st half of 1st year at university (she moved cities to live on res). We started chatting online again a few weeks before winter break and I asked her if she wanted to hang out during the break - she said sure. I knew this was the time to do it. We hung out before during high school (ice skating) so I thought we would do it again (she's a great skater, I'm a good skater, lol). I knew where we were going to go but parking was a problem (not allowed on streets) so I got a buddy of mine to hook us up with a couple visitor passes in his condo across the street (smart thinking!!). I remember she liked getting hot chocolate after the skate in grade 11/12 so I thought I'd welcome her after not seeing her for ~6 months with one :) The idiot I am, it was Christmas Eve and all the Timmies were closed. I finally found one after circling block after block. I figured she'd changed or something after a bit of university and I might back down but no she was still the same (save all the she looked beautiful, I couldn't help but smile at her stuff). Really happy I got her that hot choco and off we went. Skated for an hour with non stop talking and story after story and decided to call it a day. Going back to our cars I told her I had a big crush on her in grade 12. She asked if I still do, I said yes and asked her out but she said no :( We decided not to make it awkward for each other and to not mention it to our friends and remain on good terms. We rarely talk but neither of us feel awkward when it does happen. To be honest I think I did everything right (even if it was my first time). Mind you it was her first time being asked out too. We met up a few days later cause I had to "let my feelings go" at a Starbucks. Luckily, I had good friends who took me out that week not to make me feel like s**t.

[wilsonlam97]

I guess this qualifies as my worst rejection ever because it's my only one - ever. Nevertheless, I'll tell the story. I was into this girl in high school, grade 11 to be exact. I started liking her but didn't say anything to anyone and we kept being good friends. Grade 12 came around and I was really into her but kept quiet. It seemed like she started giving me signs too (I was wrong however). I kept making excuses up like I need to get some money for a date first and I need my G2, etc. Time went on and mid grade 12 I got my G2 and had a few thousand in the bank by that time.. I had no excuses lol. Still, I didn't ask her to prom (and didn't go myself) and lost contact with her all through the summer and into 1st half of 1st year at university (she moved cities to live on res). We started chatting online again a few weeks before winter break and I asked her if she wanted to hang out during the break - she said sure. I knew this was the time to do it. We hung out before during high school (ice skating) so I thought we would do it again (she's a great skater, I'm a good skater, lol). I knew where we were going to go but parking was a problem (not allowed on streets) so I got a buddy of mine to hook us up with a couple visitor passes in his condo across the street (smart thinking!!). I remember she liked getting hot chocolate after the skate in grade 11/12 so I thought I'd welcome her after not seeing her for ~6 months with one :) The idiot I am, it was Christmas Eve and all the Timmies were closed. I finally found one after circling block after block. I figured she'd changed or something after a bit of university and I might back down but no she was still the same (save all the she looked beautiful, I couldn't help but smile at her stuff). Really happy I got her that hot choco and off we went. Skated for an hour with non stop talking and story after story and decided to call it a day. Going back to our cars I told her I had a big crush on her in grade 12. She asked if I still do, I said yes and asked her out but she said no :( We decided not to make it awkward for each other and to not mention it to our friends and remain on good terms. We rarely talk but neither of us feel awkward when it does happen. To be honest I think I did everything right (even if it was my first time). Mind you it was her first time being asked out too. We met up a few days later cause I had to "let my feelings go" at a Starbucks. Luckily, I had good friends who took me out that week not to make me feel like s**t.

Give me a hug brah.

[dankup]

Give me a hug brah.

:)

[Royalsoldier]

Many of you mentioned the friend-zone rejection, which is something I completely avoid.

I will only attempt to upgrade a friendship to a relationship if I know with a 100% certainty that she will say yes.

The risk is just too great. It will potentially destroy your friendship and you'll be haunted by humiliating/embarrassing memories for the rest of your life.

[dankup]

Many of you mentioned the friend-zone rejection, which is something I completely avoid.

I will only attempt to upgrade a friendship to a relationship if I know with a 100% certainty that she will say yes.

The risk is just too great. It will potentially destroy your friendship and you'll be haunted by humiliating/embarrassing memories for the rest of your life.

Lol

[DGTD]

Lol

If you don't take the initiative/risk.. you won't get anything of quality. I have enough experience to know that if you want a quality girl, you're going to have to take some risks. Sometimes it doesn't work out, but it just takes one yes to overshadow all the unsuccesful attempts.

GL guys.

[sweeper]

Next time you guys want to hook up with your female friends just go:

" ______________, I'm so glad we're just friends."

They go ape.

When they ask why just act coy and if they really press you for an answer:

"Because you're so nice." *smirk*

3/3 for me so far.

But in regards to the topic, worst rejection I've had ... she basically stopped responding to my texts/calls but kept liking my Facebook status updates. Weird.

[iEyeCaptain]

Next time you guys want to hook up with your female friends just go:

" ______________, I'm so glad we're just friends."

They go ape.

When they ask why just act coy and if they really press you for an answer:

"Because you're so nice." *smirk*

3/3 for me so far.

But in regards to the topic, worst rejection I've had ... she basically stopped responding to my texts/calls but kept liking my Facebook status updates. Weird.

Do you have her old phone number?

Perhaps she's all forever arone at home, wondering why sweeper won't respond to her numerous hints of liking your posts.

[sweeper]

Do you have her old phone number?

Perhaps she's all forever arone at home, wondering why sweeper won't respond to her numerous hints of liking your posts.

Of course. Even tried messaging her ON Facebook but to no avail. She is a strange one.

[wilsonlam97]

Of course. Even tried messaging her ON Facebook but to no avail. She is a strange one.

that's some kind of backwards logic.

[mysticalinfluence]

that's some kind of backwards logic.

:facepalm: Texting and facebook messaging a women to talk to her. Now I see why he got rejected. This shows his lack of confidance and the alpha always gets his prey.

[sweeper]

:facepalm: Texting and facebook messaging a women to talk to her. Now I see why he got rejected. This shows his lack of confidance and the alpha always gets his prey.

Maybe you missed the part where I said I called her. Anyways I only Facebook messaged her once and forgot about her the day after.

And for someone so "alpha" you sure had a hard time spelling confidence.

[dragon_drift]

Of course. Even tried messaging her ON Facebook but to no avail. She is a strange one.

http://partner-ad.photobucket.com/albums/kk36/psycoyami/i_hug_that_feel.png

[wilsonlam97]

:facepalm: Texting and facebook messaging a women to talk to her. Now I see why he got rejected. This shows his lack of confidance and the alpha always gets his prey.

No but she kept liking his statuses like wtf

[Psubs]

Going back to our cars I told her I had a big crush on her in grade 12. She asked if I still do, I said yes and asked her out but she said no :( We decided not to make it awkward for each other and to not mention it to our friends and remain on good terms. We rarely talk but neither of us feel awkward when it does happen. To be honest I think I did everything right (even if it was my first time). Mind you it was her first time being asked out too. We met up a few days later cause I had to "let my feelings go" at a Starbucks. Luckily, I had good friends who took me out that week not to make me feel like s**t.

Huh? Seems like asking if still do, she wanted the ego boost. :mad:

[Mrbj]

My worst one:

I dated this chick for almost a year, and one day she tells me she loves my brother and wants to get married with him; BUT we could still be very good friends b.s. etc.

At that point it seemed like "end of the world" to me. Needless to say, she was in- touch with my brother who was seeing her while she was dating me…and who eventually never married her.

She tried to contact me several times but I was very mad and never spoken to her ever again. I could never understand who to blame though, my brother or this girl. But I was a student with no money and my brother had a good job.

Anyway, as they say bros before hxes… even though I can't believe my bro didn't think this way…but I didn't want to lose my brother for a chick. Life goes on, but that incident changed my views big time and turned into f*** and forget kind of person afterwards.

Edit...and oh. to balance this off, I did her married sister till I found a job away from town.

[4flava]

My worst one:

I dated this chick for almost a year, and one day she tells me she loves my brother and wants to get married with him; BUT we could still be very good friends b.s. etc.

At that point it seemed like "end of the world" to me. Needless to say, she was in- touch with my brother who was seeing her while she was dating me…and who eventually never married her.

She tried to contact me several times but I was very mad and never spoken to her ever again. I could never understand who to blame though, my brother or this girl. But I was a student with no money and my brother had a good job.

Anyway, as they say bros before hxes… even though I can't believe my bro didn't think this way…but I didn't want to lose my brother for a chick. Life goes on, but that incident changed my views big time and turned into f*** and forget kind of person afterwards.

Edit...and oh. to balance this off, I did her married sister till I found a job away from town.

Apparently your brother didn't give 2 shats about you. :twisted:

[Mrbj]

Apparently your brother didn't give 2 shats about you. :twisted:

No kidding...but sadly he will be sharing some fine steaks off the Weber that I bought on that TDR sale.:lol:

[manixc]

My worst one:

I dated this chick for almost a year, and one day she tells me she loves my brother and wants to get married with him; BUT we could still be very good friends b.s. etc.

At that point it seemed like "end of the world" to me. Needless to say, she was in- touch with my brother who was seeing her while she was dating me…and who eventually never married her.

She tried to contact me several times but I was very mad and never spoken to her ever again. I could never understand who to blame though, my brother or this girl. But I was a student with no money and my brother had a good job.

Anyway, as they say bros before hxes… even though I can't believe my bro didn't think this way…but I didn't want to lose my brother for a chick. Life goes on, but that incident changed my views big time and turned into f*** and forget kind of person afterwards.

Edit...and oh. to balance this off, I did her married sister till I found a job away from town.
Bro as in your actual related brother? And not friend bro?


Wow harsh!

[peanutz]

My worst one:

I dated this chick for almost a year, and one day she tells me she loves my brother and wants to get married with him; BUT we could still be very good friends b.s. etc.

At that point it seemed like "end of the world" to me. Needless to say, she was in- touch with my brother who was seeing her while she was dating me…and who eventually never married her.

She tried to contact me several times but I was very mad and never spoken to her ever again. I could never understand who to blame though, my brother or this girl. But I was a student with no money and my brother had a good job.

Anyway, as they say bros before hxes… even though I can't believe my bro didn't think this way…but I didn't want to lose my brother for a chick. Life goes on, but that incident changed my views big time and turned into f*** and forget kind of person afterwards.

Edit...and oh. to balance this off, I did her married sister till I found a job away from town.
Wow, this one's really bad.

Sounds like she and your brother were also seeing each other behind your back. How does she just tell you one day that she "loves" your brother?

Yikes... I'm not a believer in being bitter about love but if this happened to me, I don't know.

[wilsonlam97]

My worst one:

I dated this chick for almost a year, and one day she tells me she loves my brother and wants to get married with him; BUT we could still be very good friends b.s. etc.

At that point it seemed like "end of the world" to me. Needless to say, she was in- touch with my brother who was seeing her while she was dating me…and who eventually never married her.

She tried to contact me several times but I was very mad and never spoken to her ever again. I could never understand who to blame though, my brother or this girl. But I was a student with no money and my brother had a good job.

Anyway, as they say bros before hxes… even though I can't believe my bro didn't think this way…but I didn't want to lose my brother for a chick. Life goes on, but that incident changed my views big time and turned into f*** and forget kind of person afterwards.

Edit...and oh. to balance this off, I did her married sister till I found a job away from town.

Damn that's just messed up.

[ji2o0k]

Anyway, as they say bros before hxes… even though I can't believe my bro didn't think this way…but I didn't want to lose my brother for a chick. Life goes on, but that incident changed my views big time and turned into f*** and forget kind of person afterwards.

Edit...and oh. to balance this off, I did her married sister till I found a job away from town.with the bolded and your username...did the experience turn you into liking doods?



Jk brah!! Crappy thing your bro did to you......I believe in what goes around comes around....

[dankup]

Huh? Seems like asking if still do, she wanted the ego boost. :mad:

To be honest I don't think so, it's not like her to WANT an ego boost. She asked if I still as a question before I could say "and I still do".

[Buggy166]

My worst one:

I dated this chick for almost a year, and one day she tells me she loves my brother

You shoulda told her, you love your brother too. LoveD now i guess.

[stevenvv]

What is the worst way someone rejected you? My worst actually wasn't when asking someone out, it was actually during the date! I came up with what I thought would be a neat date idea and she was insulted by the idea and asked me to drive her back home.

Btw my date idea (first part of it) was for us to go to Walmart and buy each other very cheap (max $15) gift that represented something about one another. It was sort of a surprise but when we arrived at Walmart she blew a fuse about how she is too high class to step into Walmart and all of this Ballony. Lol made it worse that I sort of laughed at her rediculous statements so she got even more mad and asked me to drive her back home. Btw it was only the first phase of the date and it was supposed to be fun. Lesson learned though - LGs hate Walmart.

What is your worst rejection story? It can be an initial rejection or a rejection on the first few dates. Should be fun!

DID YOU ACTUALLY BRING HER TO WALMART FOR A DATE ?:facepalm:

[iEyeCaptain]

DID YOU ACTUALLY BRING HER TO WALMART FOR A DATE ?:facepalm:

After 13 pages of debate, I believe it has been established that, yes, OP did in fact bring her to WalMart for a date.

The failure level of such action has also been judged by the peanut gallery known as RFD OT as FacePalm Level 5.

[IamSimplyMe]

One beautifull sunny summer day I met this guy in Oakville, downtown in a little pedestrian square, for a coffee meet.

Chatting nicely for a while and seeming friendly to each other, he says he has to go...okay, nice time, nice day anyway.

Then unasked for, he says he thinks this has been the nicest meeting and chat he has had with a woman after a year (on a dating site) and about 20 "dates". I am very flattered (and hopefull), he was very nice. He says he will be in touch.

Ummmm, still waiting...about 7 years later???

Seriously, if you have NO intentions DON'T say something soooo nice. I wasn't heart broken, but it was nice to hear him say that, I did not ask him for any flattery, afterall we just met each other. We were in our mid 40's at the time...he didn't act like a grown-up!!

Prince charming I'm here....still waiting for you

[Killer_Saves]

My first heartbreak and rejection was in grade 8. Had major crush on this girl from grade 6, 7 and 8. She had a bf in 6 and 7 then one she asks me out. Im so shocked I dont know what to say then she goes April fools and tells everyone. Lets just say not a good few days for me. Girls are so mean. lol

[LaserEnvy]

One beautifull sunny summer day I met this guy in Oakville, downtown in a little pedestrian square, for a coffee meet.

Chatting nicely for a while and seeming friendly to each other, he says he has to go...okay, nice time, nice day anyway.

Then unasked for, he says he thinks this has been the nicest meeting and chat he has had with a woman after a year (on a dating site) and about 20 "dates". I am very flattered (and hopefull), he was very nice. He says he will be in touch.

Ummmm, still waiting...about 7 years later???

Seriously, if you have NO intentions DON'T say something soooo nice. I wasn't heart broken, but it was nice to hear him say that, I did not ask him for any flattery, afterall we just met each other. We were in our mid 40's at the time...he didn't act like a grown-up!!

Prince charming I'm here....still waiting for you

This doesn't seem too harsh...but...uh...I think now might be a good time to let it go.

[Ziggy007]

One beautifull sunny summer day I met this guy in Oakville, downtown in a little pedestrian square, for a coffee meet.

Chatting nicely for a while and seeming friendly to each other, he says he has to go...okay, nice time, nice day anyway.

Then unasked for, he says he thinks this has been the nicest meeting and chat he has had with a woman after a year (on a dating site) and about 20 "dates". I am very flattered (and hopefull), he was very nice. He says he will be in touch.

Ummmm, still waiting...about 7 years later???

Seriously, if you have NO intentions DON'T say something soooo nice. I wasn't heart broken, but it was nice to hear him say that, I did not ask him for any flattery, afterall we just met each other. We were in our mid 40's at the time...he didn't act like a grown-up!!

Prince charming I'm here....still waiting for you

You're still waiting after 7 years?

Chances are he detected that you are a Stage 1,000,000 clinger and bolted at the first chance he got.

[spike1128]

After 13 pages of debate, I believe it has been established that, yes, OP did in fact bring her to WalMart for a date.

The failure level of such action has also been judged by the peanut gallery known as RFD OT as FacePalm Level 5.

I like your comment. :D

Yes RFD OT as FacePalm Level 5. So does the scale go up or down? How bad is level 5?

[Laflare]

This actually happened to me twice with different girls, no idea what happened.

Girl #1- we went out on a few dates and I thought things were going well....then one day she abruptly told me that maybe we should just be friends. A few days later, she got back together with her ex-bf....

Girl #2- went out on a few dates and I thought things were going really, really well. We were getting "closer" physically and relationship-wise...then after one Sunday afternoon when we went for walk around a popular downtown Toronto street and I dropped her off at home, she just dropped off the face of the earth.

Didn't return my calls, texts or VMs afterwards...it was so bizarre. If she wasn't into me, no problem- just tell me and end it there....it was the not knowing that was so hard. To this day, don't know what happened- though I do know she is around.....

There's your problem.. You went On a few dates,then went for a walk.. You should of already banged her by then..if you take too long girls will think your either boring or they get bored of you. That day was like the last chance to get back to her house

[CatDog]

What's an LG?

[uber_shnitz]

What's an LG?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=LG

[Aznsilvrboy]

What's an LG?

Little girls. A term used by pedophiles to describe their targets.

[CatDog]

Little girls. A term used by pedophiles to describe their targets.


Why do so many people on RFD want a little girl? That's creepy.

[tarumi]

What's an LG?

LG is short for little girl. Basically someone who depends on their sugar daddies for money.

Not a pedophile term like an uninformed RFDer was saying.:facepalm:

[wilsonlam97]

LG is short for little girl. Basically someone who depends on their sugar daddies for money.

Not a pedophile term like an uninformed RFDer was saying.:facepalm:

+1

[virgilaug]

That's a stupid idea (sorry) how can you buy something for either of you that represent anything when you know nothing about each other....

My worst rejection, was with this girl for 6 months. During dinner at a restaurant (after our food got there) she blurted out she didn't love me anymore.

I just left and drove home leaving her with the bill (was her idea to go out for dinner) as well as a 2+ hour walk home.

Awesome. She deserve it.

[15-20_God]

LG is short for little girl. Basically someone who depends on their sugar daddies for money.


Ironically, the term LG is most often used by LB's who depend on their daddies for money.

[sedated_xtc]

LG is short for little girl. Basically someone who depends on their sugar daddies for money.

Not a pedophile term like an uninformed RFDer was saying.:facepalm:


Ironically, the term LG is most often used by LB's who depend on their daddies for money.

But now my question is why would a guy want to date someone that's clearly in it with their shovel digging for gold (regardless of origin)? Is it because they don't have any other redeeming qualities that real, independent, women would find attractive?

[mbg]

The 500-metre radial smell of shoe rubber, well-preserved bread products, and garden fertilizer that comes from the entrance of a typical WalMart would give me a bad feeling about a date from the start, before I even got to the front door.

[ji2o0k]

There's your problem.. You went On a few dates,then went for a walk.. You should of already banged her by then..if you take too long girls will think your either boring or they get bored of you. That day was like the last chance to get back to her houseI have to admit, your point is quite valid...

When I think back at those girls, maybe I took it too slow....I should have went to home base when given the chance....

[iEyeCaptain]

But now my question is why would a guy want to date someone that's clearly in it with their shovel digging for gold (regardless of origin)? Is it because they don't have any other redeeming qualities that real, independent, women would find attractive?

Because they know that LGs are attracted to money only, so the guy does not need to have any redeeming qualities himself in order to get with her. All he needs to do is drive is a nice car and buy her fancy, shiny things.

And after he is "done" with her, he can move his money onto another LG.

The word "date" is used very loosely when "dating" LGs.

[sedated_xtc]

Because they know that LGs are attracted to money only, so the guy does not need to have any redeeming qualities himself in order to get with her. All he needs to do is drive is a nice car and buy her fancy, shiny things.

And after he is "done" with her, he can move his money onto another LG.

The word "date" is used very loosely when "dating" LGs.

But wouldn't it be cheaper just to be more awesome than it is to basically buy a part-time relationship?

[iEyeCaptain]

But wouldn't it be cheaper just to be more awesome than it is to basically buy a part-time relationship?

Explanation:

Too much effort.

Easier to throw money around.

PM me if you want more info, I don't want to be banned for thread derailing.

[ji2o0k]

But wouldn't it be cheaper just to be more awesome than it is to basically buy a part-time relationship?But then you wouldn't be a baller and have baller status...

[BluePhirePB]

inb4zomgursogheyyoudeservedit

This wasn't exactly the worst rejection but was totally my fault and hit me like a ton of bricks. I should have done a bit of recon before pulling off such a stupid stunt.

Back in 2000 (I was in grade 11, around 16 years old) there was this girl I met at the Christmas dance. The girl was beautiful and we really hit it off at the dance. We danced a slow song together and above feeling great, I also found out she had a great personality. She gave me her number and we flirted quite a bit. What really got me interested was her enjoyment of cars, calm nature and eyes. Anyway, over the Christmas break I decided I'd ask her out. I've failed numerous times before (skinny, short Chinese minority in a school of Caucasian jocks/preps) and decided (inb4ZOMGSUCHARACIST) since this girl was half Indian, half British, she'd be different from the others that bullied me. I'd done paper notes, phone calls and other stuff before to no success. Since this girl seemed to like my personality and in my opinion over looked my physical attritubes, I wanted to do something special that no other jock/prep could. I started talking to her friends and one of them said:

"I was reading YM magazine (some teen magazine, not sure if it's still around) and there was this story about this guy that really liked this girl so what he did was he went to each of her classes and before she arrived, he left a rose on her desk. He skipped the second last period and then at the end of the day, he stood by her locker with the last rose and said 'Sorry I forgot about period 4' and she was totally weak in the knees and went for him!"

My initial response was:

http://i47.tinypic.com/kc7qv.jpg

3 days later:

http://download.gamezone.com/uploads/image/data/1110768/challengeaccepted.jpg

So by the time I orchestrated everything, I planned to do it on the Friday, one week before the semi-formal/Valentine's Day dance. I planned my routes, desk positions, schedule, informed all her teachers (they all gushed and said it was romantic) and got out of all my classes 5 minutes early so I could put the roses on her desk. I even dressed up for it (blue dress shirt tucked into white dress pants with black dress shoes). I was invinsible that day and even the Korean jock that use to torment me couldn't bother me with his comments. I felt like a confident man that couldn't fail.

At lunch, I sat in a different area to eat since she usually sat around my group of friends. I noticed in her arms she had two of the four roses and all her female friends were gushing and she looked really happy. I thought the plan was going well.

End of the day rolls by and I waited by her locker with the final rose. I got her friend to delay her so it'd give me enough time to get to her locker. When she finally got there, her friend had this huge "I'm so proud of you for pulling this off" look on her face (genuine) and the girl herself was totally blown away and flattered with the whole thing. At that moment, I thought she was going to say yes and do exactly what that girl did in the magazine. Instead, she was completely blushed and just said a sincere thank you.

I didn't know how to react so I told her to have a great weekend.

I'm still feeling confident until I get a phone call around 8pm. It's one of my friends and she says:

"Did you pull off that rose plan? You really scared the crap out of her! She has a boyfriend in London!"

http://cdn.memegenerator.net/instances/400x/21630364.jpg

My heart sunk like an anchor. I couldn't believe I forgot to recon to see if she had a bf. All the flirting and anticipation of taking her to the semi-formal totally blocked any logical thinking.

The next week was terrible. She wouldn't acknowledge me or even bat an eye at me. She use to say hi and talk whenever we ran into each other.

She eventually handed me a paper note that basically said:

"What you did was the sweetest thing ever but I already have a boyfriend and now I feel awkward around you. I hope we can still be friends."

I ended up going to the dance in a suit and she arrived in this beautiful gown. I wanted to jump off a cliff. I couldn't believe how badly I screwed up and this beautiful girl in this beautiful dress was at this dance and I couldn't dance with her because of the crap I pulled. I think I spent all three hours standing in the back corner regretting my actions.

A whole year passed by of silence between us and I was always depressed.

Then one day during lunch, I was sitting in the hallway eating and I saw her out of the corner of my eye. I thought to myself "Crap, I should get outta here so things don't get awkward". She sat down right beside me and said:

"Hey, I haven't talked to you in so long! How's it going?"

It totally took me by surprise and I said things were fine followed by:

"I thought you found me creepy and were ignoring me. What changed your mind?"

She said:

"Really? I thought you were ignoring me!"

We decide to start over as friends and that afternoon I felt invinsible again. That Korean jock was ripping on me all afternoon but I couldn't care less. I was friends with this girl again and all was in the past.

I still have that note and use to read it every so often to remind myself to do recon before attempting to ask a girl out. I stopped reminding myself around 2007 and just gave trying to find anyone.

Then I started talking to a new girl on December 31st, 2007 ... fast forward to today and she's now my wife. :)

As for the girl I fell hard for in high school, she's now one of my closest friends and I wouldn't have it any other way.

[Tabooger]

Aw what a nice story! Glad it had a happy ending.

[plucky duck]

inb4zomgursogheyyoudeservedit

This wasn't exactly the worst rejection but was totally my fault and hit me like a ton of bricks. I should have done a bit of recon before pulling off such a stupid stunt.

Back in 2000 (I was in grade 11, around 14 years old) there was this girl I met at the Christmas dance. The girl was beautiful and we really hit it off at the dance. We danced a slow song together and above feeling great, I also found out she had a great personality. She gave me her number and we flirted quite a bit. What really got me interested was her enjoyment of cars, calm nature and eyes. Anyway, over the Christmas break I decided I'd ask her out. I've failed numerous times before (skinny, short Chinese minority in a school of Caucasian jocks/preps) and decided (inb4ZOMGSUCHARACIST) since this girl was half Indian, half British, she'd be different from the others that bullied me. I'd done paper notes, phone calls and other stuff before to no success. Since this girl seemed to like my personality and in my opinion over looked my physical attritubes, I wanted to do something special that no other jock/prep could. I started talking to her friends and one of them said:

"I was reading YM magazine (some teen magazine, not sure if it's still around) and there was this story about this guy that really liked this girl so what he did was he went to each of her classes and before she arrived, he left a rose on her desk. He skipped the second last period and then at the end of the day, he stood by her locker with the last rose and said 'Sorry I forgot about period 4' and she was totally weak in the knees and went for him!"

My initial response was:

http://i47.tinypic.com/kc7qv.jpg

3 days later:

http://download.gamezone.com/uploads/image/data/1110768/challengeaccepted.jpg

So by the time I orchestrated everything, I planned to do it on the Friday, one week before the semi-formal/Valentine's Day dance. I planned my routes, desk positions, schedule, informed all her teachers (they all gushed and said it was romantic) and got out of all my classes 5 minutes early so I could put the roses on her desk. I even dressed up for it (blue dress shirt tucked into white dress pants with black dress shoes). I was invinsible that day and even the Korean jock that use to torment me couldn't bother me with his comments. I felt like a confident man that couldn't fail.

At lunch, I sat in a different area to eat since she usually sat around my group of friends. I noticed in her arms she had two of the four roses and all her female friends were gushing and she looked really happy. I thought the plan was going well.

End of the day rolls by and I waited by her locker with the final rose. I got her friend to delay her so it'd give me enough time to get to her locker. When she finally got there, her friend had this huge "I'm so proud of you for pulling this off" look on her face (genuine) and the girl herself was totally blown away and flattered with the whole thing. At that moment, I thought she was going to say yes and do exactly what that girl did in the magazine. Instead, she was completely blushed and just said a sincere thank you.

I didn't know how to react so I told her to have a great weekend.

I'm still feeling confident until I get a phone call around 8pm. It's one of my friends and she says:

"Did you pull off that rose plan? You really scared the crap out of her! She has a boyfriend in London!"

http://cdn.memegenerator.net/instances/400x/21630364.jpg

My heart sunk like an anchor. I couldn't believe I forgot to recon to see if she had a bf. All the flirting and anticipation of taking her to the semi-formal totally blocked any logical thinking.

The next week was terrible. She wouldn't acknowledge me or even bat an eye at me. She use to say hi and talk whenever we ran into each other.

She eventually handed me a paper note that basically said:

"What you did was the sweetest thing ever but I already have a boyfriend and now I feel awkward around you. I hope we can still be friends."

I ended up going to the dance in a suit and she arrived in this beautiful gown. I wanted to jump off a cliff. I couldn't believe how badly I screwed up and this beautiful girl in this beautiful dress was at this dance and I couldn't dance with her because of the crap I pulled. I think I spent all three hours standing in the back corner regretting my actions.

A whole year passed by of silence between us and I was always depressed.

Then one day during lunch, I was sitting in the hallway eating and I saw her out of the corner of my eye. I thought to myself "Crap, I should get outta here so things don't get awkward". She sat down right beside me and said:

"Hey, I haven't talked to you in so long! How's it going?"

It totally took me by surprise and I said things were fine followed by:

"I thought you found me creepy and were ignoring me. What changed your mind?"

She said:

"Really? I thought you were ignoring me!"

We decide to start over as friends and that afternoon I felt invinsible again. That Korean jock was ripping on me all afternoon but I couldn't care less. I was friends with this girl again and all was in the past.

I still have that note and use to read it every so often to remind myself to do recon before attempting to ask a girl out. I stopped reminding myself around 2007 and just gave trying to find anyone.

Then I started talking to a new girl on December 31st, 2007 ... fast forward to today and she's now my wife. :)

As for the girl I fell hard for in high school, she's now one of my closest friends and I wouldn't have it any other way.

Very nice that you were still able to remain friends with her to this day. Does your wife know about this?

[missmaldita]

I love the meme inserts, haha.

[BluePhirePB]

Very nice that you were still able to remain friends with her to this day. Does your wife know about this?Yup! I told her the whole story and she thought it was thoughtful and like you, glad that everything turned out well. In fact, she was invited to our wedding last year along with her current boyfriend. We've also had her and said boyfriend over for dinner and a movie at our house.

[15-20_God]

Aw what a nice story! Glad it had a happy ending.

that probably happened later that evening as he was clutching the note in the other fist.

great story nonetheless.

[BluePhirePB]

that probably happened later that evening as he was clutching the note in the other fist.For whatever reason, I remember every detail of that ordeal. It left me so distraught, I went over a week without seeing Palmela Handerson.

[15-20_God]

For whatever reason, I remember every detail of that ordeal. I think it left me so distraught, I went over a week without seeing Palmela Handerson.

For a teenager a week is like how long a couple married 10 years goes between sessions.

[iEyeCaptain]

For whatever reason, I remember every detail of that ordeal. It left me so distraught, I went over a week without seeing Palmela Handerson.

Great story.

So instead of BluePhire, you got Blue.. something else.

[missmaldita]

For a teenager a week is like how long a couple married 10 years goes between sessions.


Just a week? lol :lol:

[BluePhirePB]

Great story.

So instead of BluePhire, you got Blue.. something else.Yup ... Blue, Phire(d) P(ainful) B(alls)

[Corleone187]

what happened to the Korean Biff? Did he become a failure? Sounds like he really left a lasting impression on you :D

[thelefteyeguy]

What is the worst way someone rejected you? My worst actually wasn't when asking someone out, it was actually during the date! I came up with what I thought would be a neat date idea and she was insulted by the idea and asked me to drive her back home.

Btw my date idea (first part of it) was for us to go to Walmart and buy each other very cheap (max $15) gift that represented something about one another. It was sort of a surprise but when we arrived at Walmart she blew a fuse about how she is too high class to step into Walmart and all of this Ballony. Lol made it worse that I sort of laughed at her rediculous statements so she got even more mad and asked me to drive her back home. Btw it was only the first phase of the date and it was supposed to be fun. Lesson learned though - LGs hate Walmart.

What is your worst rejection story? It can be an initial rejection or a rejection on the first few dates. Should be fun!

next time instead of walmart...go to holt renfrews.

[BluePhirePB]

what happened to the Korean Biff? Did he become a failure? Sounds like he really left a lasting impression on you :D
He was one of the worst bullies in high school. He was an ugly guy too. Nasty grill, skeletal facial features and an under bite. He'd always walk around dragging his heals and sport Ecco, Fubu and Nike everywhere. He drove around in the family Hyundai like he was hot stuff too. I don't know what happened to him to be honest. I just remember he was worst around grade 11 and 12. Took every chance he got to bully me and try to look tough around his other jock buddies.

[missmaldita]

next time instead of walmart...go to holt renfrews.

LOL. I bet she wouldn't object to that! Hahaha.

[coolspot]

He drove around in the family Hyundai like he was hot stuff too. I don't know what happened to him to be honest. I just remember he was worst around grade 11 and 12. Took every chance he got to bully me and try to look tough around his other jock buddies.

Wow, some of you guys had it rough in high school. I had a great time :D

[ji2o0k]

He was one of the worst bullies in high school. He was an ugly guy too. Nasty grill, skeletal facial features and an under bite. He'd always walk around dragging his heals and sport Ecco, Fubu and Nike everywhere. He drove around in the family Hyundai like he was hot stuff too. I don't know what happened to him to be honest. I just remember he was worst around grade 11 and 12. Took every chance he got to bully me and try to look tough around his other jock buddies.

Wow, some of you guys had it rough in high school. I had a great time :D+2...that is pretty rough....

Bullying in Gr.11? Still? I remember some slight bullying in Gr.8 and some in Gr.9 but that was it...by Gr.11, everyone was pretty mature etc...

Maybe the korean dood liked you or something? Hence the bullying....

[klehrie]

inb4zomgursogheyyoudeservedit

This wasn't exactly the worst rejection but was totally my fault and hit me like a ton of bricks. I should have done a bit of recon before pulling off such a stupid stunt.

Back in 2000 (I was in grade 11, around 14 years old) there was this girl I met at the Christmas dance. The girl was beautiful and we really hit it off at the dance. We danced a slow song together and above feeling great, I also found out she had a great personality. She gave me her number and we flirted quite a bit. What really got me interested was her enjoyment of cars, calm nature and eyes. Anyway, over the Christmas break I decided I'd ask her out. I've failed numerous times before (skinny, short Chinese minority in a school of Caucasian jocks/preps) and decided (inb4ZOMGSUCHARACIST) since this girl was half Indian, half British, she'd be different from the others that bullied me. I'd done paper notes, phone calls and other stuff before to no success. Since this girl seemed to like my personality and in my opinion over looked my physical attritubes, I wanted to do something special that no other jock/prep could. I started talking to her friends and one of them said:

"I was reading YM magazine (some teen magazine, not sure if it's still around) and there was this story about this guy that really liked this girl so what he did was he went to each of her classes and before she arrived, he left a rose on her desk. He skipped the second last period and then at the end of the day, he stood by her locker with the last rose and said 'Sorry I forgot about period 4' and she was totally weak in the knees and went for him!"

My initial response was:

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3 days later:

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So by the time I orchestrated everything, I planned to do it on the Friday, one week before the semi-formal/Valentine's Day dance. I planned my routes, desk positions, schedule, informed all her teachers (they all gushed and said it was romantic) and got out of all my classes 5 minutes early so I could put the roses on her desk. I even dressed up for it (blue dress shirt tucked into white dress pants with black dress shoes). I was invinsible that day and even the Korean jock that use to torment me couldn't bother me with his comments. I felt like a confident man that couldn't fail.

At lunch, I sat in a different area to eat since she usually sat around my group of friends. I noticed in her arms she had two of the four roses and all her female friends were gushing and she looked really happy. I thought the plan was going well.

End of the day rolls by and I waited by her locker with the final rose. I got her friend to delay her so it'd give me enough time to get to her locker. When she finally got there, her friend had this huge "I'm so proud of you for pulling this off" look on her face (genuine) and the girl herself was totally blown away and flattered with the whole thing. At that moment, I thought she was going to say yes and do exactly what that girl did in the magazine. Instead, she was completely blushed and just said a sincere thank you.

I didn't know how to react so I told her to have a great weekend.

I'm still feeling confident until I get a phone call around 8pm. It's one of my friends and she says:

"Did you pull off that rose plan? You really scared the crap out of her! She has a boyfriend in London!"

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My heart sunk like an anchor. I couldn't believe I forgot to recon to see if she had a bf. All the flirting and anticipation of taking her to the semi-formal totally blocked any logical thinking.

The next week was terrible. She wouldn't acknowledge me or even bat an eye at me. She use to say hi and talk whenever we ran into each other.

She eventually handed me a paper note that basically said:

"What you did was the sweetest thing ever but I already have a boyfriend and now I feel awkward around you. I hope we can still be friends."

I ended up going to the dance in a suit and she arrived in this beautiful gown. I wanted to jump off a cliff. I couldn't believe how badly I screwed up and this beautiful girl in this beautiful dress was at this dance and I couldn't dance with her because of the crap I pulled. I think I spent all three hours standing in the back corner regretting my actions.

A whole year passed by of silence between us and I was always depressed.

Then one day during lunch, I was sitting in the hallway eating and I saw her out of the corner of my eye. I thought to myself "Crap, I should get outta here so things don't get awkward". She sat down right beside me and said:

"Hey, I haven't talked to you in so long! How's it going?"

It totally took me by surprise and I said things were fine followed by:

"I thought you found me creepy and were ignoring me. What changed your mind?"

She said:

"Really? I thought you were ignoring me!"

We decide to start over as friends and that afternoon I felt invinsible again. That Korean jock was ripping on me all afternoon but I couldn't care less. I was friends with this girl again and all was in the past.

I still have that note and use to read it every so often to remind myself to do recon before attempting to ask a girl out. I stopped reminding myself around 2007 and just gave trying to find anyone.

Then I started talking to a new girl on December 31st, 2007 ... fast forward to today and she's now my wife. :)

As for the girl I fell hard for in high school, she's now one of my closest friends and I wouldn't have it any other way.

OMG awwwwwwwww. I'm so glad everything worked out in the end for you :D

[BluePhirePB]

+2...that is pretty rough....

Bullying in Gr.11? Still? I remember some slight bullying in Gr.8 and some in Gr.9 but that was it...by Gr.11, everyone was pretty mature etc...

Maybe the korean dood liked you or something? Hence the bullying....The high school I went to was located in the south end of Guelph. A lot of wealthy families there with large houses. Consequently, most of the kids there were jocks, preps, etc. A lot of bullying went on due to the high popular to regular student ratio. The particular Korean kid I was talking about rolled with other rich kids. I'd see Escalades, Corvettes, Lexus RXs, M-B E-classes in the parking lot. Unfortunately, the teachers also had that type of mentality and did little to nothing to help the bully victims. When I graduated from high school, the girl I was talking about earlier was one of handful of people I called my friends. I still harbour a pretty bad grudge against the people that were at that school.

[Corleone187]

He was one of the worst bullies in high school. He was an ugly guy too. Nasty grill, skeletal facial features and an under bite. He'd always walk around dragging his heals and sport Ecco, Fubu and Nike everywhere. He drove around in the family Hyundai like he was hot stuff too. I don't know what happened to him to be honest. I just remember he was worst around grade 11 and 12. Took every chance he got to bully me and try to look tough around his other jock buddies.

haha...sry 2 hear. Well I understand how it could feel. I didnt like bullies either, although i was never picked on because i was way bigger than all the bullies when i was a kid, they didnt dare :D

[Simaahoy]

My worst rejection? My debit card being declined:cry:

[iEyeCaptain]

My worst rejection? My debit card being declined:cry:

I'm so sorry to hear that.

Here, have a hug.

o-(^_^o-)

[Corleone187]

the worst rejection was actually this guy. he was a writer that didn't have a GF. So what he did was write about a girl in a book to kind of bring her to life so he wouldn't be lonely. But then the girl (his imagination) rejected him. So it was kind of a fake imaginary girl rejected him (aka his mind) :confused:

The movie is called "Ruby Sparks"