Rant: people showing up unannounced...

[XtremeModder]

Long rant, just need to vent

All I can say is my friend is a complete idiot and I consider him not a friend anymore (not just because of this).

So I have a friend who is one of those people who are idiots when they drink that no one likes. He mouths off to people and says things that get other people into crap (almost happened last night). So while with some good friends of mine during the day and my gf we all decided to have our usual Friday night get together in the backyard at night for a few drinks and just talk.

About 8 hours before this this 'friend' of mine texts me and says "would your gf not let you go out with friends on your anniversary?"

I replied "man it's your 2 year anniversary why would you want to hang out with friends and drink, go out for dinner and a movie and stay in or something". He basically called me a woman but come on, really?

So our friends are in the back and I said (8 hours prior) that I hope to god this guy doesn't show up cause he's loud and stuff to the point where we have to relocate to the garage.

We were all just sitting in the back at about 10pm and out of nowhere he walks in the back. We all tried to ignore and not talk to him for awhile hoping he would leave and my buddy (not this guy) just says "dude you called that so perfectly". Idiot didn't get it.

Eventually we relocate to the garage and although we don't really like his gf that much, she started going on about how he has nothing to show for anything and how his mom has to give him money for everything cause he can't hold a job. Imagine our expressions trying to stay out of that argument.

This girl doesn't have her G2 at the age of 25 for the reason that she has no reason to drive and doesn't care but has started driving school. I have no judgement towards that in any way cause that's her choice. Then the idiot (who drinks and drives all the time and has been caught before) after 6 beers who's gf keeps telling him to stop drinking says "see if you had your g2 you could drive me home and this could all be avoided". Now I don't really like the guys gf but at the same time I had to defend her and said "man, you shouldn't be driving in the first place if your drinking and second it's your moms car, your 26 wtf"

He goes on and says "you only have your license because that's just what men do they want to drive".

I expected the girls to start getting pissed off at that and I think they did. I replied to that comment saying "no I got my license so I could have the freedom of going where I want when I want and get to work without relying on someone for a drive, that's why one gets a license if they can afford it and you can't even pay insurance your mom pays it. An argument after that ensued and it was basically his gf and I just destroying him verbally and everyone else listening. Once again, everything we were saying was 100% true and he couldn't see that through his idiotic defenses that made no sense.

I said k if your going to act like an ***** then you can leave. I turned to my gf and a few other friends and continued talking to them trying to ignore him (as we all did).

Eventually he started becoming an ***** again and a friends brother who I barely know tells the guy to go home after arguing about it for like 20minutes. At least the arguing between the idiot and his gf was entertaining because everything she was saying was so true and we all knew it.

[transitguy1]

Solution 1: Don't have late parties
Solution 2: Have party without alcohol
Solution 3: Have party at his house every-time
Solution 4: Get everyone to unfriend him.

Hope you find your solution dude

[rsasp]

Read.

[XtremeModder]

As an update. Not my gf but a girl I know (best friend I'd say) are devising a plan. No ones going to know what it is in our group until afterwards. But let's just say he definitely will not be driving for a very long time.

[Kunman]

I'm sorry dude. I dident mean it.....forgive me?

[steve-0101]

#getablog

[wilsonlam97]

Long rant, just need to vent

All I can say is my friend is a complete idiot and I consider him not a friend anymore (not just because of this).

So I have a friend who is one of those people who are idiots when they drink that no one likes. He mouths off to people and says things that get other people into crap (almost happened last night). So while with some good friends of mine during the day and my gf we all decided to have our usual Friday night get together in the backyard at night for a few drinks and just talk.

About 8 hours before this this 'friend' of mine texts me and says "would your gf not let you go out with friends on your anniversary?"

I replied "man it's your 2 year anniversary why would you want to hang out with friends and drink, go out for dinner and a movie and stay in or something". He basically called me a woman but come on, really?

So our friends are in the back and I said (8 hours prior) that I hope to god this guy doesn't show up cause he's loud and stuff to the point where we have to relocate to the garage.

We were all just sitting in the back at about 10pm and out of nowhere he walks in the back. We all tried to ignore and not talk to him for awhile hoping he would leave and my buddy (not this guy) just says "dude you called that so perfectly". Idiot didn't get it.

Eventually we relocate to the garage and although we don't really like his gf that much, she started going on about how he has nothing to show for anything and how his mom has to give him money for everything cause he can't hold a job. Imagine our expressions trying to stay out of that argument.

This girl doesn't have her G2 at the age of 25 for the reason that she has no reason to drive and doesn't care but has started driving school. I have no judgement towards that in any way cause that's her choice. Then the idiot (who drinks and drives all the time and has been caught before) after 6 beers who's gf keeps telling him to stop drinking says "see if you had your g2 you could drive me home and this could all be avoided". Now I don't really like the guys gf but at the same time I had to defend her and said "man, you shouldn't be driving in the first place if your drinking and second it's your moms car, your 26 wtf"

He goes on and says "you only have your license because that's just what men do they want to drive".

I expected the girls to start getting pissed off at that and I think they did. I replied to that comment saying "no I got my license so I could have the freedom of going where I want when I want and get to work without relying on someone for a drive, that's why one gets a license if they can afford it and you can't even pay insurance your mom pays it. An argument after that ensued and it was basically his gf and I just destroying him verbally and everyone else listening. Once again, everything we were saying was 100% true and he couldn't see that through his idiotic defenses that made no sense.

I said k if your going to act like an ***** then you can leave. I turned to my gf and a few other friends and continued talking to them trying to ignore him (as we all did).

Eventually he started becoming an ***** again and a friends brother who I barely know tells the guy to go home after arguing about it for like 20minutes. At least the arguing between the idiot and his gf was entertaining because everything she was saying was so true and we all knew it.

I had a friend like that. I was pretty cold about the situation and I just ended up ignoring him. It wasn't worth my time. (Note: I knew him most of my life and we had biking adventures but he was still a d1ck at the end of the day -sigh-)

[Kunman]

I had a friend like that. I was pretty cold about the situation and I just ended up ignoring him. It wasn't worth my time. (Note: I knew him most of my life and we had biking adventures but he was still a d1ck at the end of the day -sigh-)

Lmao I had a friend who is a di ck and also had biking adventures with ...now he's a backup when ppl are short when going on expeditions...

[XtremeModder]

I had a friend like that. I was pretty cold about the situation and I just ended up ignoring him. It wasn't worth my time. (Note: I knew him most of my life and we had biking adventures but he was still a d1ck at the end of the day -sigh-)

I've known the guy for about 9 years. I just don't care anymore

[Mars2012]

He doesn't sound much like a friend. Have you thought about your own personal liability should this joker leave your house and get into an accident as he's heading home?

[Jimboski]

Tell him to gtfo.

[dragon_drift]

He seems to think he's still tight with you guys showing up uninvited.

[Heero01]

Lol...

It always amuses me that women (exemplafied in this case) stick with idiots. The guy has been caught drinking and driving, cant hold a job, uses his moms car, yet the GF is still with him?

Women...

[starboy869]

I've would've told him to get the ***** out and just about before he left I would've called the cops and reported a drunk driver.

[45ED]

Your former friend is an a**h**e. Truth.

[Xiaohaibao]

I read your story and I don't get it, why do you hate this guy, just because he's annoying? It doesn't sound like he's a bad friend or did anything bad to you. And he isn't a complete loser if he's able to get a girl friend (assuming she's not 300 pounds).

[Simaahoy]

Call the cops if he decided to driver while drunk, that way you wont see him anymore

[goodguy90]

Solution 1: Don't have late parties
Solution 2: Have party without alcohol
Solution 3: Have party at his house every-time
Solution 4: Get everyone to unfriend him.

Hope you find your solution dude

Solution 4 is common in female circles. Never experienced/witnessed it in a male circle.

Let your friends make their own judgement about him. Don't convince/force them into taking sides. No one should do that.

Although it sounds like your friends already dislike him.

[Syne]

Anniversary of what? The day that they "asked each other out"? (lol)

If that's the case, then it is a pretty gay.

As for your friend, he sounds like a loudmouth - but Modder, you sound like the type who acts different in a group than when you're 1-on-1 with someone.

[wilsonlam97]

I read your story and I don't get it, why do you hate this guy, just because he's annoying? It doesn't sound like he's a bad friend or did anything bad to you. And he isn't a complete loser if he's able to get a girl friend (assuming she's not 300 pounds).

I'll put a d1ck friend in a context you'll understand.

You generously let your friend borrow a bill off you and it takes months and months to owe you back because you guys are "tight" and he thinks your nagging him even though its fair if you expect your money back in a month's time.

[wilsonlam97]

Solution 4 is common in female circles. Never experienced/witnessed it in a male circle.

Let your friends make their own judgement about him. Don't convince/force them into taking sides. No one should do that.

Although it sounds like your friends already dislike him.

Or gather a bunch of people that can engage in a intellectual conversation to bore the cr@p out of d1ck friend.

[Agafaba]

As an update. Not my gf but a girl I know (best friend I'd say) are devising a plan. No ones going to know what it is in our group until afterwards. But let's just say he definitely will not be driving for a very long time.

Ya that will show him, pretend to be his friend while trying to do bad things to him behind his back!

[Lazy Susan]

WTF did I just read?

[XtremeModder]

Solution 4 is common in female circles. Never experienced/witnessed it in a male circle.

Let your friends make their own judgement about him. Don't convince/force them into taking sides. No one should do that.

Although it sounds like your friends already dislike him.

None of the people in our small group of friends likes him anymore hence why we didn't want him coming last night. He just showed up.

I'm the kind of person that will give or do anything to/for a friend and hell literally drink 5-6 of my beers and bring 3-4 of his own and then drive home. I'm trying to stop it now cause cant I or the homeowner get in ***** if something were to happen? Or did that change quite awhile ago.

He used to be a cool person until we all as a group decided to tell his mom he had a wry serious cocaine problem and ever since then he's changed as in he doesn't do it anymore but the odd time here or there he brings it up saying he can't believe we all did that. My defense is is that if you can't see how that benefitted you back then then your a very ungrateful person (he hasn't used that drug since but hell smoke weed when offered).

[Junigenmukyoku]

#getablog

+1

It sounds like a blog post, you should start one.

Anyways, I think it's best if you talk to your friend about this instead of us, so you can actually solve the problem. I mean if he's actually putting his GF and others in risk while DUI, you shouldn't let him drink at your place or tell him to leave. You have to man up brah.

[Xiaohaibao]

I'll put a d1ck friend in a context you'll understand.

You generously let your friend borrow a bill off you and it takes months and months to owe you back because you guys are "tight" and he thinks your nagging him even though its fair if you expect your money back in a month's time.
I would never lend money, even to friends. "Sorry buddy but I'm short on cash now, don't even have $20."

[XtremeModder]

+1

It sounds like a blog post, you should start one.

Anyways, I think it's best if you talk to your friend about this instead of us, so you can actually solve the problem. I mean if he's actually putting his GF and others in risk while DUI, you shouldn't let him drink at your place or tell him to leave. You have to man up brah.

I understand that but he doesn't care he'll do the same thing elsewhere either way

[XtremeModder]

I read your story and I don't get it, why do you hate this guy, just because he's annoying? It doesn't sound like he's a bad friend or did anything bad to you. And he isn't a complete loser if he's able to get a girl friend (assuming she's not 300 pounds).

He is a loser. Beyond that. Any time he wants to take his gf out he needs his moms car. Hes 26 and almost refuses to work for no reason. His mom basically pays for him to take his gf out. We always joke saying that if he ever proposes, that his mom will be the one getting engaged to her not him. Basically his mom, although a nice person, failed horribly.

[Piro21]

Ya that will show him, pretend to be his friend while trying to do bad things to him behind his back!

Glad I'm not the only one thinking that. Why not just stop talking to the guy or be an adult and tell him to his face how you feel about him? Doing stuff that adversely affects his life, especially while pretending to be his friend, is pretty low.

[XtremeModder]

Glad I'm not the only one thinking that. Why not just stop talking to the guy or be an adult and tell him to his face how you feel about him? Doing stuff that adversely affects his life, especially while pretending to be his friend, is pretty low.

Well it's been decided to take the right way and none of us are going to answer calls or any of that but we won't screw him over. Although we are waiting for when it happens.

Like I said he was caught once when he wrapped his old car around a tree (total write off) a few years ago (his mother bought him the car). Lost his license and everything and now he does it all again still.

[forthewinwin]

Lol...

It always amuses me that women (exemplafied in this case) stick with idiots. The guy has been caught drinking and driving, cant hold a job, uses his moms car, yet the GF is still with him?

Women...

Yeah I know right? That's why you just don't associate with those people.

[wilsonlam97]

Well it's been decided to take the right way and none of us are going to answer calls or any of that but we won't screw him over. Although we are waiting for when it happens.

Like I said he was caught once when he wrapped his old car around a tree (total write off) a few years ago (his mother bought him the car). Lost his license and everything and now he does it all again still.

Your a great person IMO. Over the length of your former "friendship" you've seem to have put real sympathy and support for this guy. People that can't appreciate even a bit of that aren't worth your time. Move along bro. The guy is a waste of time.

[spike1128]

None of the people in our small group of friends likes him anymore hence why we didn't want him coming last night. He just showed up.

I'm the kind of person that will give or do anything to/for a friend and hell literally drink 5-6 of my beers and bring 3-4 of his own and then drive home. I'm trying to stop it now cause cant I or the homeowner get in ***** if something were to happen? Or did that change quite awhile ago.

He used to be a cool person until we all as a group decided to tell his mom he had a wry serious cocaine problem and ever since then he's changed as in he doesn't do it anymore but the odd time here or there he brings it up saying he can't believe we all did that. My defense is is that if you can't see how that benefitted you back then then your a very ungrateful person (he hasn't used that drug since but hell smoke weed when offered).

I have read your first post modder. I once did a karaoke thing with some friends back them, I was treating, then somebody let somebody who I didn't want to see know we were doing this, then showed up uninvited. Usually the drinking thing, hanging out thing, and uninvited thing is in the North American culture. When in Asia, if the group didn't want to see a person, they ain't invited, then they don't show up.

You seem to be a person who has a good head on the shoulders, so you don't do coke like that dude you were describing.

It's pretty funny what you describe in your first post about how he is not taking his life seriously, and brag about how he is this and that when he can't pay for his own things at 25. The gf is more clueless, soon they will be left in the dust. If we all talk on RFD, competition for a good life/career is very stiff in GTA/Ontario. So one must be taking it seriously by their late 20s or risk being the working poor for the rest of their lives. I am not sure the putting it together is more of a minority thing, where everyone is always thinking about the $.

I know when my buds were single and stuff, we do hang outs like this. Not anymore once they got a steady gf or wife or kids. Maybe just part of my culture

[XtremeModder]

I have read your first post modder. I once did a karaoke thing with some friends back them, I was treating, then somebody let somebody who I didn't want to see know we were doing this, then showed up uninvited. Usually the drinking thing, hanging out thing, and uninvited thing is in the North American culture. When in Asia, if the group didn't want to see a person, they ain't invited, then they don't show up.

You seem to be a person who has a good head on the shoulders, so you don't do coke like that dude you were describing.

It's pretty funny what you describe in your first post about how he is not taking his life seriously, and brag about how he is this and that when he can't pay for his own things at 25. The gf is more clueless, soon they will be left in the dust. If we all talk on RFD, competition for a good life/career is very stiff in GTA/Ontario. So one must be taking it seriously by their late 20s or risk being the working poor for the rest of their lives. I am not sure the putting it together is more of a minority thing, where everyone is always thinking about the $.

I know when my buds were single and stuff, we do hang outs like this. Not anymore once they got a steady gf or wife or kids. Maybe just part of my culture

Well that's the thing. It's been awhile since my gf and I had a night to ourselves so we decided to do just that. I quickly found out how boring that became and now she's started with holding sex from me cause I always use protection..... Sorry that I don't want to risk having a kid right now... But that's for another post...

I stopped being friends with most of the people who just sit at home smoking pot all day. I don't even have that many friends as it is. A lot of people have heard me talk about my friend whom I'll do anything for as she's a great person. She was over yesterday and just seemed sad about something until I finally got it out of her as I know she'll tell me most things and we just talked for a couple hours. Gf came home right before she left and it was strange cause they get along great when we're in a group but if she comes by herself and it's just us 2 it's a problem....

Still trying to debate on wether I should move or not...

One thing that the idiot did was he told my gf in front of all of us that I drive that girl to work almost every morning. My defense is that I'm helping a friend and that it's basically on my way home. This is what friends do they help a friend in need right? My gf gave me the look I hate but told me it was fine and that I was right.

Yea that quickly changed after everyone left. In the end she can get upset all she wants. She doesn't understand how I am with friends if a good friend of mine needs a drive I'll do it if I can, I'm like this cause I don't have many friends that are worth being around.

[spike1128]

Well that's the thing. It's been awhile since my gf and I had a night to ourselves so we decided to do just that. I quickly found out how boring that became and now she's started with holding sex from me cause I always use protection..... Sorry that I don't want to risk having a kid right now... But that's for another post...

I stopped being friends with most of the people who just sit at home smoking pot all day. I don't even have that many friends as it is. A lot of people have heard me talk about my friend whom I'll do anything for as she's a great person. She was over yesterday and just seemed sad about something until I finally got it out of her as I know she'll tell me most things and we just talked for a couple hours. Gf came home right before she left and it was strange cause they get along great when we're in a group but if she comes by herself and it's just us 2 it's a problem....

Still trying to debate on wether I should move or not...

One thing that the idiot did was he told my gf in front of all of us that I drive that girl to work almost every morning. My defense is that I'm helping a friend and that it's basically on my way home. This is what friends do they help a friend in need right? My gf gave me the look I hate but told me it was fine and that I was right.

Yea that quickly changed after everyone left. In the end she can get upset all she wants. She doesn't understand how I am with friends if a good friend of mine needs a drive I'll do it if I can, I'm like this cause I don't have many friends that are worth being around.

Ah.. you and your female friend troubles again. :P.

First about the friends. You are correct. As you get older, if you are the one who is getting yourself together while they are not. You will drift apart from them. Refer to the thread that talks about having fewer friend as you age, we were talking about that on OT.

I think your gf want to settle, hence maybe the no protection thing. Also, might be related with her jealousy with ur best female friend (hence withholding). Dealing a 1 on 1 with a female friend = jealous of the gf, perfectly normal to happen. If I were you, I will watch out for that. I used to be in that situation, hence the more than 1 female friend at a time sorta thing. So there is no imagination for my significant other about me getting it on with my other female friend(s). I think it's cool that you are doing your friend a favor, but it leaves room for interpretation as well.

I would love a woman who doesn't become jealous because of that, not all of us are cheaters ever. Then again, you are still thinking if your gf is a right one for you or not. I will not go into if you like your gf better or your other female friends better as a life partner. I still stay away from this topic, before peanutz bomb you about how you should make up your mind about this topic.

Anyhow, before I post anything to ask you about the car. I know you got the new car, did you trade in your old car? How much did you get for it?

[Xiaohaibao]

Ok so how does this guy who has no job, lives with his parents, and his mom buys him everything able to get a girlfriend? Don't girls want guys with ambition? Is she just hideous and can't get a better guy?

[XtremeModder]

Ok so how does this guy who has no job, lives with his parents, and his mom buys him everything able to get a girlfriend? Don't girls want guys with ambition? Is she just hideous and can't get a better guy?

That's what we're all trying to figure out. After her anger explosion on him at our place (which was awesome to see cause nothing she said was wrong) we have a feeling that they won't be together much longer

[spike1128]

Ok so how does this guy who has no job, lives with his parents, and his mom buys him everything able to get a girlfriend? Don't girls want guys with ambition? Is she just hideous and can't get a better guy?

This girl is possibly the type that just goes along with the flow. That's why they say girls play when they are in their late teen/early 20s (date the jocks type), then girls have relationships when they are in their mid/late 20s and early 30s (marry the nerdy type). The girl is trying to figure why she is so dirt poor, and have to put up with his weird guy. She ditches to find a RFD 100k/year type. I think she should advertise here that she is available.

The nerdy/educated type usually end up having a high net worth than the jock types assuming both don't get help from parents. You would know Bao, you are high net worth type.

[XtremeModder]

Well I'm not gonna lie this friend I have I have developed a strong attraction for her and she knows it cause her best friend texted her after I told her that, she wasn't wierded out or anything like that. Ever since then she's opened up to me about a lot of personal things. I was the first one out of everyone to know she got pregnant, had an abortion and since then her bf left her so im the one who she opens up to and doesn't hold anything back. That said I told her there is absolutely no chance anything will ever happen between us that will cause my relationship to end and she said that I was a good person to say that and she understands.

The time it worked against me was when my gf and I were having a smoke and she was walking home and came up to us, said she had to go home and started crying so I got in the car and picked her up and she told me what her ex just said to her so i told her to come back with our other friend and join us for a BBQ


But that's not really apart of this thread.

Does anyone else have friends like this that just show up Out of the blue

[vaportech]

Thread is getting derailed by the op. Lol why dont you start a thread ab0ut your own life.

[spike1128]

Thread is getting derailed by the op. Lol why dont you start a thread ab0ut your own life.

Actually he should start his own blog on here, but not sure if it's against the RFD rules. Not to mention he might be giving too much of himself away, maybe friends/friends of friends read these threads already. The Bimmer might be a big give away

OP's female friends need to date the really high net worth guys in this forum. At least they won't end up leaving when girls become pregnant.

Better than you getting all those unpromising LGs, :D

[XtremeModder]

Actually he should start his own blog on here, but not sure if it's against the RFD rules. Not to mention he might be giving too much of himself away, maybe friends/friends of friends read these threads already. The Bimmer might be a big give away

OP's female friends need to date the really high net worth guys in this forum. At least they won't end up leaving when girls become pregnant.

Better than you getting all those unpromising LGs, :D

Nah they need to date the people that don't use them...

[jaxx lite]

Still trying to debate on wether I should move or not...

If you break up with your girlfriend
she could go look for a husband

instead of wasting her time with you

she has a limited number of years to have a baby
so she can't waste her time

-

[jacobe]

I make sure to not drink with friends who become idiots after some booze (ie, talk too much, too loud, etc). Some people just can't handle it. Friends who constantly stress me out are not 'friends' and so are treated as such. I will still be respectful and make my small talks but I wouldn't consider them as a friend, more like an acquaintance, so I would be straight up with them and say "sorry man, you don't have to go home but you gotta go somewhere else. You are killing the vibe."

[UrbanPoet]

So much drama.
Interesting read. It all seems silly.
in the bigger picture.
But everyone has their own problems and worries.

[XtremeModder]

So much drama.
Interesting read. It all seems silly.
in the bigger picture.
But everyone has their own problems and worries.

Exactly.

[Katchemash]

As an update. Not my gf but a girl I know (best friend I'd say) are devising a plan. No ones going to know what it is in our group until afterwards. But let's just say he definitely will not be driving for a very long time.

Sounds like a threat. I'm reporting it to the RCMP.

[XtremeModder]

Sounds like a threat. I'm reporting it to the RCMP.

Lol it's not a threat at all. The guy drinks and drives all the time and we've had enough of him risking his life and others. And hell do it regardless of where he is and has been caught once when he hit a pole.

So really what I mean is it's only one phone call from a concerned citizen...

[peanutz]

If you break up with your girlfriend
she could go look for a husband

instead of wasting her time with you

she has a limited number of years to have a baby
so she can't waste her time

If you break up with your girlfriend
she could go look for a husband

instead of wasting her time with you

she has a limited number of years to have a baby
so she can't waste her time

If you break up with your girlfriend
she could go look for a husband

instead of wasting her time with you

she has a limited number of years to have a baby
so she can't waste her time
Holy **** someone else understands what it means to be FAIR and CONSIDERATE! I'M NOT THE ONLY CRAZY IN THE WORLD.


I would love a woman who doesn't become jealous because of that, not all of us are cheaters ever. Then again, you are still thinking if your gf is a right one for you or not. I will not go into if you like your gf better or your other female friends better as a life partner. I still stay away from this topic, before peanutz bomb you about how you should make up your mind about this topic.peanutz knew at the mention of "female friend (best friend)" that this was again referring to the BWS (B---h W---e S--t) but peanutz bit her tongue the first time around.

And too late, the anger is boiling over once again.


A lot of people have heard me talk about my friend whom I'll do anything for as she's a great person.Let me reiterate. I know this will fall on deaf ears as far as you go but I must correct this statement for the sake of the rest of the readers. This person is a dumb BWS, let me count the ways:

a) BWS sleeps with you as soon as you and her best friend broke up. Best friends do not sleep with best friends' exes as soon as they can.
b) BWS tries to seduce you while knowing you have a GF. Then she tries to escape responsibility for it by saying "oh uh didn't know you guys were together" or some such bulls---.
c) BWS gets into situations where people "borrow" money from her or she pays their bills, etc. (don't remember the exact details) without thinking things through, then absolves herself of responsibility of such decisions and cries about "being taken advantage of". Dumb BWS needs to learn to not be a dumb BWS.


One thing that the idiot did was he told my gf in front of all of us that I drive that girl to work almost every morning.Looks like this "obnoxious idiot" has done something right, something you do not have the nerve to do yourself.


My defense is that I'm helping a friend and that it's basically on my way home. This is what friends do they help a friend in need right? My gf gave me the look I hate but told me it was fine and that I was right.Of course you need to be on the defense because your GF has a legitimate reason to find this situation shady.


Yea that quickly changed after everyone left. In the end she can get upset all she wants.Because you don't give a **** about how your GF feels. Like all sh***y BFs, the ones who disregard their GFs' feelings.


She doesn't understand how I am with friends if a good friend of mine needs a drive I'll do it if I can, I'm like this cause I don't have many friends that are worth being around.Oh STFU and admit you are being dishonest and unfair to your GF. Not-sleeping-with-someone is not the only way to be a good BF.


Well I'm not gonna lie this friend I have I have developed a strong attraction for herNO WAY...really? And does anyone blame your GF for not being an idiot and knowing this?


...and she knows it cause her best friend texted her after I told her that, she wasn't wierded out or anything like that. Ever since then she's opened up to me about a lot of personal things. I was the first one out of everyone to know she got pregnant, had an abortionBWS is too stupid and slutty to use contraception...


The time it worked against me was when my gf and I were having a smoke and she was walking home and came up to us, said she had to go home and started crying so I got in the car and picked her upOnly a BWS would do that to disrespect another female (your GF.)

THIS is coming from a girl who openly told her BF that he can hook up with any girl he wants and not tell me (as long as he uses protection). But the moment he would tiptoe around me and start hiding something as "benign" as having a coffee with someone he has feelings for = cheating in my books. Not the jealous type, just extremely keen on honesty.

You and BWS deserve each other, please let the GF go.

[Agafaba]

*Snip*

Ya I remembered the old thread too (or was it multiple threads?) but I figured it wasnt worth the effort.

[peanutz]

Ya I remembered the old thread too (or was it multiple threads?) but I figured it wasnt worth the effort.
It's two people with a massive case of cognitive dissonance. One who believes she is a princess who keeps being taken advantage of, the other who thinks he is a princely virtuous partner to his GF while lusting after the pyrite princess.

[kindred_99]

After reading the original post I was going to say the OP just needs to stop hanging around with idiots and not drink as much. I can't imagine that neighbours enjoy having a bunch pf people in a backyard or even classier a garage drinking, driving and behaving like fools. Unfortunately the more posts I read from the OP the more I realize why you and your obnoxious friend were tight to begin with. You talk about your gf as if she is not your gf, you mention that its boring hanging out just with her, I'm sure she would love to hear that. I'm also sure she would love to hear you accusing her of trying to get pregnant in order to trap you since you're such an incredible guy that you would do anything for your friends who drink and drive, smoke pot and do coke. You then complain that your gf doesn't like that you hang out with and drive to work your female friend and that someone called her out on it and she admitted that she was wrong, only for you to then tell us that you are attracted to this female friend! You claim that nothing would happen but based on what you have said about the gf you don't seem to like her very much and you have the hots for the other one. The funny thing is that you came on here to rant about this horrible person that showed up at your house and instead exposed yourself as just as bad, although in different ways. You claim your friend mistreats his gf and you follow it up by trashing yours. What a class act!

[Katchemash]

I agree with Peanutz. This guy is the worst. Stuck up about his evil friend who I think more than anything else blabbed about his best friend abd then going around and cheating on his GF. What a man you are XtremeModder. You're the time of person likely to be beaten in my neighborhood due to your cheating ways.

[mysticalinfluence]

I agree with Peanutz. This guy is the worst. Stuck up about his evil friend who I think more than anything else blabbed about his best friend abd then going around and cheating on his GF. What a man you are XtremeModder. You're the time of person likely to be beaten in my neighborhood due to your cheating ways.

Ever hear the saying people that live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones? Judging by your post history your no jewel of person yourself. Funny how hypocritical people can be isn't it?

[rUn-gUn]

I do not like it when anyone shows up unannounced, its just not right... how would they know if I'm busy or if I want to see this person who just dropped by. I think its always better to give someone a call to see if its cool to drop by. But this thread was about much more than just someone showing up unannounced haha..

[peanutz]

After reading the original post I was going to say the OP just needs to stop hanging around with idiots and not drink as much. I can't imagine that neighbours enjoy having a bunch pf people in a backyard or even classier a garage drinking, driving and behaving like fools. Unfortunately the more posts I read from the OP the more I realize why you and your obnoxious friend were tight to begin with. You talk about your gf as if she is not your gf, you mention that its boring hanging out just with her, I'm sure she would love to hear that. I'm also sure she would love to hear you accusing her of trying to get pregnant in order to trap you since you're such an incredible guy that you would do anything for your friends who drink and drive, smoke pot and do coke. You then complain that your gf doesn't like that you hang out with and drive to work your female friend and that someone called her out on it and she admitted that she was wrong, only for you to then tell us that you are attracted to this female friend! You claim that nothing would happen but based on what you have said about the gf you don't seem to like her very much and you have the hots for the other one. The funny thing is that you came on here to rant about this horrible person that showed up at your house and instead exposed yourself as just as bad, although in different ways. You claim your friend mistreats his gf and you follow it up by trashing yours. What a class act!THIS.

- I have never read XtremeModder say anything positive about his GF. It makes me wonder if there is some ulterior motive to him staying with her (is she or her parents rich? is she hot and this feeds his ego? is he too lazy? is he just scared to make a change in his life?) - either way, he talks about how BWS keeps being "used" by other guys but it sounds like XtremeModder uses his GF. Usery is when someone enjoys what someone else has to offer, without personally caring for/about them. The GF has alternately been described or implied, at different times, as an excessive shopper/spender, jealous nag, highstrung, etc. Meanwhile, when you read between the lines of his praise for the BWS (and every excuse for every flaw she has)--who is "amazing" or "great" in his eyes--you realize what a messed-up and selfish twit she is.

- XtremeModder does not like the fact that the GF would rather not make a scene of the situation when everyone else is present, but she reveals her real feelings and confides in him the things that bother her when they are 1 on 1. (The GF's behaviour is actually something that is, like, normal, restrained, and respectable and somehow this turns him off.)

- Some other points. XtremeModder, you are not smarter than your doctor. Champix is not the same as Wellbutrin (Wellbutrin is the same as Zyban.)

Also, you cannot test for every sexually transmitted infection. As the BWS you boned in the past has slept with many guys, there is a higher chance of her having caught certain strains of HPV. She has probably engaged in this pattern before she received Gardasil or Cervarix vaccinations, so if she caught a particularly nasty strain of it and gave it to you, your dong is now a potential cancer stick and some other girl you stick with it may be at increased risk for cervical cancer. Also, genital herpes won't show up on any tests if BWS wasn't paying attention to symptoms and missed the window for testing -- unless she shelled out $100-200 in order to get a blood test looking for antigens AND even then it won't tell you whether it's oral or genital infection.

[Lazy Susan]

I agree with Peanutz. This guy is the worst. Stuck up about his evil friend who I think more than anything else blabbed about his best friend abd then going around and cheating on his GF. What a man you are XtremeModder. You're the time of person likely to be beaten in my neighborhood due to your cheating ways.

You're from Mississauga. :facepalm:

[UrbanPoet]

After reading the original post I was going to say the OP just needs to stop hanging around with idiots and not drink as much. I can't imagine that neighbours enjoy having a bunch pf people in a backyard or even classier a garage drinking, driving and behaving like fools. Unfortunately the more posts I read from the OP the more I realize why you and your obnoxious friend were tight to begin with. You talk about your gf as if she is not your gf, you mention that its boring hanging out just with her, I'm sure she would love to hear that. I'm also sure she would love to hear you accusing her of trying to get pregnant in order to trap you since you're such an incredible guy that you would do anything for your friends who drink and drive, smoke pot and do coke. You then complain that your gf doesn't like that you hang out with and drive to work your female friend and that someone called her out on it and she admitted that she was wrong, only for you to then tell us that you are attracted to this female friend! You claim that nothing would happen but based on what you have said about the gf you don't seem to like her very much and you have the hots for the other one. The funny thing is that you came on here to rant about this horrible person that showed up at your house and instead exposed yourself as just as bad, although in different ways. You claim your friend mistreats his gf and you follow it up by trashing yours. What a class act!


THIS.

- I have never read XtremeModder say anything positive about his GF. It makes me wonder if there is some ulterior motive to him staying with her (is she or her parents rich? is she hot and this feeds his ego? is he too lazy? is he just scared to make a change in his life?) - either way, he talks about how BWS keeps being "used" by other guys but it sounds like XtremeModder uses his GF. Usery is when someone enjoys what someone else has to offer, without personally caring for/about them. The GF has alternately been described or implied, at different times, as an excessive shopper/spender, jealous nag, highstrung, etc. Meanwhile, when you read between the lines of his praise for the BWS (and every excuse for every flaw she has)--who is "amazing" or "great" in his eyes--you realize what a messed-up and selfish twit she is.

- XtremeModder does not like the fact that the GF would rather not make a scene of the situation when everyone else is present, but she reveals her real feelings and confides in him the things that bother her when they are 1 on 1. (The GF's behaviour is actually something that is, like, normal, restrained, and respectable and somehow this turns him off.)

- Some other points. XtremeModder, you are not smarter than your doctor. Champix is not the same as Wellbutrin (Wellbutrin is the same as Zyban.)

Also, you cannot test for every sexually transmitted infection. As the BWS you boned in the past has slept with many guys, there is a higher chance of her having caught certain strains of HPV. She has probably engaged in this pattern before she received Gardasil or Cervarix vaccinations, so if she caught a particularly nasty strain of it and gave it to you, your dong is now a potential cancer stick and some other girl you stick with it may be at increased risk for cervical cancer. Also, genital herpes won't show up on any tests if BWS wasn't paying attention to symptoms and missed the window for testing -- unless she shelled out $100-200 in order to get a blood test looking for antigens AND even then it won't tell you whether it's oral or genital infection.

Damn. This thread is getting interesting.

Xtrememodder.. You gonna take this ***** ?!?
Put your gloves up!

[peanutz]

Damn. This thread is getting interesting.

Xtrememodder.. You gonna take this ***** ?!?
Put your gloves up!
"Don't lose the love of your life, for the hoe of the night."

For some boys, it could be that the hoe of the night IS the love of their life.

Go Go Go!

[UrbanPoet]

"Don't lose the love of your life, for the hoe of the night."

For some boys, it could be that the hoe of the night IS the love of their life.

Go Go Go!

What he thinks might not be right, it could end up hurting someone elses life.
In this situation, he has to consider his gf's relations.

[boonjaca]

I'm confused, what does BWS stand for?

[peanutz]

I'm confused, what does BWS stand for?
B---h
W---e
S--t

If you need, you can buy some vowels to help with figuring it out.

[iEyeCaptain]

B---h
W---e
S--t

If you need, you can buy some vowels to help with figuring it out.

I love hangman!

"I", please.

[Lazy Susan]

B---h
W---e
S--t

If you need, you can buy some vowels to help with figuring it out.


Beach
Whole
Slot

[flashy_mcflash]

Birch
White
Snot

[steve-0101]

Brush
Whale
Spit

[manixc]

Such a first world problem. And from this and other threads, OP needs to break up with his GF.

[Simaahoy]

bench
whale
shot

[steve-0101]

Such a first world problem. And from this and other threads, OP needs to break up with his GF.

Stop derailing the acronym game

[Simaahoy]

*****
***** ***t


i win

[Jimboski]

*****
***** ***t


i win

Just curious but what did you win?

[Simaahoy]

Just curious but what did you win?

Besides guess the words I don't know lol

[kingrukus]

Oh boy, another RFD spills his personal guts in OT, what an interesting thread.

I give you kudos though for doing the right thing about your friend's cocaine habit, and telling his mother. At least you and the other friends weren't cowards by just abonding your friend with his problems, but rather saw to it that he fixed it. Is he a tool bag when sober as well? If he is, then its time to just abandon him, however if he is a cool guy without drugs/alcohol, maybe pull him aside and explain to him exactly what is wrong with him when he is sober. If he doesn't get it through his head at that point, then you tell him everyone dislikes him and he is a loser.

[XtremeModder]

Oh boy, another RFD spills his personal guts in OT, what an interesting thread.

I give you kudos though for doing the right thing about your friend's cocaine habit, and telling his mother. At least you and the other friends weren't cowards by just abonding your friend with his problems, but rather saw to it that he fixed it. Is he a tool bag when sober as well? If he is, then its time to just abandon him, however if he is a cool guy without drugs/alcohol, maybe pull him aside and explain to him exactly what is wrong with him when he is sober. If he doesn't get it through his head at that point, then you tell him everyone dislikes him and he is a loser.

Thank you. He actually brought it up the other day saying how I was an ***** for masterminding the whole thing. Basically told him to go ***** himself.

Got that idiot out of my life right now. All of us as a group have decided to cut him off completely. Iblacklist on those of us who have iPhones works well ;)

[oranr]

closed - rant