point of having a girlfriend?

[laptopuser]

not sure what the point of having a gf is in todays age. one of the only benefits is having someone to have sex with, but porn replaces that urge anyway.

pros:
- someone to have intercourse with
- someone that can help out with things (groceries, walking dog)

cons:
- money drain. must spend money to constantly impress her, and buy her gifts every holiday. good luck contributing to your TFSA or RRSP with your money going away
- you can no longer do whatever you want with your free time, you have to make sure its ok with her
- tied down to one girl
- have to deal with mood swings, headaches, menstruation, "feeling fat" and other things that prevent sex
- have to help her whenever she has a problem
- constantly have to worry if shes cheating on you behind your back
- have to spend time impressing her parents and putting up an act
- have to compliment her even if you dont feel like it
- bottomline: cant live your life the way you want, she has a say in it

[UrbanPoet]

Wow. You are friggin depressing!

[168]

Said the fox, as he retreated, "Those grapes were sour anyway."

[Agafaba]

Pro- Companionship


Based on how you list pros and cons I dont think it would be too hard to make an argument against friendship as well.

[windforcexx28]

If that list describe your girlfriend(s), then you're dating the wrong people.

IBTL

[mysticalinfluence]

Well now we can tell you've never had a girlfriend before. :facepalm:

[Junigenmukyoku]

Wow. You are friggin depressing!

+1 :lol:

I bet he doesn't know that it works both ways.

[laptopuser]

Pro- Companionship


Based on how you list pros and cons I dont think it would be too hard to make an argument against friendship as well.

except friends dont require money to keep and if i dont want to hang out or choose to hang out with someone else its ok. also they dont expect certain things out of me, like remembering dates of things that happened

also friends have helped me get jobs, or get deals on items etc. mutually beneficial relationship. and most of us like the same things so we have fun when we're together

and im not tied down to only one friend

[Agafaba]

except friends dont require money to keep and if i dont want to hang out or choose to hang out with someone else its ok. also they dont expect certain things out of me, like remembering dates of things that happened

also friends have helped me get jobs, or get deals on items etc. mutually beneficial relationship. and most of us like the same things so we have fun when we're together

So what your trying to say in a really round about way is that you dont like your girlfriend? Have you considered dating someone you do like?

[laptopuser]

+1 :lol:

I bet he doesn't know that it works both ways.

if i had a gf i wouldnt tell her NO you cant hang out with your friends tonight you have to hang out iwth me. or why havent you bought me a new car yet. or does this make me look fat? so its not exactly equal relationship is it?

[4flava]

OP is a very low self-esteem 40 yr old virgin. This quote alone "but porn replaces that urge anyway" proves that he's a virgin since we all know that nothing can replace real sex. :twisted:

[laptopuser]

OP is a very low self-esteem 40 yr old virgin. This quote alone "but porn replaces that urge anyway" proves that he's a virgin since we all know that nothing can replace real sex. :twisted:

look i know that nothing replaces real sex. and no im not a virgin. but why waste your time pursuing sex when you can just replace that urge with porn? my point is i guess that it costs too much time/money to be in a relationship. and sex isnt a necessary function of life, unlike air, food and water

[Simaahoy]

here is the reason:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vwNcNOTVzY

[ali123]

look i know that nothing replaces real sex. and no im not a virgin. but why waste your time pursuing sex when you can just replace that urge with porn? my point is i guess that it costs too much time/money to be in a relationship. and sex isnt a necessary function of life, unlike air, food and water

What else are you gonna do with your time? fap to more porn? rofl

[Xpwmata]

look i know that nothing replaces real sex. and no im not a virgin. but why waste your time pursuing sex when you can just replace that urge with porn? my point is i guess that it costs too much time/money to be in a relationship. and sex isnt a necessary function of life, unlike air, food and water

Married people live longer (believe it or not) and are better off financially than single people. Acquiring a girlfriend leading to marriage will net you both more living time and more $$$.

[laptopuser]

Married people live longer (believe it or not) and are better off financially than single people. Acquiring a girlfriend leading to marriage will net you both more living time and more $$$.

what about divorced people... and kids cost money too. if i was single and saved money every paycheque vs having kids and a wife to support, i think id be better off

[fenrus]

I think you watch too many teeny bopper movies OP.

[edgedamage]

not sure what the point of having a gf is in todays age. one of the only benefits is having someone to have sex with, but porn replaces that urge anyway.

pros:
- someone to have intercourse with
- someone that can help out with things (groceries, walking dog)

cons:
- money drain. must spend money to constantly impress her, and buy her gifts every holiday. good luck contributing to your TFSA or RRSP with your money going away
- you can no longer do whatever you want with your free time, you have to make sure its ok with her
- tied down to one girl
- have to deal with mood swings, headaches, menstruation, "feeling fat" and other things that prevent sex
- have to help her whenever she has a problem
- constantly have to worry if shes cheating on you behind your back
- have to spend time impressing her parents and putting up an act
- have to compliment her even if you dont feel like it
- bottomline: cant live your life the way you want, she has a say in it
Rosie Palm and her five sisters must get boring after a while.

[uber_shnitz]

You're comparing porn vs a gf? :lol: At least if you'd done FwB vs gf you'd have a BIT more of an argument but your hand vs the actual thing? hahahaha

[Xpwmata]

what about divorced people... and kids cost money too. if i was single and saved money every paycheque vs having kids and a wife to support, i think id be better off

you dont have to have kids bruh...also prenups...either look into it or only pursue high quality women capable of earning their own keep

there are plenty of women are hauling themselves around the city every day to their 9-5

[laptopuser]

You're comparing porn vs a gf? :lol: At least if you'd done FwB vs gf you'd have a BIT more of an argument but your hand vs the actual thing? hahahaha

dont see what the big deal is. its still an orgasm at the end. and the actual thing isnt that amazing anyway. you guys hype it way too much. sex can be tedious/boring. at least you can pick and choose which porn you want to watch

[uber_shnitz]

dont see what the big deal is. its still an orgasm at the end. and the actual thing isnt that amazing anyway. you guys hype it way too much. sex can be tedious/boring. at least you can pick and choose which porn you want to watch
If that was the case prostitution wouldn't still be alive in any country with internet yet it's still there last I checked.

[laptopuser]

If that was the case prostitution wouldn't still be alive in any country with internet yet it's still there last I checked.

ya well thats cuz some guys are super horny 24/7 or just get bored of porn. im not one of those guys who are always on the prowl for women and constantly want sex... i find it to be a stereotype but i guess it exists and i asusme those are the type of guys that would pay for sex (sex addicts)

[Xpwmata]

ya well thats cuz some guys are super horny 24/7 or just get bored of porn. im not one of those guys who are always on the prowl for women and constantly want sex... i find it to be a stereotype but i guess it exists and i asusme those are the type of guys that would pay for sex (sex addicts)

OP, pardon me for reading between the lines here, but you may be addicted to internet porno ...

[laptopuser]

you dont have to have kids bruh...also prenups...either look into it or only pursue high quality women capable of earning their own keep

there are plenty of women are hauling themselves around the city every day to their 9-5

hard to connect with women when you yourself are busy working or odnt meet them through frineds.. you have to go to various speed dating things, or bars/clubs, or online dating. in the end you can spend so much time trying to woo a girl and she'll just ignore or reject you. most girls expect you to have a 6 pack, love going to bars with her, and be into sports. sorry i wont change myself to fit someone elses ideal partner

[laptopuser]

OP, pardon me for reading between the lines here, but you may be addicted to internet porno ...

possibly but it saves me time/money in the long run. like i said, ive listed the pros/cons, and even if i am addicted its still saving me from a lot of negative stuff

[Buggy166]

OP, pardon me for reading between the lines here, but you may be addicted to internet porno ...

hes on RFD...its definately a better deal than any real woman, much cheaper for sure. i think he's right on the money regarding that. though i dont get what its got to do with being or not being in a relationship.

[ssharm02]

Buy a fleshlight and save the trouble.

[Jimboski]

This Is like a smarter deals x3 thread!

[Simaahoy]

Spousal support so they can spend it on gucci, dolce and gabbana purses and etc.

or

test driving your future spouse

[AznDud333]

sad truth to society aint it?

[Jimboski]

Don't want too much porn. You will have erectile dysfunction issues down the road. FACT.

Sex with a vagina is better than a hand. FACT.

How you know!? :)!

[Agafaba]

This Is like a smarter deals x3 thread!

Slight difference, Deals x3 wants help getting a girlfriend. the OP is making a thread about the complete opposite thing.

laptopuser is to Deals x3 what hot is to cold.

[desidealer49]

Exactly: no need for a girlfriend/wife relationship. Another hurdle removed in our quest to achieve the robot singularity.




























































































/s

[Simaahoy]

17 members wow :cry:

[Jimboski]

Slight difference, Deals x3 wants help getting a girlfriend. the OP is making a thread about the complete opposite thing.

laptopuser is to Deals x3 what hot is to cold.

Alright, I guess I can say It's not "smarter" then!

[Xpwmata]

hard to connect with women when you yourself are busy working or odnt meet them through frineds.. you have to go to various speed dating things, or bars/clubs, or online dating. in the end you can spend so much time trying to woo a girl and she'll just ignore or reject you. most girls expect you to have a 6 pack, love going to bars with her, and be into sports. sorry i wont change myself to fit someone elses ideal partner

well if you don't have time, you don't have time... but if the girls don't come to you, you have to go to them (and bars dont count, if you think its a good idea to be picking up girls that hang out in bars all night, you should reconsider...)

[uber_shnitz]

I have the OP beat.

He failed at a critical step in his train of thought: he tried using.logic in the same text as women :lol:

[Jimboski]

well if you don't have time, you don't have time... but if the girls don't come to you, you have to go to them (and bars dont count, if you think its a good idea to be picking up girls that hang out in bars all night, you should reconsider...)

Bar girls only want free drinks right!?

[Xpwmata]

hes on RFD...its definately a better deal than any real woman, much cheaper for sure. i think he's right on the money regarding that. though i dont get what its got to do with being or not being in a relationship.

Maybe RFD should start a new forum category dedicated to Deal Gurus and Coupon Clippers looking to to hookup.

[lazymonkeygod]

not sure what the point of having a gf is in todays age. one of the only benefits is having someone to have sex with, but porn replaces that urge anyway.

pros:
- someone to have intercourse with
- someone that can help out with things (groceries, walking dog)

cons:
- money drain. must spend money to constantly impress her, and buy her gifts every holiday. good luck contributing to your TFSA or RRSP with your money going away
- you can no longer do whatever you want with your free time, you have to make sure its ok with her
- tied down to one girl
- have to deal with mood swings, headaches, menstruation, "feeling fat" and other things that prevent sex
- have to help her whenever she has a problem
- constantly have to worry if shes cheating on you behind your back
- have to spend time impressing her parents and putting up an act
- have to compliment her even if you dont feel like it
- bottomline: cant live your life the way you want, she has a say in it

Cons to Pro:
- Get a girl that will buy you stuff and give you money like a pimp
- what if having sex is what you want to do in your free time?
- just make it an open relationship
- break up with her, then once those issues are gone, get back together
- get a girl that's independent
- cheat on her back first
- date an orphan
- make them work for the compliment example, "you're good at giving bjs..."
- if you want to live your life as a homosexual, I can't help you there...

[No Frills]

Having deeper relationships is one of the best ways to discover yourself of your likes and dislikes.

[Mars2012]

You know those people who say they never want to have children and they don't...and it's a good thing? Same in your case, you don't want a relationship, so you're saving some poor gal from having to suffer through a relationship with you. Good decision.

[virgilaug]

not sure what the point of having a gf is in todays age. one of the only benefits is having someone to have sex with, but porn replaces that urge anyway.

pros:
- someone to have intercourse with
- someone that can help out with things (groceries, walking dog)


Good stuff.




cons:
- money drain. must spend money to constantly impress her, and buy her gifts every holiday. good luck contributing to your TFSA or RRSP with your money going away



Dump her ***** if you have to do that. Those type of girls are only good for one thing, sex. Other than that, they are worthless.



- you can no longer do whatever you want with your free time, you have to make sure its ok with her


You can. If you feel like you can't because of her, then leaver her.





- tied down to one girl



That's the point of a monogamous relationship.



- have to deal with mood swings, headaches, menstruation, "feeling fat" and other things that prevent sex
- have to help her whenever she has a problem


That's womanhood for you.



- constantly have to worry if shes cheating on you behind your back

Then leave her ***** .



- have to spend time impressing her parents and putting up an act
- have to compliment her even if you dont feel like it



Those are irrelevant.



- bottomline: cant live your life the way you want, she has a say in it


She you can. Man up and wear the pants in the relationship for once.

[zz000ter]

There is an old joke

Q. Why did God give women vaginas?
A. So that men would talk to them.

If you are not interested in 'free" sex and family
- then women are just people to be friends with
... and there is no need to have a GF

But if you a good player you can get lots of sex for free from many women.

[poedua]

hard to connect with women when you yourself are busy working or odnt meet them through frineds.. you have to go to various speed dating things, or bars/clubs, or online dating. in the end you can spend so much time trying to woo a girl and she'll just ignore or reject you. most girls expect you to have a 6 pack, love going to bars with her, and be into sports. sorry i wont change myself to fit someone elses ideal partner

How many girlfriends have you had in your life so far ?

[Anonymouse]

Because sandwiches don't make themselves.

[mbg]

Mainly, the reason is that in the real world you have to interact with people who behave like your girlfriend will.

By taking her on as your partner, you become used to it and learn to deal with bad stuff a whole lot more than you would otherwise, thereby increasing your chances of success in the real world.

It's one reason why married people are more successful than single people... they know how to put up with stuff and work at a slower pace that's compatible with other people (i.e. teamwork).

Also, it industrializes intercourse as you've mentioned and industrializes the process of airing your anger and frustrations.

[Maymybonneliveforever]

Have a girlfriend is suppose to be like being with your very best friend, that fact that your sexually attracted to this person is icing on the cake. I'm hoping you know what the true definition of a best friend is? If not than read below; Best friends don't judge you, restrict you or any of the negative coments so far, there is so much confusion between best friends and what people percieve them to be. I don't know of many people that don't need or want a best friend. Most people that believe they have best friend really don't.

Best Friend

Best Friends are very special people in your life. They are the first people you think about when you make plans. They are the first people you go to when you need someone to talk to. You will phone them up just to talk about nothing, or the most important things in your life. When you’re sad they will try their hardest to cheer you up. They give the best hugs in the world! They are the shoulder to cry on, because you know that they truly care about you. In most cases they would take a bullet for you, coz it would be too painful to watch you get hurt.

[mbg]

There is an old joke

Q. Why did God give women vaginas?
A. So that men would talk to them.


God gave men penises so that men would talk to them as well... at least for the gay ones. Although someone told me that God didn't make gay men and they came from somewhere else.

[stealth]

Well now we can tell you've never had a girlfriend before. :facepalm:

Oh I think he has...in 1950.

[Mr.Sea]

I like the time when OP told me porn was equivalent to sex.

[deltone]

How refreshing. FINALLY a thread that slams females. I've been getting tired of reading thread after thread of man bashing posts so thank you OP for a fresh idea and something new on RFD. You sound like such a charming man. I'm so sorry that a prize such as yourself has had such trouble finding a quality woman. I mean with your attitude they should be lining up at your door. Go figure.

[zz000ter]

Also, it industrializes intercourse as you've mentioned and industrializes the process of airing your anger and frustrations.

Industrializes?

Please explain

[laptopuser]

How refreshing. FINALLY a thread that slams females. I've been getting tired of reading thread after thread of man bashing posts so thank you OP for a fresh idea and something new on RFD. You sound like such a charming man. I'm so sorry that a prize such as yourself has had such trouble finding a quality woman. I mean with your attitude they should be lining up at your door. Go figure.

i am not insulting females. i dont wish to interact with you or talk with you or care that you're there. i just go about my business and avoid you as i see no point in developing relationships with your kind. i was curious as to what benefit people see in having a girlfriend, maybe ive missed something. thats all.

[MrDisco]

i am not insulting females

Actually you are.