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cipher
Sep 28th, 2005, 12:03 PM
I got a wedding invite and it says "Presentation" on it.

dalion
Sep 28th, 2005, 12:06 PM
whats the sentence i'm sure it doesn't only say "presentation" and if it does thats very odd



I got a wedding invite and it says "Presentation" on it.

cipher
Sep 28th, 2005, 12:13 PM
whats the sentence i'm sure it doesn't only say "presentation" and if it does thats very odd

It says "Presentation Wedding"...

GunnerX
Sep 28th, 2005, 12:14 PM
It means dress properly for the wedding and don't show up wearing tattered jeans and a wife beater.

15-20_God
Sep 28th, 2005, 12:22 PM
it means you have to make a speech or powerpoint presentation about the couple. Its an assignment.

me!
Sep 28th, 2005, 12:23 PM
i first thought that it mean that the bride and groom already did their vows/ceremony and they are just inviting you to show them selves off

"Hey look guys, we're married!!"

dalion
Sep 28th, 2005, 12:24 PM
it doesn't mean dress properly if thats what it meant then they would say "this even is black tie"

I'm not sure what 'presentation wedding' means I just hope thats not a typo HAHA

cOmAtOaSt
Sep 28th, 2005, 12:36 PM
It means before the wedding there will be a 3 hour presentation on buying time shares.

dalion
Sep 28th, 2005, 12:38 PM
LMAO



It means before the wedding there will be a 3 hour presentation on buying time shares.

B40
Sep 28th, 2005, 12:45 PM
haha shiet you can't even get a straight answer these days without a few guys making a few wise cracks :lol:

Piccolo
Sep 28th, 2005, 12:48 PM
I got a wedding invite and it says "Presentation" on it.

I was curious and googled it. This was one of the websites I came across. It looks like it's a polite way for the bride and groom to ask for money instead of gifts.

http://www.toronto.com/feature/452/4.html

me!
Sep 28th, 2005, 12:50 PM
I was curious and googled it. This was one of the websites I came across. It looks like it's a polite way for the bride and groom to ask for money instead of gifts.

http://www.toronto.com/feature/452/4.html
as if anybody would really know. why dont' they just say it.

"no gifts please, we want money instead"

The Shirker
Sep 28th, 2005, 12:50 PM
I was curious and googled it. This was one of the websites I came across. It looks like it's a polite way for the bride and groom to ask for money instead of gifts.

http://www.toronto.com/feature/452/4.html

I did the same thing.

Obviously it's not a good way to ask for money if not many people know what it means! I didn't think anyone still bought wedding gifts. In my circle of friends, everyone registers gifts for the shower and the wedding is all cash.

Piccolo
Sep 28th, 2005, 12:53 PM
I went one wedding and if a person wanted to dance with the bride or groom they pinned money on them. Don't know what custom that was, but you get the gifts and the money.

dalion
Sep 28th, 2005, 12:53 PM
exactly.



I did the same thing.

Obviously it's not a good way to ask for money if not many people know what it means! I didn't think anyone still bought wedding gifts. In my circle of friends, everyone registers gifts for the shower and the wedding is all cash.

15-20_God
Sep 28th, 2005, 01:00 PM
I went one wedding and if a person wanted to dance with the bride or groom they pinned money on them. Don't know what custom that was, but you get the gifts and the money.

how much money do you pin on the bride if you want the full package?

Piccolo
Sep 28th, 2005, 01:11 PM
how much money do you pin on the bride if you want the full package?

Lol I don't know about the bride, but I pinned $20 on the groom and only got 1/2 dance before someone else cut it.

15-20_God
Sep 28th, 2005, 01:15 PM
Lol I don't know about the bride, but I pinned $20 on the groom and only got 1/2 dance before someone else cut it.

You got jipped. 20 bucks usually gets you a full song. hope you didn't tip him.

cipher
Sep 28th, 2005, 02:04 PM
I did the same thing.

Obviously it's not a good way to ask for money if not many people know what it means! I didn't think anyone still bought wedding gifts. In my circle of friends, everyone registers gifts for the shower and the wedding is all cash.


How do I give the cash to them? Do I just put the cash in with the card? Also, can I put in a check instead? How much should I put in?

The Shirker
Sep 28th, 2005, 02:37 PM
How do I give the cash to them? Do I just put the cash in with the card? Also, can I put in a check instead? How much should I put in?

Ususally when you walk into the reception there is a frilly white box or a basket where you drop off the card with the funds enclosed. Make sure you sign the card ;)

Cash or cheque is fine.... if you do cash, try to get big bills ($50 or $100). For some reason it's looked down upon if you use 10s and 20s (I don't know why though - money is money). The standard for me giving is $100 per person (i.e. if it's me and a date it's $200) but it all depends on how lavish the reception is. You at least want to cover the cost of your dinner.

At one of my friend's wedding, someone wrote a cheque that later bounced. She called the guest up afterwards to let them know and they said they'd send a replacement. They never did and she has too much class to bring it up again. At another friend's wedding, a family of four showed up bearing an empty, unsigned card. How did he know it came from them? Easy - they went through the guest list and checked off everyone who brought something. That family was the only one left unticked. :D Needless to say, they won't be invited to another wedding. What sucked is the food cost $70 per plate... so my friends were out $280 and didn't even get a signed card in return.

TrEvOrLiCioUs
Sep 28th, 2005, 02:47 PM
It means before the wedding there will be a 3 hour presentation on buying time shares.

Or taking bets on how long it will last.

puff_daddy_58_99
Sep 28th, 2005, 02:51 PM
it means you have to make a speech or powerpoint presentation about the couple. Its an assignment.

Are we talking cost/benefit analysis for the presentation? Perhaps a SWOT analysis? Be sure to have handouts ready to go! :lol: :lol:

mrmoe
Sep 28th, 2005, 02:54 PM
it means you have to make a speech or powerpoint presentation about the couple. Its an assignment.

yep, anyone need a presentation, i have one prepared for a low price of $100, pics are included.

GunnerX
Sep 28th, 2005, 03:31 PM
I went one wedding and if a person wanted to dance with the bride or groom they pinned money on them. Don't know what custom that was, but you get the gifts and the money.

That's a Filipino custom. It stems from the poor regions where people usually can't afford to hold a large wedding. People pin money as their contribution to the wedding to help pay it off. Afterwards, there's usually gambling to raise more money.

YLSF
Sep 28th, 2005, 03:51 PM
Never heard the term either myself... "Cash only" weddings/etc are kind of lame.. I mean, I would probably only give cash at an italian wedding for example but usually give gifts at my friends weddings..

CodecX81
Sep 28th, 2005, 04:05 PM
sounds engrish ;)

konfusion666
Sep 28th, 2005, 08:08 PM
as if anybody would really know. why dont' they just say it.

"no gifts please, we want money instead"

noooo, not another

"*whine* why do i have to give CASH at a wedding *whine*" thread.