delete please

[guest156]

delete

[hrmmm]

Just curious, how old are you?

Anyhow, I wouldn't, but that's me.

[MilkyWind]

I gave over 4000+ in gifts to a person I loved. At the end, I got so fed up I asked for one of the things back. I only did it out of anger. That was a long time ago.

However, that person wasn't using what I asked for back at that time (An mp3 player). I think it cost me around close to 200 dollars when I bought it back then long ago.

I had a friend who also speant up to a thousand probably for her boyfriend during their 5 year relationship, whilst he speant close to nothing on her. When they broke up, she never asked for anything back. Only her pride.

[Rifle]

Pretty much same as hmmm, I wouldn't ask for it back. That's like giving money to a friend in need and constantly bringing it up for favours. Just let it go, better that way.

[poromol]

do you mean 1k in 1-2 big gifts or like 10-20 small gifts?

[HighFlyer]

What's given is given.... move on.


I didn't have a good relationship with my ex and we were always fighting and stuff. He called me a lot of names and he really hurt me a lot. I broke it off and I don't think he deserved the things I gave him over the 6 months of period that we were together. (around $1000 in total in gifts).
and you still continued to give stuff to him?

[funkyfr3sh_]

A gift is a gift.

I do not think there are any take backs. You do not OWN it anymore, so rightfully it is not yours to ask for it back. If you let someone borrow something of yours, then I think you have a right to ask for it back cause afterall, you still own it.

[webdoctors]

i'd ask for it back if i wanted it....who karez?

[j1mmay]

Do you really need the gifts back? What are you gonna do with them anyways lol

[Cyber6]

I am sorry.. but it is sooo ghetto to be asking for gifts back.

It is gone.. forget about it. Move on with your life.

C.

[aZn_Popcorn]

I think you should ask for it back if you feel he does not deserve them. You spent your money on it.

[xchodax]

is it really about the gifts? or are you trying to find a reason to see him again? may be deeeeep deeeep down you still care about him....

if not then im assuming that he's given you things too...so unless ur prepared to give back his things...you should just let it go cuz asking for it back would only cause more fighting...

[jayisthebest88]

you sound like a horrible horrible person, taking back gifts....Im ashamed.....

[MrWizard]

Your first mistake was spending over $1000 on this guy when you had only dated for 6 months.

[xchodax]

It's just about I only worked during school year because I wanted to buy him things that he wouldn't buy for himself but he wanted them. I just felt that all my hard-work money went to a worthless man. I bought him 2 gifts added up to $1000 over 6 months of the relationship.

It's not an excuse for me to see him again because I am just too fed up by him.

well if u really think that he treated u like trash throughout the majority of the relationship and that he's "useless." (we can assume that he hasn't gotten you any gifts because of his uselessness) Then yea...go get u 1k back...

and wow u spent a grand on a guy you've only dated for 6 months...either ur rich or he knows how to play the "game."

[boonjaca]

I gave over 4000+ in gifts to a person I loved.

Wow, you actually keep track of the gifts you gave this person?

Over 4000, that's a lot of stuff.

[FastFokker]

Wow, you actually keep track of the gifts you gave this person?Yeah that's kind of strange keeping track of value of gifts... Or maybe I'm strange for thinking that's strange.