High school prom just around the corner...

[Ultra-]

:)

[Shaner]

It's prom, you have to go with a girl. Not doing so violates all the rules of prom.
Go with the girl who gives you the best chance of getting laid. That's just my opinion.

After all, what's prom without sex in the hotel room afterward?

[barqy]

2nd edit: no it wont be gay if you go prom with your buddies, it's not like everyone would have a 'date'... btw prom is overated so dont waste toooo much $$ on it because who doesnt grad from HS these days.

anyway i dont condone shaners view at all.

[sxz]

If you were really a nerd, you'd be staying home on prom night so this scenario would never come up in the first place.

[john widow]

I am a little confused because of all the winking and the smiley faces getting in the way.

Anyways, it's a better thing that your friend has no money nor has no drivers license. You don't need that to impress her.

Well if the friend asks the girl out...and the other guy hears about it. He'll be sad...but yeah...c'mon.

What YOU SHOULD DO IS.
Go up to the one girl and say, hey um my friend has something he wants to say to you and you drag her over. Then you find the other girl and drag her in the same spot. Then you drag your guy friend over, and slap him silly until he asks her out. and they'll be like awww. okay we'll go out with your friend......or.... you ultra.

[cyberknight]

ya, don't go ballistic with spending. this won't be as a joyful night as what you will come to experience after the life of high school.

[john widow]

U know what? Just wear your nicest clothes u can find at home. Some people spend $1000 suites...only for prom. Then rent a mercedes car, a limo.....hotel...etc...wow...one day only.

[Thundercloud]

The *wink* and ;) are very annoying.

Anyway, it doesn't matter if his those friends like the two girls. If they're not going to do anything about it then it's fair play. If they did something about it and failed then it's fair play. If they're too slow then it's fair play :P Worse thing that can happen is things might get a little awkward.

TONs of new couples are born at or before prom and then spend a happy summer together so don't be afraid to ask a girl out. There's only 2 months of school left for you to be embrassed if you failed and you won't see most of your schoolmates anymore so who cares what they think? Being the guy who got rejected is better than being the guy who's a coward.

Otherwise, lots of people go to the prom alone, it's fine. Think of it as a very very expensive formal dinner with friend.

I wish "your friend" luck.

[Thundercloud]

U know what? Just wear your nicest clothes u can find at home. Some people spend $1000 suites...only for prom. Then rent a mercedes car, a limo.....hotel...etc...wow...one day only.

Wait... Hotel? That's for the party after the prom right? :P

[hugh_da_man]

going to prom alone would have been painfully lame.

It was a great night full of lots of drunkeness and my gf at the time made everything that much better.

Do whatever is less painful for related friendships but don't go alone.

[fakishan]

I am a little confused because of all the winking and the smiley faces getting in the way.

I know, I think he intends to rape and murder all the girls at his prom night :confused:

[john widow]

lol...the worst that can happen is nothing. Your friend doesn't even say a word to the girl. Just do it. Since you are in on the situation, you should help your friend out. Since you don't like the girl, it's not hard for you. Make her come close to your friend, lock them in the washroom.

[6644]

The winks are very annoying =\!!



1)Lets say he asks one of the girls out and she complies. What happens there? My friend *wink* has no money nor does he have a drivers lisence. Does he tell her to meet up at the school? When he *wink* get to the school, since neither have ever dated before, does he just hang out with his friends while she hangs out with her's? If he hangs out with her, wouldn't it be awkard and wouldn't your friends be surprised?

well if she says yes, then you better have at least enough money to buy the ticket to prom. you can ask how you want to meet up or whatever. if you want, you could hang out with your friends. but, you should at least dance or hang out with her for a bit since you asked her.


2) When his *wink* friend finds out that you ask the girl of his dreams out, what would his reaction normally be? (both friends are really nice people)

it's like the other person said, fair play.


3) If he just goes with his guy friends to the prom (to avoid the above two dillemma), would it seem gay? As in, do others do it? Is it still worth going and wasting upwards to $60+.

it wouldn't seem gay, guys do go to the prom with other friends.

[jm20]

Go, your friend *wink*, to prom with a Girl. Who cares if a friend is crushing on a girl, if he seen her and didn't make his move its his fault. Remember she is not his, not in the ownership sense, unless he makes a move, and a failure to do so allows her to be open to be sexxed up by your friend *wink*. Your prospects are looking good, now make the move before he does ! :D

[CheapScotsman]

sounds like he would be better off staying home and working on getting rid of his *wink* and ;)

[felix]

Everyone mentioned here is asian, if that matters. The school is basically 70% asian :cheesygri
Which high school is this? Let me guess .. St. Rob's?

[Blunt]

Ok, since you *wink* and your date ;) are both nerds, then don't worry about the cloths. Dress your best clothes that you got, ride your bikes to the prom and you'll be doing great. Every prom needs their share of dorks and nerds to be totally out of place ;)....

And, aren't most proms held in hotels nowadays? Your school *wink* sounds really lame.

[Sajjad]

Forget it, tell him to go out with :razz: . :razz: doesn't mind if ;) has a fancy car or a limo. :razz: is looking for someone as well, so far there is ;) :) :D :( and :| .

[9mmCensor]

Just get a 26er, a bag of weed and some x, and any date that will put out.

[yuwing8]

do U know he has feelings for her for real? or is it speculation?

if it is speculation, just ask him "DO U LIKE ____? U SHOULD ASK HER OUT FOR PROM NIGHT!"

if he says no, then ****ing race ur ass to her at school and give her a sentimental card (pink card with envelope with nice writing) inviting her to a prom. Along the lines of "It would be my pleasure if you allow me to take you to the prom". Then tell her "i'll give u some time to think about it, g2g" then walk away. if she says yes, SCORE! if not, ask the other girl the same way. if yes, SCORE! if not, u lose in life. Go with guyfriends.

as for what to wear. Buy a suit. ~$200 these days. and u can wear in the future at job interviews, weddings, funerals, etc etc. make sure it's black.
Get whatever dress shirt you want. I don't like plain white as they are too "normal" so get something of color or with patterns. They're around ~$25-30? finally shoes, get shiny dress shoes. preferably formal dress shoes. i don't like round toe, i like flat and long. ~$70-80?

all in all, $300 and u get to keep these things for the future - again wedding, job interviews, prom, events at university (Graduation), HS graduation etc etc.

ask ur parents to give u and her a ride (have ur dad dress as a chaffeur :D jk.). DON"T RIDE ON A BIKE, the wind will mess up ur clothes, u'll smell like outside air and ur hair will be blown to UNSIGHTLY proportions. worst thing is u'lll sweat and ruin the whole night cuz u're going to smell.

before dressing up, go to ur local bay/sears/shoppers drug mart and pick out ur fav cologne and spray it on ur neck and wrists and rub them against each other. DON"T WASH IT AWAY.

last thing is to have fun but most likely u won't.

[funkyfr3sh_]

Going with your guy friends isn't gay. Maybe though, at your table try and find a few female friends to sit with you guys.

Ask the girl - being a girl, even if I immediately don't want to go with you, I probably will think about it. A lot of girls, also do not like saying no (if she doesnt have other plans). So I would say...your chances might be fairly good if shes single and not eyeing someone else. *wink* =P

[keanefan]

the prom is no big deal.

some people ask ANYBODY with a pulse to the prom and they don't plan to date afterwards

you can hire a professional escort

one girl brought her mother

Hollywood movies make a big deal about the prom but it's no big deal

you can go up to your female friends and ask them whom they want to go to the prom with, etc

[cyberknight]

yeah, we can blame Hollywood for that. especially since most Hollywood actors who portray high schoolers are like 25 years old

[Gordon]

The O.C.? What the hell is with all the ;) !! :mad:

I didnt even end up reading your post because there was too many god damn ;) !

[B40]

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[UrbanPoet]

i always thought prom was overrated...
I didnt go to my high school prom. MY school was too ghetto to even have one... their prom was shared between 2 other schools due to lack of turn out (most of the ppl in my school were drop outs, or rejects from other schools).

I did go to my h.s. swt hearts prom. She made my buy this suit. It was a BIG hit... -_-
cost me $200 but it incld. pants, jacket, 2 shirts.

[Anessa]

Have a good time *Wink ;)

[LegiT]

Lol...just don't do all this *Winking*(seems more like twitching in this case) at the prom...the other person will think you have issues....

[B40]

Lol...just don't do all this *Winking*(seems more like twitching in this case) at the prom...the other person will think you have issues....

Maybe he just got pulp in his eye?

Pulp can movie baby!

[Ultra-]

:)

[Shaner]

Just get a 26er, a bag of weed and some x, and any date that will put out.

haha
You got it backwards though.
Any date will put out if she is given x.

ps. And by given, I mean willingly and knowingly takes

[superpal3]

the previous advice posted here is all correct.

yeah if you go with a guy you are a ***

$60 is too much...so pick a rich chick that likes sex...and make her pay.

remember to bring condoms

you just go to prom to get laid...or you may as well stay home

take a good looking one...because when you're drunk they look better giving you a BJ

...if you're Asian with a small pecker...maybe take two white dates cause neither will know you were in anyway.

[superpal3]

haha
You got it backwards though.
Any date will put out if she is given x.

ps. And by given, I mean willingly and knowingly takes

wut the fk is X ?

[UrbanPoet]

wut the fk is X ?

xtacy = drugs.

[najibs]

its pretty sad if u need to get her drugged up to get laid