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hey_dude1643
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:11 PM
Solveddd!

gretzky99
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:16 PM
and soooo you are rejecting her advances because she is what? ugly? fat?
What's the problem? :confused:

ndrew029
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:16 PM
Write her a love letter consisting of one paragraph full of run-on sentences and missing/incorrect punctuation.

She'll be so turned off that she'll reject you. Problem solved.

Shaner
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:17 PM
This should really be common sense; however, you need to be honest with her despite the fact that you will hurt her. That's life.

Tell her that you're not looking for anything right now and just aren't interested in the same way she is. Tell her that if she wants to continue to be friends then that's fine, but that's as far as it goes.

Be polite about it, but be honest. I always throw out the friendship line because it softens the blow a little bit, but at the same time I know that they won't want to be friends afterwards because it's awkward for them.

Vashin
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:17 PM
just say not interested

calcuu
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:17 PM
Some visuals will have to be shown to make our decision :)

originalnutta
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:17 PM
Well i'm glad you came to us first, instead of just talking to her.

Your next step is to post pictures so we can give you an educated reply.

Shaner
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:21 PM
and soooo you are rejecting her advances because she is what? ugly? fat?
What's the problem? :confused:

Maybe he's gay.

Dash
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:21 PM
ask sockhead or 7jaii. they know how to turn girls off. :lol:

j/k guys.

Vashin
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:22 PM
Well i'm glad you came to us first, instead of just talking to her.

Your next step is to post pictures so we can give you an educated reply.

Haha usually I don't post in all these crappy relationship advice threads... but has anyone actually posted pics in RFD history in one of these threads?

hey_dude1643
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:22 PM
=)=)=)

BornRuff
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:27 PM
Well, you really should have been more clear with her the first time she said she liked you. If she told you she likes you, and you guys keep hanging out and making plans, she obviously is going to think you have some sort of feelings back towards her. She has made some very clear indications of her intent towards you, you can't just leave subbtle hints that you don't like her back.

I think right now, if you don't want to date her, your probably not going to be friends either, she will probably be pissed at you and she has every right to be. She probably gave you indication that she was breaking up with her boyfriend for you before she broke up with him, but even if she didn't, she let you know this weeks ago apparently, and if you had been clear with her then, it would have made things much easier on her.

In the future, man up and be straight with people about this sort of stuff. What your doing right now just makes it harder on everyone invovled.

For now, next time you talk to her, say something like this "_________, I'm sorry for the way I've been treating you recently. I know you made your feelings very clear to me, but I did not make my feelings for you clear. I don't feel the same way about you that you feel about me. I'm sorry that I did not tell you this sooner."

NiMSo
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:36 PM
Just not my "type" of person....

That's impossible! That defies the basic principles of 'ladder theory'. The only reasonable explanation for you not liking her is that you either think she's wolf ugly, or you have access to someone else who's higher on the 'ladder'.

monty613
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:39 PM
Who talks on the phone for 60-70 hours/month to a girl they're not interested in?

Setz
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:41 PM
Write her a love letter consisting of one paragraph full of run-on sentences and missing/incorrect punctuation.

She'll be so turned off that she'll reject you. Problem solved.

Nothing turns me off more than run on sentences and comma splices.

monty613
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:44 PM
:arrowu: send her the link to this thread she'll get the idea

Vashin
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:47 PM
haha I have a theory that all threads like this one are full of trolls

AcidBomber
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:49 PM
What's with the relationship threads these days?!

first it was the "how to make up to my gf" now this "how to reject a girl"...

time to get a RFD RELATIONSHIP section!

manixc
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:50 PM
Haha usually I don't post in all these crappy relationship advice threads... but has anyone actually posted pics in RFD history in one of these threads?
no but it doesn't hurt to try.

anyway, this is likely a troll thread.

heat
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:52 PM
That's impossible! That defies the basic principles of 'ladder theory'. The only reasonable explanation for you not liking her is that you either think she's wolf ugly, or you have access to someone else who's higher on the 'ladder'.

:lol:



OP I posted a thread like this as well last year. Trying to get a girl off my back. You can find it if you look for my threads.
I started to stop picking up her phone calls, stopped text messaging back, also did stuff where she wasn't there. Eventually she got the message.

You could try telling her about some other girl you like and ask her for advice:lol: She will understand that you're not into her

Shaner
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:53 PM
What's with the relationship threads these days?!

first it was the "how to make up to my gf" now this "how to reject a girl"...

time to get a RFD RELATIONSHIP section!

Or it's time for these kids to smarten up and use a little common sense. Even when I was in grade 7, I knew how to tell a girl I wasn't interested in her. It's pretty fricken easy.

gretzky99
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:56 PM
OP I posted a thread like this as well last year. Trying to get a girl off my back. You can find it if you look for my threads.
I started to stop picking up her phone calls, stopped text messaging back, also did stuff where she wasn't there. Eventually she got the message.

and soooo you were rejecting her advances because she is what? ugly? fat?
What's the problem? :confused:

user01
Oct 8th, 2008, 11:56 PM
http://i38.tinypic.com/10fb0ns.jpg

Vashin
Oct 9th, 2008, 12:01 AM
http://i38.tinypic.com/10fb0ns.jpg

OP this is starting to look like a pretty good option. He DOES look satisfied.

user01
Oct 9th, 2008, 12:07 AM
Piss her off!!! :D :D :D :D

http://i36.tinypic.com/5yun85.jpg

heat
Oct 9th, 2008, 12:09 AM
and soooo you were rejecting her advances because she is what? ugly? fat?
What's the problem? :confused:

she was ugly and I hung out with her so often, people started asking me if she was my gf.

If it was a hottie..i would say yes without thinking.:lol:

Dash
Oct 9th, 2008, 12:15 AM
I see some temp bans happening tomorrow.....

Stunt_101
Oct 9th, 2008, 12:22 AM
this is very rare on rfd to have a member asking others for help to reject a girl rather than asking for help to cope with rejection or breakups:lol:

N_Raged
Oct 9th, 2008, 12:37 AM
just be yourself :twisted:

i6s1
Oct 9th, 2008, 12:50 AM
Who talks on the phone for 60-70 hours/month to a girl they're not interested in?

True. I wouldn't even talk 2 hours a day to someone I was interested in.

i6s1
Oct 9th, 2008, 12:55 AM
Recently I've been having problems getting this girl off my back. She won't stop calling me during the day.. she's calls me at work and after work. Constantly texting me... This been going on for about a month now. She's TOLD me that she likes me several times (she broke up with her ex because of me). Each time she's told me, I just go "uh huh"...I feel like I've been leading her on for a month now, I went out with her 3 times, talked on the phone for god knows how many hours in September (60-70 hours?) and now she's making more plans to go out with me (this saturday and then clubbing on halloween). I haven't given a clear answer to those two plans yet, everytime she asks I just change the topic. I don't want to go flat out and say " I'm sorry, I don't have the same type of feelings for you" as I don't want to hurt her (she just got out of a relationship recently / rough times) I don't know what to do, slowly give hints that I don't like her? Or just cut all ties(ignore calls, delete her of msn, facebook) Even if I do cut off all ties with her, I'm still going to see her next saturday at my friends party.... ahhh! This is driving me nuts.

You have been leading her on.

How do you like to take a band-aid off? If you take it off slowly, then ignore her calls. If you rip band-aids off, ask her where you see this relationship going. After her response, disagree with her. If you also rip scabs off, then bring another date to your friend's party.

sexpuppet6000
Oct 9th, 2008, 01:01 AM
Refer to my sig.

jli
Oct 9th, 2008, 01:25 AM
buddy, there's no "nice way" of rejecting someone. just grow a pair and do it. unless you're liking the attention and that's the underlying reason why you just can't break it to her?

blainehamilton
Oct 9th, 2008, 03:16 AM
Hit it and then quit it.

Even if you aren't really interested in her, she could be awesome in bed.

You don't want to be left wondering years from now what it might have been like. Give it a shot and see where it goes.

If it sucks, tell her you aren't interested as other members mentioned. AFTER of course.


Oh, and PICS!!!!!!!!

licious
Oct 9th, 2008, 06:42 AM
Hit it and then quit it.

Even if you aren't really interested in her, she could be awesome in bed.

You don't want to be left wondering years from now what it might have been like. Give it a shot and see where it goes.

If it sucks, tell her you aren't interested as other members mentioned. AFTER of course.


Oh, and PICS!!!!!!!!

OMG, that's just horrible.

To the OP: here's a thought... maybe she thinks you are interested because you've gone out with her and spend two hours/night talking to her... Either be a man about it and tell her you aren't interested or stop leading her on. :)

Grey Merlin
Oct 9th, 2008, 08:30 AM
Some people are so lucky. Just use her and then dump her.

J/K.......

Just tell her straight up. Geez man, you're just dragging this situation.

mself084
Oct 9th, 2008, 08:42 AM
6 simple words: "I'm not gay, but I'll learn" - Homer Simpson.

I love one-star threads!

AmberMoon
Oct 9th, 2008, 08:49 AM
Get a girlfriend real quick and just play the OH you liked me like that? I did not know I just wanted a close friend

thelefteyeguy
Oct 9th, 2008, 08:56 AM
ask her to watch p0rn with you...that might turn her off...but it might not :cheesygri

jnfr
Oct 9th, 2008, 09:01 AM
Who talks on the phone for 60-70 hours/month to a girl they're not interested in?

+10000000, Jerk!

Why do guys do stuff like this, and then complain that "nice guys finish last"?

winner2000
Oct 9th, 2008, 09:13 AM
LMAO I don't even talk to my real gf for 60-70 hours a month :lol:

Homer88
Oct 9th, 2008, 09:18 AM
Recently I've been having problems getting this girl off my back. She won't stop calling me during the day.. she's calls me at work and after work. Constantly texting me... This been going on for about a month now. She's TOLD me that she likes me several times (she broke up with her ex because of me). Each time she's told me, I just go "uh huh"...I feel like I've been leading her on for a month now, I went out with her 3 times, talked on the phone for god knows how many hours in September (60-70 hours?) and now she's making more plans to go out with me (this saturday and then clubbing on halloween). I haven't given a clear answer to those two plans yet, everytime she asks I just change the topic. I don't want to go flat out and say " I'm sorry, I don't have the same type of feelings for you" as I don't want to hurt her (she just got out of a relationship recently / rough times) I don't know what to do, slowly give hints that I don't like her? Or just cut all ties(ignore calls, delete her of msn, facebook) Even if I do cut off all ties with her, I'm still going to see her next saturday at my friends party.... ahhh! This is driving me nuts.

LOL. I think I know who this is...

dhamilton
Oct 9th, 2008, 09:45 AM
this is very rare on rfd to have a member asking others for help to reject a girl rather than asking for help to cope with rejection or breakups:lol:

That's because she's fugly and probably has an "outie" instead of an "innie"

Dash
Oct 9th, 2008, 09:54 AM
LMAO I don't even talk to my real gf for 60-70 hours a month :lol:

hahahha +1

mgronqui
Oct 9th, 2008, 10:24 AM
Tell her you want to pee on her and persist on it. If she likes it, then offer to do the number 2 on her. That should surely turn her off.

funkyfr3sh_
Oct 9th, 2008, 10:34 AM
Recently I've been having problems getting this girl off my back. She won't stop calling me during the day.. she's calls me at work and after work. Constantly texting me... This been going on for about a month now. She's TOLD me that she likes me several times (she broke up with her ex because of me). Each time she's told me, I just go "uh huh"...I feel like I've been leading her on for a month now, I went out with her 3 times, talked on the phone for god knows how many hours in September (60-70 hours?) and now she's making more plans to go out with me (this saturday and then clubbing on halloween). I haven't given a clear answer to those two plans yet, everytime she asks I just change the topic. I don't want to go flat out and say " I'm sorry, I don't have the same type of feelings for you" as I don't want to hurt her (she just got out of a relationship recently / rough times) I don't know what to do, slowly give hints that I don't like her? Or just cut all ties(ignore calls, delete her of msn, facebook) Even if I do cut off all ties with her, I'm still going to see her next saturday at my friends party.... ahhh! This is driving me nuts.


Why can't you just say no.
You are beating around the bush giving this girl false hope.
Haven't you heard, yes means yes, maybe means yes and no means no...you are giving too many maybe's.

Or maybe, she is just using you as a rebound and jokes on you. She really isn't interested. :twisted:

ricoboxing
Oct 9th, 2008, 10:56 AM
Tell her you want to pee on her and persist on it. If she likes it, then offer to do the number 2 on her. That should surely turn her off.

lol

or give her a superman

yuri_c
Oct 9th, 2008, 11:01 AM
be honest with yourself OP:

you probably like her a little- or if not, you probably liked the attention. cause i can't see why you'd talk to a girl that long in just one month.

but i can understand why you wouldn't want to start something with her anyway, cause you'll most likely be just be a rebound (intentionally or not, that's what you'll be for her).

just tell her flat out you're not interested and leave her alone.
and she'll probably scream and cry, and tell you you're a ba$tard for this, that, etc... but she'll get over it eventually once she realizes you can't just jump from one guy to the next. it's gonna take time and maturity for her to completely move on. but don't give her the same attention you did before.

Chuck Garabedian
Oct 9th, 2008, 11:11 AM
Just text her.

"Hey Baby, Welcome to Dumpsville, Population YOU"

if that doesn't work just tell her you're gay.

ZenOps
Oct 9th, 2008, 11:22 AM
No, don't tell her your gay.

I made that mistake one too many times, it does eventually screw you over in reputation.

Its actually pretty hard to dump a girl upfront. Years of wisdom have taught me that subtlety is the key. Send yourself some flowers or the like and leave a visible note with a womans name (and if you are particularily desperate to dump her, a naughty picture) on it.

Either two things will happen from that scenario - She will get the hint and give up, or she will get jealous and try to compete. In which case if shes a rich sugar momma she might end up trying to bribe you with a car or two, lol.

IronMac
Oct 9th, 2008, 11:25 AM
Has anybody brought up the analogy of the bandage yet? You know...draw out the pain or do it all of a sudden? That's the choice here.

danfromwaterloo
Oct 9th, 2008, 11:26 AM
A) This thread is going to be epic. Thanks for sharing.
B) Honesty - tell her straight up that you're not interested. She's a good girl, but you just don't have that type of feelings for her. Then, avoid her if you can.
C) If she's still hanging around, you can always pull the ol' pump and dump. I mean, it's not like you didn't give her fair warning.
D) If you wanted to experiment, tell her you're an anal addict. I mean, even if you're not down with it, it never hurts to have a girl on speed dial with casual anal. Just saying.


Recently I've been having problems getting this girl off my back. She won't stop calling me during the day.. she's calls me at work and after work. Constantly texting me... This been going on for about a month now. She's TOLD me that she likes me several times (she broke up with her ex because of me). Each time she's told me, I just go "uh huh"...I feel like I've been leading her on for a month now, I went out with her 3 times, talked on the phone for god knows how many hours in September (60-70 hours?) and now she's making more plans to go out with me (this saturday and then clubbing on halloween). I haven't given a clear answer to those two plans yet, everytime she asks I just change the topic. I don't want to go flat out and say " I'm sorry, I don't have the same type of feelings for you" as I don't want to hurt her (she just got out of a relationship recently / rough times) I don't know what to do, slowly give hints that I don't like her? Or just cut all ties(ignore calls, delete her of msn, facebook) Even if I do cut off all ties with her, I'm still going to see her next saturday at my friends party.... ahhh! This is driving me nuts.

Eyies
Oct 9th, 2008, 11:31 AM
Tell her you changed your number to:

647-476-4910

(Rejection hotline). She'll get the hint.

For anyone bored at work, feel free to give it a call (no, it's not some girl I wanna piss off's #).

burnt_toast
Oct 9th, 2008, 11:41 AM
Piss her off!!! :D :D :D :D

http://i36.tinypic.com/5yun85.jpg

Damn... that's hilarious... :cheesygri :D


Hit it and then quit it.

Even if you aren't really interested in her, she could be awesome in bed.

Oh, and PICS!!!!!!!!

tell her straight that YOU only hang out with her just to get her to bed... if she still calls/text you... then good for you...

OR

tell her you only hung out with her to get close to her sister or best friend


LMAO I don't even talk to my real gf for 60-70 hours a month :lol:

i dont even talk that long with my wife...

Lone_Prodigy
Oct 9th, 2008, 11:42 AM
I suggest Googling "friends with benefits."

FazerRider
Oct 9th, 2008, 11:59 AM
OP, she will look cute to you if you drink enough alcohol.

pookie9
Oct 9th, 2008, 12:12 PM
LOL. I think I know who this is...

Get Homer88 to help by throwing her on him ;)

65505201
Oct 9th, 2008, 12:13 PM
...it never hurts to have a girl on speed dial with casual anal. Just saying.

LOL. I hope you don't pass this advice on to your kids.

mgronqui
Oct 9th, 2008, 12:13 PM
lol

or give her a superman

Dirty Sanchez, donkey punch, the list goes on and on :lol:

xg3
Oct 9th, 2008, 12:25 PM
on the good side, no one is telling you to get a blog.. LOL..

RFD loves to give advice on how to take advantage of other things or humans.

red120
Oct 9th, 2008, 01:57 PM
..... eh.

How can you talk 60-70 hours a month to a gal you're not interested in?

Actually, that'd be a pain even for one you are interested in.

You seem like you're just attention-whoring from her. You like the attention, but you just don't want her to cross that line which you would actually have responsibilities to take care of her, as your GF.

If you really want to get rid of her, just tell her straight up. Or say something about how you feel like you guys are really close, and that she's like a sister to you, so you can't look at her in "that way".

dragon_drift
Oct 9th, 2008, 02:09 PM
lie to her that you have a gf? and then bring someone really hot (how hot? depends on how much you willing to shell out :lol: ) to the next week's party

thechampion116
Oct 9th, 2008, 02:14 PM
lie to her that you have a gf? and then bring someone really hot (how hot? depends on how much you willing to shell out :lol: ) to the next week's party

don't go to the party with another girl wrapped around your arm.

your asking for drama if you do. just confront her otherwise she might follow you around for the rest of your life.

By waiting longer and longer, its just gonna get tougher to tell her.

red120
Oct 9th, 2008, 02:16 PM
just confront her otherwise she might follow you around for the rest of your life.
Yeah.

Don't string them out, that's a female thing to do.

OP, time to man up.

mgronqui
Oct 9th, 2008, 02:18 PM
Wow OP, now that others have mentioned it, you are showing ***** traits by stringing her along. Take your skirt off!

professionaldude
Oct 9th, 2008, 02:32 PM
Just not my "type" of person....

What you mean she is not your type? You have gone out with her and 50-70 hrs of phone........ :|

ricoboxing
Oct 9th, 2008, 02:34 PM
dude since she's so head over heels about you, take it to your advantage. let her buy you expensive gifts and pay for everything. maybe even do sexual favours and videotaping them. then it will be just a matter of time, that she will reject you. if she dosent.... then count your blessings.

spazzamatic
Oct 9th, 2008, 02:35 PM
Write her a love letter consisting of one paragraph full of run-on sentences and missing/incorrect punctuation.

She'll be so turned off that she'll reject you. Problem solved.

HAHAHAHHAHAH OMFG LOL HAHAHAHHAHAH

BananaHunter
Oct 9th, 2008, 02:58 PM
dude since she's so head over heels about you, take it to your advantage. let her buy you expensive gifts and pay for everything. maybe even do sexual favours and videotaping them. then it will be just a matter of time, that she will reject you. if she dosent.... then count your blessings.

+1

You're asking the wrong group of people if you want some "nice" advice lol.

blainehamilton
Oct 9th, 2008, 02:59 PM
it never hurts to have a girl on speed dial with casual anal. Just saying.



bwwhahahahahah.

Words to live by...

heat
Oct 9th, 2008, 03:27 PM
Just text her.

"Hey Baby, Welcome to Dumpsville, Population YOU"



:lol:

look30
Oct 9th, 2008, 03:49 PM
Maybe he's gay.

That was the first thing popped in my mind... "what don't you tell he the truth that you're gay and problem solved and you can go back to choosing drapes and carpets" :)

yao416
Oct 9th, 2008, 04:27 PM
HOW TO MAKE A RELATIONSHIP THREAD:

1) Write out your story
2) Post pictures
3) Threads get locked

LegiT
Oct 9th, 2008, 04:28 PM
Hmm....60-70 hours. I have serious doubts that it was just casual talking. This is more likely phone sex or something of the sort.

hey_dude1643
Oct 9th, 2008, 04:29 PM
Hmm....60-70 hours. I have serious doubts that it was just casual talking. This is more likely phone sex or something of the sort.
lol... phone sex? no it was casual talking.........

hey_dude1643
Oct 9th, 2008, 04:34 PM
=)=)=)

SnowCrash
Oct 9th, 2008, 04:40 PM
In situations like this I always try and look at it like, how would I want to be treated if the roles were reversed. Instead of being a kid act like an adult and tell her the truth, like you should have as soon as she started saying that she liked you and you weren't interested. Honesty is always the best policy, it might hurt her a little bit initially but she'll be grateful in the end.

maebach
Oct 9th, 2008, 04:41 PM
Well i'm glad you came to us first, instead of just talking to her.

Your next step is to post pictures so we can give you an educated reply.

+1. We need a sticky in OT to explain the steps for posting a relationship question.

yao416
Oct 9th, 2008, 04:43 PM
Relationship threads gets alot of attentions

Eyies
Oct 9th, 2008, 04:46 PM
Relationship threads gets alot of attentions

Because they're so much fun, and everyone can participate:


Trolls (need I say more?
Get-a-blog posts
Serious attempts to help
Hilarious cracks at the OP
Rebuttals and whining from the OP
Mandatory request of pictures of said female
etc etc... fun for all of RFD :D

blazing24
Oct 9th, 2008, 05:03 PM
3 Words,
I am Gay.

sexpuppet6000
Oct 9th, 2008, 05:06 PM
got two plans in mind... I can say that my ex and I got back together orr just tell her straight up the day after the party is over. Even better if i wanted to be a jerk "Hey baby, Welcome to Dumpsville, Population YOU!" Props to who ever posted that here in this thread..( don't remember off the top of my head at this moment)

Why don't you have sex with her first before you proceed with that plan?

danfromwaterloo
Oct 9th, 2008, 05:19 PM
got two plans in mind... I can say that my ex and I got back together orr just tell her straight up the day after the party is over. Even better if i wanted to be a jerk "Hey baby, Welcome to Dumpsville, Population YOU!" Props to who ever posted that here in this thread..( don't remember off the top of my head at this moment)

In all seriousness (and likely the last seriousness of this thread), do the honourable thing and tell her exactly the way it is. Wimping out dimishes you. Think two or three months out - she won't hate you, she'll respect you for at least being truthful.

We do the right thing not because it is the easy thing to do, but because it's the right thing to do. And usually, the hardest thing to do.

sexpuppet6000
Oct 9th, 2008, 05:22 PM
In all seriousness (and likely the last seriousness of this thread), do the honourable thing and tell her exactly the way it is. Wimping out dimishes you. Think two or three months out - she won't hate you, she'll respect you for at least being truthful.

We do the right thing not because it is the easy thing to do, but because it's the right thing to do. And usually, the hardest thing to do.

right or wrong is subjective.
have sex with her then dump her! THAT is the right thing to do.

Ebola
Oct 9th, 2008, 05:25 PM
right or wrong is subjective.
have sex with her then dump her! THAT is the right thing to do.

I think what you are trying to say, is that it may be right, it may be wrong, but he follows your plan, he'll have gotten laid, and that can never be 100% wrong?

(Depending on the woman id beg to differ but I digress).

ah_long
Oct 9th, 2008, 08:00 PM
3 Words,
I am Gay.

i've used this once... it was pretty funny.. the girl buyed into it.. lasted for maybe 48 hours until sum1 told her how naive she was...

i had a fd tell her sth along the lines of 'i like a guy called leonardo'... sth like that

st7860
Oct 9th, 2008, 08:08 PM
one word: freecycle

JordanN
Oct 9th, 2008, 08:11 PM
Go up to her and say:
"DO NOT WANT"
Or,
"I accidentally".
:lol:

twboy1999
Oct 9th, 2008, 08:18 PM
say u want to be friends with benefits:D

manixc
Oct 9th, 2008, 09:06 PM
so any updates from OP yet?

hey_dude1643
Oct 9th, 2008, 09:08 PM
yeah.. well, i got two plans in mind... err, just tell her straight up when she calls tonight.... kind of been avoiding her calls all day today.. orr do it after my friends party.. or else its to awkward if i do it before hand...

yao416
Oct 9th, 2008, 09:12 PM
yeah.. well, i got two plans in mind... err, just tell her straight up when she calls tonight.... kind of been avoiding her calls all day today.. orr do it after my friends party.. or else its to awkward if i do it before hand...

PM me her digits and pictures, I'll take it.

sexpuppet6000
Oct 9th, 2008, 09:15 PM
PM me her digits and pictures, I'll take it.

Way to objectify women.

You Make Me Sick.

gretzky99
Oct 9th, 2008, 09:24 PM
PM me her digits and pictures, I'll take it.

well there you go, OP. Your problem is solved thanks to yao416. :rolleyes:

LQQK
Oct 9th, 2008, 10:01 PM
If you are too wimpy to reject her, then keep stringing her along

- never phone her
- never answer her calls
- never pay for anything (restaurants, drinks, etc)
- never drive her anywhere
- if you are together at a party or something, don't talk- just remain silent (she'll think that you are boring)
- if she wants to dance, say that you are too shy to dance
- don't bring her to places

Surely, she will dump you!

Lava
Oct 9th, 2008, 10:22 PM
If you are too wimpy to reject her, then keep stringing her along

- never phone her
- never answer her calls
- never pay for anything (restaurants, drinks, etc)
- never drive her anywhere
- if you are together at a party or something, don't talk- just remain silent (she'll think that you are boring)
- if she wants to dance, say that you are too shy to dance
- don't bring her to places

Surely, she will dump you!

If you ever want a date ever again, don't do this. Women talk to their friends, and the friends talk to their friends. And in no time you will have a terrible reputation and no one will ever date you.

Just compliment her and say something like, "You are beautiful and have a wonderful personality, but I'd prefer if we could just stay friends."

NiMSo
Oct 9th, 2008, 10:23 PM
Maybe try this strategy...

Show LOTS of interest, and act all clingy and crap. Pretend like you depend on her and that you want to be with her all the time. Perhaps she'll get sick of you. :cheesygri

Everyone wants what they can't have. If you act like you don't want her, it just makes her want you more badly!!! :D

gretzky99
Oct 9th, 2008, 10:26 PM
Just compliment her and say something like, "You are beautiful and have a wonderful personality, but I'd prefer if we could just stay friends."


Bad advice!!!

The OP mentioned that the girl was not his type (either physically or personality wise or both), so by asking him to compliment the girl on her looks and personality you are basically asking him to lie to her!

manixc
Oct 9th, 2008, 11:11 PM
.
If you really want to get rid of her, just tell her straight up. Or say something about how you feel like you guys are really close, and that she's like a sister to you, so you can't look at her in "that way".
I say the OP should go with this approach. Best way to solve the issue.

god knows how many times the "brother" line has been use on us guys.

Lava
Oct 9th, 2008, 11:17 PM
Bad advice!!!

The OP mentioned that the girl was not his type (either physically or personality wise or both), so by asking him to compliment the girl on her looks and personality you are basically asking him to lie to her!

No, just because she's not his type doesn't mean she isn't beautiful or have a good personality. Some people find smoking attractive, when i find it absolutely repulsive, its all into what people find attractive. So he should just compliment her on her good traits. It's better than totally smashing her confidence in herself and possibly leading into a depression.

LQQK
Oct 9th, 2008, 11:42 PM
I agree- tell her that you see her as a SISTER.

No need to say anything about her appearance.

Or say that you are too busy to go out and avoid her and her phone calls/emails.

serathe
Oct 9th, 2008, 11:51 PM
Maybe try this strategy...

Show LOTS of interest, and act all clingy and crap. Pretend like you depend on her and that you want to be with her all the time. Perhaps she'll get sick of you. :cheesygri

Everyone wants what they can't have. If you act like you don't want her, it just makes her want you more badly!!! :D

This I think is true to an extent. The women I've been with that I didn't care about, tended to REALLY like me.

originalnutta
Oct 10th, 2008, 12:06 AM
Are there any pics of said stalker in this thread?

gretzky99
Oct 10th, 2008, 12:59 AM
Are there any pics of said stalker in this thread?

yes, here :

http://www.intercallmarketing.com/images/lady.jpg

st7860
Oct 10th, 2008, 01:05 AM
yes, here :

http://www.intercallmarketing.com/images/lady.jpg

http://www.intercallmarketing.com ?

gretzky99
Oct 10th, 2008, 01:10 AM
http://www.intercallmarketing.com ?

http://www.redflagdeals.com/forums/showthread.php?t=645879&page=3

webdoctors
Oct 10th, 2008, 01:32 AM
ask her to browse RFD together :cheesygri

skyblue12
Oct 13th, 2008, 04:32 PM
be assertive when you say you dont wnat her, or else she'll think there's still a chance.

kingfencer
Oct 13th, 2008, 08:02 PM
did you do the deed with her? if you didn't, you can just break it up

Tyler70
Oct 13th, 2008, 08:21 PM
Write her a love letter consisting of one paragraph full of run-on sentences and missing/incorrect punctuation.

She'll be so turned off that she'll reject you. Problem solved.

:lol:

Tell her you don't like women. She'll understand.

CeoOfKFC
Oct 13th, 2008, 08:31 PM
Sleep with her then change your phone #.

darkprince
Oct 13th, 2008, 10:37 PM
Tell her that you're you finally realize that you're really prefer men over women.

kai
Oct 13th, 2008, 10:43 PM
Ignore her calls and she wouldn't call ever since.

ktan09
Oct 13th, 2008, 10:58 PM
3 Simple words: I. Am. Gay.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

ben_liu
Oct 13th, 2008, 11:01 PM
I actually had this same thing happen, but we never talked at school, but she'd call me almost every day, I just let the phone ring and when she did talk to me at schoo, I'd say I lost my phone... but thing is my jeans got the phone fade on my pocket :lol: After TWO (2) months, she stopped calling.

goJays
Oct 13th, 2008, 11:23 PM
op is the gay

Sepiraph
Oct 14th, 2008, 01:44 AM
I'm in a similar situation ... this girl msg me out of the blue in Facebook (knew I shouldn't reply back >_> ) and she ended up thinking we are somehow compatible when we are really different people. Luckily she is really shy (another reason why I shouldn't be her type) so she doesn't call me but she msn me all the time every time I go online. Maybe one day she'd 'get' it. :(

st7860
Oct 14th, 2008, 02:13 AM
I'm in a similar situation ... this girl msg me out of the blue in Facebook (knew I shouldn't reply back >_> ) and she ended up thinking we are somehow compatible when we are really different people. Luckily she is really shy (another reason why I shouldn't be her type) so she doesn't call me but she msn me all the time every time I go online. Maybe one day she'd 'get' it. :(

do a tor. (transfer of responsibility)

manixc
Oct 14th, 2008, 03:20 AM
I'm in a similar situation ... this girl msg me out of the blue in Facebook (knew I shouldn't reply back >_> ) and she ended up thinking we are somehow compatible when we are really different people. Luckily she is really shy (another reason why I shouldn't be her type) so she doesn't call me but she msn me all the time every time I go online. Maybe one day she'd 'get' it. :(


do a tor. (transfer of responsibility)

for a small fee, I will take care of it :D


Any update from the OP yet? I am interested in which method the OP went with.

darkprince
Oct 14th, 2008, 08:43 AM
By any chance is this a short viet girl name Annie? :|

If so GET THE F**K out and RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!

KorruptioN
Oct 14th, 2008, 08:59 AM
Recently I've been having problems getting this girl off my back.

Do I know this girl? :lol:

Psubs
Oct 14th, 2008, 09:13 AM
i've used this once... it was pretty funny.. the girl buyed into it.. lasted for maybe 48 hours until sum1 told her how naive she was...

i had a fd tell her sth along the lines of 'i like a guy called leonardo'... sth like that

TROPIC THUNDER!!!!

"Well there is Lance."

AzN_RiverdaleCI
Oct 14th, 2008, 10:59 AM
hey, i just realized I think I know the op in RL.

anyways, just go up to her in RL and chat it up and stuff, then out of the blue say "pools closed"

and that's the end of that chapter.

edit: epic thread btw, keep it up.

AcidBomber
Oct 14th, 2008, 11:14 AM
hey, i just realized I think I know the op in RL.

anyways, just go up to her in RL and chat it up and stuff, then out of the blue say "pools closed"

and that's the end of that chapter.

edit: epic thread btw, keep it up.


LOL
tell us about him. what did he end up doing? :twisted:

Lone_Prodigy
Oct 14th, 2008, 11:30 AM
TROPIC THUNDER!!!!

"Well there is Lance."

"No I said Nance, as in Nancy!"

st7860
Oct 14th, 2008, 11:31 AM
hey, i just realized I think I know the op in RL.

anyways, just go up to her in RL and chat it up and stuff, then out of the blue say "pools closed"

and that's the end of that chapter.

edit: epic thread btw, keep it up.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=pools+closed
pools closed 526 up, 33 down
An internet phenomenon associated with the '/b/' random section of the 4chan imageboard. The users of this section anonymously logged onto Habbo Hotel, and using avatars of black people clothed in suits, along with a large afro, blockaded the Hotel's pool from entry while shouting 'Pools closed' to users trying to enter.

The phenomenon has since increased in popularity, and the GNAA and myg0t trolling communities have also started to participate in the blockades.
Habbo Hotel User: 'Let me in the pool, you!'
/b/ user: 'Pools closed!'

nX07
Oct 15th, 2008, 01:59 AM
+10000000, Jerk!

Why do guys do stuff like this, and then complain that "nice guys finish last"?

Because I don't think he's a nice guy :confused:

sweet_gal_23
Oct 15th, 2008, 02:21 AM
Because I don't think he's a nice guy :confused:

well i agree:)

a man should be bold enough to voice his opinions..and not open a thread for it..
what would u do if we didnt have internet? go door to door and ask?
when feelings are there...u shud do what heart OR MIND tells u:)
BE A MAN!!

mgronqui
Oct 15th, 2008, 07:21 AM
well i agree:)

a man should be bold enough to voice his opinions..and not open a thread for it..
what would u do if we didnt have internet? go door to door and ask?
when feelings are there...u shud do what heart OR MIND tells u:)
BE A MAN!!

Wow. Well said. The internet has totally changed communication.

help_questions
Oct 15th, 2008, 09:13 AM
got two plans in mind... I can say that my ex and I got back together orr just tell her straight up the day after the party is over. Even better if i wanted to be a jerk "Hey baby, Welcome to Dumpsville, Population YOU!" Props to who ever posted that here in this thread..( don't remember off the top of my head at this moment)

I remember a story from 12 years ago.....
This guy told his girl has to do an "Operation Dumbo Drop"..
"so BYE!"

This was around when the movie was released.

Ma_Jie
Oct 15th, 2008, 02:49 PM
After investing so much time in talking with her, you really only have two options:

a) hit it and quit it
b) friends with benefits/casual anal (as dan suggested)

You've wasted tons of time, so you should at least get some kind of ROI.

- MJ.

hey_dude1643
Oct 15th, 2008, 07:23 PM
=)=)=)

hey_dude1643
Oct 15th, 2008, 07:25 PM
Do I know this girl? :lol:

No you don't..

hey_dude1643
Oct 15th, 2008, 07:26 PM
hey, i just realized I think I know the op in RL.

anyways, just go up to her in RL and chat it up and stuff, then out of the blue say "pools closed"

and that's the end of that chapter.

edit: epic thread btw, keep it up.

lol? you think you know me dan? pool's closed?:confused:

hey_dude1643
Oct 15th, 2008, 07:27 PM
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=pools+closed
pools closed 526 up, 33 down
An internet phenomenon associated with the '/b/' random section of the 4chan imageboard. The users of this section anonymously logged onto Habbo Hotel, and using avatars of black people clothed in suits, along with a large afro, blockaded the Hotel's pool from entry while shouting 'Pools closed' to users trying to enter.

The phenomenon has since increased in popularity, and the GNAA and myg0t trolling communities have also started to participate in the blockades.
Habbo Hotel User: 'Let me in the pool, you!'
/b/ user: 'Pools closed!'

NVM the post above

sexpuppet6000
Oct 15th, 2008, 07:33 PM
update..? lol, i haven't done anything yet. I'm waiting till after my friend's party so it won't be so awkward. I'll let you guys know sunday evening

The party is a good opportunity to get her drunk and confess your undying love for her. Remember to take pictures.

Grey Merlin
Oct 16th, 2008, 09:30 AM
update..? lol, i haven't done anything yet. I'm waiting till after my friend's party so it won't be so awkward. I'll let you guys know sunday evening

Pass her my number.....she'll need a shoulder to cry on.