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Do looks matter to girls when trying to date/get a date?

so my question is...do you think looks matter to girls when trying to get a date/dating? (Guys going after girls).

How i see it is that it plays a more important role in the beginning; when trying to get someone to like you. Then after that, it starts fading and lean towards personality.
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Depends on the girl. Some need good looking. Some will look past it if you have a great personality. Every girl wants both.
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yes...for those that say it doesn't are lying. There has to be some sort of physical attraction (unless you're visually impaired obviously). Looks get you there and personality keeps you there.
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rems wrote:
Jun 13th, 2008 12:00 pm
yes...for those that say it doesn't are lying. There has to be some sort of physical attraction (unless you're visually impaired obviously). Looks get you there and personality keeps you there.
+1 This pretty much hits it on the nail
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EVERYBPDY wants a handsome/pretty boyfriend/girlfriend. The question remains, IF you are NOT that good-looking, what should you do?

For guys, try avoid
a) really pretty girls (unless you're approached in the first place), and
b) those not so pretty girls who STILL dream of really handsome boys.

Follow this, and you'll save a lot of time.
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looks first, then personality.
fortunately for some less goodlooking guys, some girls find it attractive if the guy has a nice personality.
sometimes a guy does not have to really be goodlooking. but if he can make the girls laugh and feel comfortable, he's IN.
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Don't get caught in the friend zone and don't have them say "you're a really nice guy, but..."
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joeym wrote:
Jun 13th, 2008 12:36 pm
looks first, then personality.
fortunately for some less goodlooking guys, some girls find it attractive if the guy has a nice personality.
sometimes a guy does not have to really be goodlooking. but if he can make the girls laugh and feel comfortable, he's IN.
joeym quick question... Why are ALL your post in BOLD?
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Money first
Then the rest
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Looks------/\------Money
Whenever someone asks a question that starts with "Why do they..." or "Why don't they...", the answer is always a) money, b) stupidity, or c) both.
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burnt_toast wrote:
Jun 13th, 2008 12:46 pm
joeym quick question... Why are ALL your post in BOLD?
since you mentioned it, i really dont know.
i guess i got used to it.
do you want me to tone it down for you?
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make it rain on her, BALLLLLIN
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generalization thread lol


my belief is that looks do matter to ALL girls ...however each girl has a different outlook on physical attraction.

the only other variable is money...sometimes looks can be overlooked by money ;)


(only applies to the scenario for dating...prostitution doesnt count ;) , and marriage or long term dating is not part of this generalization)

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