ConsumerBran wrote: ↑Nov 11th, 2017 4:00 pmI assume you were alive in the 1950's to witness that everyone in the western world had one way of living, one moral code, and everyone acted uniformly the way you just described?
Plenty of wives were out having sex with the milkman or the mailman while their husbands were at work. Plenty husbands were banging the secretary at work as well. Things honestly haven't changed that much over the years, quite honestly. The 1950s weren't what you have constructed in your head my friend.
People are often more up tight about sex today than they used to be. I'd say tinder is more objectifying, dehumanizing of a way to find a mate than anything that happened in the 1950's.
In the days before DNA tests, you only knew your wife was banging the neighborhood gardener is if the baby that came out looked so radically different that you could just tell. LOL Oh, back in the day. Before DNA tests and apps.
I don't understand why any man would even consider getting married these days, but it is the best deal out there for me to get married, to a good man preferably a wealthy one. I agree with having an affair, I really do believe we are not meant to be monogamous at all. Cheating and rationalising always existed and I don't think it will ever stop. DNA tests don't mean anything these days even if you prove the child is not yours, you still have to pay child support It is rigged that way.