Ok so, I'm a bit torn apart about the idea of pursuing a girl who's in her first semester of university, whereas I'm graduating at the end of this semester. We get along pretty well, but is this just a bad idea? It's not even the age factor (not much of a gap anyway) but I'm not sure if this would be unfair to her :confused:
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Oct 20th, 2010 09:17 AM #1
Fourth year university student dating a first year student?
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Oct 20th, 2010 09:21 AM #2
I'm pretty sure you can still maintain a relationship even if you're not going to the same university or graduating or whatever.
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Oct 20th, 2010 09:32 AM #3
if you're her TA then don't do it! =)
...but please post a pic so we can make a more educated decision =)LOG IN TO THANK No one has yet thanked ipxxx for this post.
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Oct 20th, 2010 09:46 AM #4
[QUOTE=ipxxx;11723880][B]if you're her TA then don't do it![/B] =)
...but please post a pic so we can make a more educated decision =)[/QUOTE]
lol yeah we all know she'll be doing it for the 'free ride' ;DLOG IN TO THANK No one has yet thanked dragon_drift for this post.
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Oct 20th, 2010 09:48 AM #5LOG IN TO THANK No one has yet thanked whampoa for this post.
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Oct 20th, 2010 10:02 AM #6
Oh god!!!!
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Oct 20th, 2010 10:04 AM #7
:!::facepalm:
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Oct 20th, 2010 10:05 AM #8
Lol no, I'm not her TA. I was just wondering if that's unfair as far as her university experience goes.
Ahh, maybe I'm just thinking to much on her behalf.:confused:LOG IN TO THANK No one has yet thanked faxe for this post.
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Oct 20th, 2010 10:10 AM #9
Hit it then quit
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Oct 20th, 2010 10:20 AM #10
Date her
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Oct 20th, 2010 10:28 AM #11
I'd say go for it, but don't put your heart into it. Young women (i.e. under 30) usually do not know what they want and are therefore not stable emotionally for anything longterm.
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Oct 20th, 2010 10:48 AM #12
Are you not gonna see her as much just cause you wont be on campus?
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Oct 20th, 2010 10:50 AM #13
try it and see how it goes. dont get too attached.
being out of uni and just starting uni, you are at different stages of your lives. one wants to have fun and MAYBE learn something, the other needs to get their life going, maybe get married, kids after you establish a career position. age isnt what kills relationships.LOG IN TO THANK No one has yet thanked Buggy166 for this post.
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Oct 20th, 2010 10:52 AM #14
[QUOTE=faxe;11723804]Ok so, I'm a bit torn apart about the idea of pursuing a girl who's in her first semester of university, whereas I'm graduating at the end of this semester. We get along pretty well, but is this just a bad idea? It's not even the age factor (not much of a gap anyway) but I'm not sure if this would be unfair to her :confused:[/QUOTE]
Maybe you should worry whether she actually has any interest in you in the first place? You said you you're torn about the idea of [I]pursuing[/I] her rather than actually having a relationship with her.Last edited by FrogPrince; Oct 20th, 2010 at 10:55 AM.
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Oct 20th, 2010 10:58 AM #15
Am I missing something? What is wrong with that? It is only 3 years different in age.
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