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Mar 11th, 2008 10:17 AM #1Newbie
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Girlfriends mother thinks Im too good.
I've known this girl for quite some time now, half a year. We were going out but she's going through some things and has requested a soul-searching break. Fine. So we've been on a break for about a week. Her mother loved me off from the things shes heard about me, and a couple times we've talked on the phone. She has strict parents, but everytime it was anywhere with me it was allowed and fine. During the break, I was asked to meet her mother, pretty awkward. I was sorta shy, but we did talk.
Afterwards, her mother had told her I was really really good, blah blah, good with money etc etc. according to my girlfriend she loved me off in person now.
That same night though her mother saw a gift I had given her, which wasn't much, and gave her an entire lecture of reasons why not to have sex. Now her mother is hesitant to let her out with me (yes although we're on a break, we're not really. I don't know, I don't even understand myself) as she believes all we're going to end up doing is having sex.
How do I change this? Lol. Is there a way to change this? Her mom thinks I'm a sex-craving guy whos too good to true. lol
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Mar 11th, 2008 10:26 AM #2
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Mar 11th, 2008 10:30 AM #3
If you hang out with the girl and you're not making out with her in front of her own mother (and doing that in private time if you have to) and just coming by from time to time to meet up with her or pick her up, things will be fine.
If you want to be really good, give her a time you'll be home ... beat it by 20 minutes when it's home time._______________
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Mar 11th, 2008 10:33 AM #4
that hurt my brain.
what kind of gift did you give?_______________
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Mar 11th, 2008 10:33 AM #5
I really don't understand you. Are you saying your GF's mom is getting it on with you?
? loved me off ? is that a Jay-Z, 50 type reference?
If you like your GF then stay with her. If she wants a break then you find someone else. If your GF's parents interfere then tell them you're adults and manage your own lives.
You can't act tough & macho, then say "her mom won't let her have sex." That's up to you & GF to decided when you're ready.
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Mar 11th, 2008 10:34 AM #6
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Mar 11th, 2008 10:36 AM #7Member


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Tell her mom you are already had sex with her daughter, so she has nothing to worry about.
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Mar 11th, 2008 10:41 AM #9Newbie
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Mar 11th, 2008 10:50 AM #10
lol
"We are on a break"
mmhmmm..... sure...
I have a feeling you won't have to worry about this much longer.
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Mar 11th, 2008 10:52 AM #11Member


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What about getting the girl to go out with you but she brings a female friend that the mom trusts. That way her mom won't worry and you still get to see girlfriend. A few times later and as her mom gets to know you better (you visit the girl house and talk to mom) she will trust you more and let you go out with the girl without chaperon.
Last edited by TimePilot; Mar 11th, 2008 at 10:57 AM.
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Mar 11th, 2008 10:54 AM #12
I must be smoking crack cause I don't understand what you are trying to say?
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Mar 11th, 2008 11:00 AM #13Newbie
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lol damn I should proof read. okay.
The main point was, her mom liked me, and would let her go anywhere with me.
After she actually met me in person she liked me even more.
But then she saw the gifts I had given her daugther and now feels hesitant to let her go out with me as she believes I might only be getting her daugther gifts as i'm expecting a return (sex).
That should make more sense.....i think...hopefully....lol.
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Mar 11th, 2008 11:00 AM #14
I think that mom is looking for a little action....
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Mar 11th, 2008 11:01 AM #15
Yup, I don't understand what's going on.
First OP says his GF's mom ?loves him off? then mentions, "her mom doesn't trust me around her daughter." Which is it?
How can GF's mom think you're too good, and hide her daughter from you? Dude, I suck at Engrish but you're worse than me. String some sentences together.
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