Guys: Have you ever been asked out before?

[007craft]

Every woman will tell you "sure if I like a guy, I would ask him out" But I find in reality they don't actually do that. Ive never been asked out by a woman. Ive had some not too attractive women make it painfully obvious that they were interested in me, offering their numbers even, yet still they never have asked me out. Surprisingly, Ive been asked out by 2 guys in my life lol. I was wondering If this happens often? a couple friends of mine who are together actually had met at a party and the girl phoned up her friend to get the guys number and gave him a call... so I'm wondering if it happens more often than that.

[spike1128]

Every woman will tell you "sure if I like a guy, I would ask him out" But I find in reality they don't actually do that. Ive never been asked out by a woman. Ive had some not too attractive women make it painfully obvious that they were interested in me, offering their numbers even, yet still they never have asked me out. Surprisingly, Ive been asked out by 2 guys in my life lol. I was wondering If this happens often? a couple friends of mine who are together actually had met at a party and the girl phoned up her friend to get the guys number and gave him a call... so I'm wondering if it happens more often than that.

Nope. Even if they were butt ugly, they will still make it painfully obvious but not make the first move. That "sure if I like a guy, I would ask him out" is all royal BS.

[wilsonlam97]

Nope. Even if they were butt ugly, they will still make it painfully obvious but not make the first move. That "sure if I like a guy, I would ask him out" is all royal BS.

Damn this society LOL

[stuntman]

If they do ask you out say yes if you want to be eaten alive

[CRAZYBUBBA]

I was going to write that my experience mirrors yours, but in writing this I realized that I've had alot of women take the initiative.

I've been propositioned, I've had girl make it painfully obvious sometimes to the point of being ridiculous, and I have been formally asked out once (none of that group stuff) by a girl that I knew well.

Actually, I think that if anyone has failed to make the first move it's me Food for thought.

Edit: I'm not super attractive or anything.

[Kunman]

nope

but if a girl does ask me out, even if i was not attracted to her, I would defiantly make time and go out with her for a great date to thank her for the initiative. I think it really takes courage for girls to ask someone out:/

[wilsonlam97]

nope

but if a girl does ask me out, even if i was not attracted to her, I would defiantly make time and go out with her for a great date to thank her for the initiative. I think it really takes courage for girls to ask someone out:/

This^

[stealth]

Ya quite a few times actually..I was pretty chicken when I was younger....But I found it happened less often as time passed by...Lots of times in high school, a few times in university, and very occasionally after that.

[stealth]

nope

but if a girl does ask me out, even if i was not attracted to her, I would defiantly make time and go out with her for a great date to thank her for the initiative. I think it really takes courage for girls to ask someone out:/

I dunno, I think in some ways its easier for girls...theres less of a creep out factor, they're generally better with subtleties so they can do it in less obvious ways, and the odds of them being rejected are less.

[diggler649]

For some strange reason, I get hit on a lot by sistahs. And it's not the Halle Berry types either.

[Pigeu]

I'm a girl and I've asked out a guy once and got a flat out 'no'... a little discouraging

a little off topic: is it normal to get hit on by men that are 2-3 times your age? it happens too often that it kinda freaks me out

[Hitman21]

I'm a girl and I've asked out a guy once and got a flat out 'no'... a little discouraging

a little off topic: is it normal to get hit on by men that are 2-3 times your age? it happens too often that it kinda freaks me out

Not really, are these men really rich or just regular guys?

[EnyCe]

Twice, both at pmall and while I was playing jitz LOL

[007craft]

I'm a girl and I've asked out a guy once and got a flat out 'no'... a little discouraging

a little off topic: is it normal to get hit on by men that are 2-3 times your age? it happens too often that it kinda freaks me out

Ouch. So you have a 100% rejection rate lol. That's horrible.

[nalababe]

20+ years ago in HS - yes. Said No.
University - Yes. Said Yes.
over the past decade...propositioned at Conventions and meetings - yes. Said No.