Immoral? Wrong? Backstab?

[Alvito]

Is it wrong to date/mess around with a girl that your friend recently dumped?

I think so, but i can''t help myself. I pray neither of them see this.

[klipone]

think about this. everytime u kiss her u kiss him also. and everytime u do it. hes been in there. so ur thing is 'contacting' his thing. lol dude. thats nasty.

[Wiseman]

think about this. everytime u kiss her u kiss him also. and everytime u do it. hes been in there. so ur thing is 'contacting' his thing. lol dude. thats nasty.

As opposed to your 'thing' contacting a stranger's 'thing'? What's the diff?

[Alvito]

lol. i wont be kissing her... at least the lips on her face

i under stand your do it thing now, and he hasnt been there, so no worries!

[islandboy_007]

if he dumped her, no
if she dumped him, yes

[Alvito]

if he dumped her, no
if she dumped him, yes

what the heck, explain that, because i have it the other way around.

[NDman]

I'd just back off from that. It *may* work out in the ideal case, but situation like this has troubles written all over it.

[MizTEcK]

backstab? more like u'll get stabbed... not necessarily in the back though

[d_jedi]

what the heck, explain that, because i have it the other way around.

If he dumped her.. why do you think it would be wrong to date her? He doesn't want her, so..
Nonetheless, I say give it a few months at least before you do anything (unless you already have).. and then I'd ask him what he'd think if I went out with his ex..

[Alvito]

should i wait til she gets over him? or take advantage and be the shoulder to cry on and then earn her trust from there?

[corrupt123]

should i wait til she gets over him? or take advantage and be the shoulder to cry on and then earn her trust from there?

you'll get used.

[d_jedi]

should i wait til she gets over him? or take advantage and be the shoulder to cry on and then earn her trust from there?

Picking a girl up on the rebound usually doesn't turn out well..

[poedua]

never..." guy code " 101

[Alvito]

alright, i'll just be her friend... for now

[nfnx]

i did taht ... lol im still dating that girl and its been 2 years.

cant say it was the best decision but it was definately worth it.


hey if its real, its real.... if they are no longer attached then a true friedn would understand.
i always looked at it this way. if i care about a girl but dont love them enough to be with them, there is no one id rather her be with than a close friend of mine who i know will take care of her. im not a selfish guy