Originally Posted by thezone
Why would someone your interviewing grant you permission to take a seat
Or do you mean interviewers?
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Aug 8th, 2005 10:52 AM #1
interviews...
So your in an interview room with 2 interviewers after shaking bot their hands you still haven't been asked to take a seat. What would you do?
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Aug 8th, 2005 10:54 AM #2Banned
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Aug 8th, 2005 11:03 AM #3
lol good catch that was a pretty bad typo
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Wait 'til they sit down, then take a seat on one of their laps.
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Aug 8th, 2005 11:08 AM #5
Was it an IT interview?
IMO, most IT interviewers do not know proper etiquette, since they're geeks. So take a seat.
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Aug 8th, 2005 11:17 AM #6
i would stand straight with arms at the side and not do anything until explicitly asked by them.
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Aug 8th, 2005 11:21 AM #7
Stand there like an idiot?
They won't always tell you exactly what to do. you need to read body language and know when it sit down.
Just like they won't always tell you when the interview is over. You have to read people and realize when to break it off and leave. Otherwise you just look dumb sitting there blathering on while totally missing those hidden signs that tell you the interview is over.
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Aug 8th, 2005 11:32 AM #8
If they sat down already, a simple "May I?" and a smile (or even a somewhat of a facial gesture) will do the trick.
If they are still standing, you stand too. Crack a joke about sitting down if you can to ease up the awkwardness
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say: wtf. u expect me! to stand throughout this freakin' interview or what!
where's my f.kn chair, man.
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Aug 8th, 2005 12:46 PM #10
**Maybe** it's part of a test - part of the interview process - to see if you follow instructions well
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Aug 8th, 2005 12:58 PM #11
Originally Posted by NDman

"May I?"
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Aug 8th, 2005 01:05 PM #12
what if they say 'you need someone to tell you to sit down? common. what are you? a freakin door matt pussy? Its sitting down damnit... Not running the nuclear powerplant! Your fired'
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Aug 8th, 2005 01:15 PM #13
Just sit after they sit. Period.
You are not a kid. You don't need to be told when to sit.
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Aug 8th, 2005 02:01 PM #14
If this is the most important thing that happened at the interview thats a really bad sign.
If youre all peers you dont have to ask "may I this" or "may I please that."
But if youre with the CEO (out of repect) wait till he sits down then of course sit down. Unless you like being subservient or something. Then move on to the important topics like the actual job.
Speak up for yourself (unless the job requires you to be a "yes man") or people will take advantage of you.
You reach a stage when this will come naturally, when youre a younger guy it can be intimidating for sure.
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Aug 8th, 2005 02:04 PM #15
make sure you ask if you may speak before you actually speak. i don't know how'd you do that though, try hand signals or mouthing the words or something.
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