Rant: people showing up unannounced...

[Xiaohaibao]

I read your story and I don't get it, why do you hate this guy, just because he's annoying? It doesn't sound like he's a bad friend or did anything bad to you. And he isn't a complete loser if he's able to get a girl friend (assuming she's not 300 pounds).

[Simaahoy]

Call the cops if he decided to driver while drunk, that way you wont see him anymore

[goodguy90]

Solution 1: Don't have late parties
Solution 2: Have party without alcohol
Solution 3: Have party at his house every-time
Solution 4: Get everyone to unfriend him.

Hope you find your solution dude

Solution 4 is common in female circles. Never experienced/witnessed it in a male circle.

Let your friends make their own judgement about him. Don't convince/force them into taking sides. No one should do that.

Although it sounds like your friends already dislike him.

[Syne]

Anniversary of what? The day that they "asked each other out"? (lol)

If that's the case, then it is a pretty gay.

As for your friend, he sounds like a loudmouth - but Modder, you sound like the type who acts different in a group than when you're 1-on-1 with someone.

[wilsonlam97]

I read your story and I don't get it, why do you hate this guy, just because he's annoying? It doesn't sound like he's a bad friend or did anything bad to you. And he isn't a complete loser if he's able to get a girl friend (assuming she's not 300 pounds).

I'll put a d1ck friend in a context you'll understand.

You generously let your friend borrow a bill off you and it takes months and months to owe you back because you guys are "tight" and he thinks your nagging him even though its fair if you expect your money back in a month's time.

[wilsonlam97]

Solution 4 is common in female circles. Never experienced/witnessed it in a male circle.

Let your friends make their own judgement about him. Don't convince/force them into taking sides. No one should do that.

Although it sounds like your friends already dislike him.

Or gather a bunch of people that can engage in a intellectual conversation to bore the cr@p out of d1ck friend.

[Agafaba]

As an update. Not my gf but a girl I know (best friend I'd say) are devising a plan. No ones going to know what it is in our group until afterwards. But let's just say he definitely will not be driving for a very long time.

Ya that will show him, pretend to be his friend while trying to do bad things to him behind his back!

[Lazy Susan]

WTF did I just read?

[XtremeModder]

Solution 4 is common in female circles. Never experienced/witnessed it in a male circle.

Let your friends make their own judgement about him. Don't convince/force them into taking sides. No one should do that.

Although it sounds like your friends already dislike him.

None of the people in our small group of friends likes him anymore hence why we didn't want him coming last night. He just showed up.

I'm the kind of person that will give or do anything to/for a friend and hell literally drink 5-6 of my beers and bring 3-4 of his own and then drive home. I'm trying to stop it now cause cant I or the homeowner get in ***** if something were to happen? Or did that change quite awhile ago.

He used to be a cool person until we all as a group decided to tell his mom he had a wry serious cocaine problem and ever since then he's changed as in he doesn't do it anymore but the odd time here or there he brings it up saying he can't believe we all did that. My defense is is that if you can't see how that benefitted you back then then your a very ungrateful person (he hasn't used that drug since but hell smoke weed when offered).

[Junigenmukyoku]

#getablog

+1

It sounds like a blog post, you should start one.

Anyways, I think it's best if you talk to your friend about this instead of us, so you can actually solve the problem. I mean if he's actually putting his GF and others in risk while DUI, you shouldn't let him drink at your place or tell him to leave. You have to man up brah.

[Xiaohaibao]

I'll put a d1ck friend in a context you'll understand.

You generously let your friend borrow a bill off you and it takes months and months to owe you back because you guys are "tight" and he thinks your nagging him even though its fair if you expect your money back in a month's time.

I would never lend money, even to friends. "Sorry buddy but I'm short on cash now, don't even have $20."

[XtremeModder]

+1

It sounds like a blog post, you should start one.

Anyways, I think it's best if you talk to your friend about this instead of us, so you can actually solve the problem. I mean if he's actually putting his GF and others in risk while DUI, you shouldn't let him drink at your place or tell him to leave. You have to man up brah.

I understand that but he doesn't care he'll do the same thing elsewhere either way

[XtremeModder]

I read your story and I don't get it, why do you hate this guy, just because he's annoying? It doesn't sound like he's a bad friend or did anything bad to you. And he isn't a complete loser if he's able to get a girl friend (assuming she's not 300 pounds).

He is a loser. Beyond that. Any time he wants to take his gf out he needs his moms car. Hes 26 and almost refuses to work for no reason. His mom basically pays for him to take his gf out. We always joke saying that if he ever proposes, that his mom will be the one getting engaged to her not him. Basically his mom, although a nice person, failed horribly.

[Piro21]

Ya that will show him, pretend to be his friend while trying to do bad things to him behind his back!

Glad I'm not the only one thinking that. Why not just stop talking to the guy or be an adult and tell him to his face how you feel about him? Doing stuff that adversely affects his life, especially while pretending to be his friend, is pretty low.

[XtremeModder]

Glad I'm not the only one thinking that. Why not just stop talking to the guy or be an adult and tell him to his face how you feel about him? Doing stuff that adversely affects his life, especially while pretending to be his friend, is pretty low.

Well it's been decided to take the right way and none of us are going to answer calls or any of that but we won't screw him over. Although we are waiting for when it happens.

Like I said he was caught once when he wrapped his old car around a tree (total write off) a few years ago (his mother bought him the car). Lost his license and everything and now he does it all again still.