Separate or not?
This is a great platform to ask for suggestions.
We are married for 7yrs now and have struggled with infertility for 5 and just had our first child on 2nd Feb after a difficult pregnancy. I had lot of complications till the day I delivered. My husband invited his parents in dec. thinking they will be of help. My parents are little old so they cannot come here to be with me. Since his parents are here we are having lot of fights. My MIL did not help us a bit in terms of any household chores. I did everything till the day i delivered. They behave normally when he is around and differently when he isn't. They are interfering to the terms what we should do where we should go no cooking how I should raise my child breast feeding judgemental about my friends everything. This has caused tension between me & my husband. The worst part is my husband is on their side he just doesn't raise his voice or doesn't accept their mistake. We had conversation about separation over the weekend and he went and told his parents and said yes he is ready to leave me and our 15 day old child. So this just mean he is open to the idea of separation.
My point is every married couple has fights but he is different when they are around. He has no regard for me who had C section and never asks about my well being or my health. Our relation is now just formal. I keep crying and expecting things out of him and every time I get is disappointment. I am sick and tired and I feel so alone here.. His parents are going to be here for another two months. We compromised and he promised to change and never talk about separation again but I don't trust him anymore.
His parents continue to interfere and ruin our marriage. He seems ok with it. My life has become miserable now. All I do is sit in my room with my child go down for food where they are obsessively waiting for him to come. I know things will change when they will leave. All my friends tell me to calm down and don't expect things from him for the child.
My question to you guys is should I suffer in silence like this and wait for his parents to leave and only for them to come back and start this all over just for my child or should I separate.
Hope you understand my plight.