what to do with overly energetic neighbor
There is a neighbor that lives directly across the street from our home. He is in the mid 50's and his wife past away last year due to cancer. The problem we have is that he brings alot of different female friend back home and they stay up 1am to 2am. Although the noise is not unbearable my parents restrained me from calling and reporting the noise to the police. That was one issue, the next one happened in the afternoon when he was not home and this lady came ringing the door bell and peeking over the hedge into the back yard. Obviously she was looking for our neighbor but could not find him so she went door to door trying to get his whereabouts. When my dad told her he did not know she became rowdy and verbal. We do not care what he does in his house or entertain these kind of ladies but we do care if it affects us, other neighbors and most likely cause our property values to come down.
Yesterday I went to talk to him, I know he is lonely but he has to control his lady friends, to be more discreet and keep it all under his roof and not the neighborhood. The image of the neighbor is riding on his actions. He instead of agreeing kept telling me all these encounters and how all these lady's want to move in with him. Do not want to be a rat but what else can we do besides calling the police everytime something happens?
Yesterday I went to talk to him, I know he is lonely but he has to control his lady friends, to be more discreet and keep it all under his roof and not the neighborhood. The image of the neighbor is riding on his actions. He instead of agreeing kept telling me all these encounters and how all these lady's want to move in with him. Do not want to be a rat but what else can we do besides calling the police everytime something happens?