*UPDATE* At what point do you go from dating to "exclusive"?

[diggler649]

Good morning you...n...I mean people.

So, I've been seeing this girl for around 2.5 weeks. Gone out 6 times. Sex by date 3. We both really like each other. At what point do you throw out the question of exclusitivity? We're "dating" but neither of us have brought up the topic of only seeing each other exclusively. Neither of us are dating anyone else, but I suspect that if I were to date someone else, she probably wouldn't be thrilled. And vice versa.

So when exactly do you have this awkward convo? We're both adults, not high school kids or LG/LB/WK's, etc. Also, she's a white girl and not a Hello Kitty fob girl who watches too many Canton love stories if that helps clarify things. FACT.

I've been out of the dating scene for awhile so I have no idea how this crap works.

Discuss.

[yao416]

Do you have a picture of her?

[Coz4k]

Do you have a picture of her?

Most important question.

Seconded.

[Ojam]

She would be the one to bring it up with.

[SomeBodyElseisme]

just do it.
she's probably waiting for you to ask or bring it up.

[diggler649]

Do you have a picture of her?

Most important question.

Seconded.

Yes I have a picture of her. She is hot and I will not post on the internet. Lol.

[D-Roc]

So when exactly do you have this awkward convo? We're both adults, not high school kids or LG/LB/WK's, etc.

If you have to ask the question, then I doubt you are.

[diggler649]

If you have to ask the question, then I doubt you are.

Thank you. That was very helpful.

[15-20_God]

ask her to go steady and let her wear your letterman jacket.

[yao416]

Thank you. That was very helpful.

+1

[D-Roc]

Thank you. That was very helpful.

Less helpful as your tro....errrr....buddies request for a pic?

You asked the question. I answered. Don't like the answer? Well don't ask on the net then.

[gilboman]

Good morning you...n...I mean people.

So, I've been seeing this girl for around 2.5 weeks. Gone out 6 times. Sex by date 3. We both really like each other. At what point do you throw out the question of exclusitivity? We're "dating" but neither of us have brought up the topic of only seeing each other exclusively. Neither of us are dating anyone else, but I suspect that if I were to date someone else, she probably wouldn't be thrilled. And vice versa.

So when exactly do you have this awkward convo? We're both adults, not high school kids or LG/LB/WK's, etc. Also, she's a white girl and not a Hello Kitty fob girl who watches too many Canton love stories if that helps clarify things. FACT.

I've been out of the dating scene for awhile so I have no idea how this crap works.

Discuss.

What's there to discuss? If YOU want to go exclusive, ask her if she wants to be exclusive as well. You're asking because you want to I assume? So ask her! It's no different than asking what movie she wants to see or if she wants to goto restaurant x.

[uber_shnitz]

What do you mean "at what point"? Are you asking if there's some kind of magical timeline deadline or date on the calendar every month that's "let's talk about being bf/gf" day?

Fact is, it depends on each couple and person. If you're certain she'd feel upset if you dated someone else then that's a sign that she probably wants to move exclusive. There isn't any specific "time" I can give you as far as I'm concerned since it's not an awkward conversation if you're sure both of you want this.

Although I read somewhere post-sex talk is a good place to address stuff sicne you're both very "zen" from endorphin release I've never really tried it though we usually just cuddle and fall asleep in my couple

[rems]

At the point where you have a discussion about it and decide

[diggler649]

What's there to discuss? If YOU want to go exclusive, ask her if she wants to be exclusive as well. You're asking because you want to I assume? So ask her! It's no different than asking what movie she wants to see or if she wants to goto restaurant x.

Too soon, though?