Sorry Diggler, I can't help but to start rolling on the ground laughing.
My friend once told me he did exactly what you did. He get to play around and all that a lot of times. Next time they met, the girl give him the cold shoulder. That's how the local population deal with relationship. They don't exclusive anything. She knows you are into her more than she is into you, that's why she won't commit. The girl will be only into you more than you are into her, when she gets old and can't find anyone. Mark my word, if you break up with her and stayed friends. One day she would pick up the topic about commiting with you, but then it will be so many years after she hurt you. By then you will be over her already.
I don't see why it's a bad thing, you get to play around with someone. Meanwhile, you can look for another who you can commit to. Keep this girl as your backup for fun.
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Jul 16th, 2012 11:19 AM #106
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Jul 16th, 2012 11:33 AM #107
Wow, if she wants you to meet her parents then to me that's definitely not a booty call. Could be that she's afraid to call it a relationship in the event that it might jinx the way things are going now. I know some people that are like that, just go with it and don't question it again. Maybe things will work out for the better this way.
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Jul 16th, 2012 12:13 PM #109
I just got out of a marriage and this is exactly what I wanted. For one year, I wanted an FWB. No committment. Just sex. Move on. But this girl was different and made me want more. I am open to meeting others but I know I would probably still end up gravitating back to her.
I think what she wants is to take it day-by-day without labelling what we have right now. I'm sure if she met some other dude down the road, she'll give me the boot. But she also says that she has a connection with me that she has never felt with anyone else before. And that it's crazy because she's only known me for a month, but she would be devastated if I was not in her life anymore. Not sure if this is BS.
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Jul 16th, 2012 12:15 PM #110
Real talk:
Hope for the best, be ready for the worst.
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Jul 16th, 2012 01:41 PM #111
You must be a girl.
Fine, you're getting something out of it. But she got to dictate the terms. I would advise you to assert yourself a little bit more, so you resemble more of a man. Thats what women are looking for at the end of the day. Someone to boss them around like their fathers did when they were younger._______________
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Jul 21st, 2012 02:35 PM #112
This thread is awesome.
I wish I had a woman who wanted to use me for my penis and my company.
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Jul 21st, 2012 03:32 PM #113
Does this person know that you are recently divorced? If so, then she knows she is your "rebound" relationship and it makes sense to be cautious before jumping too fast emotionally into a relationship with you. If a relationship is going to become more serious, inevitably she's going to want to know why your previous marriage ended (so the same thing doesn't happen with her), or if you've got financial commitments or baggage that is going to mess up this new relationship. Without knowing those things, better to keep you at arms' length. That's assuming, of course, that she's not bringing a whole bunch of baggage to the table herself.
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Jul 21st, 2012 06:14 PM #114
You are the "back up". She will drop you like a brick when she finds someone better. Hit it while you can and hide your money.
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Jul 21st, 2012 07:52 PM #115
Better go out and put a $888k ring on that. It doesn't guarantee exclusivity but at least you have a better chance brother.
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Jul 21st, 2012 08:52 PM #116
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Jul 22nd, 2012 12:38 AM #117
Is this p.o.s. thread still going? Just go out with her and don't worry about 'labels/titles' and everything will work itself out.
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Jul 22nd, 2012 01:23 AM #118
Last edited by Nook; Jul 22nd, 2012 at 01:41 AM.
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Jul 22nd, 2012 01:39 AM #119
I just read all 8 pages.
I've been in the same situation as you, however it was vice-versa
Not happy about my past decision - I've met my fair share of GOOD women, and at the time I lacked commitment. Now, I have no one and it has destroyed me inside.
I would recommend you look for someone while continuing the FWB if commitment is what you desire.
Dropping her immediately will only result in being depressed and alone until you can find "the one".Last edited by Royalsoldier; Jul 22nd, 2012 at 01:42 AM.
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Jul 22nd, 2012 08:19 AM #120
Dating in 2012 is never exclusive.
It's all a business transaction.
If you have something she wants, she will likely give you what you want.
If you don't have ..... you will not get any.
No such thing as love anymore.
I think we should confirm it and put out a tombstone.
R.I.P. Exclusivity in Relationships and Love
Sometime after the creation of the world to 2008
I think the internet spread its demise, but ultimately I think its over.
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