White girls who will only date white guys

[MrKat]

Ok first off, Im hoping that nobody takes offense by my thread title or by anything they read in this thread. I have looked it over to make sure it has been written so that people dont get that impression. Im just using that as an example. I guess a generalization would be "people who will only date within their race."

Secondly, Im just speaking in general, I have love in my life so its not like Im out on the prowl anymore But when I was younger, single and still in my bar years, college, etc...I did have to go through a lot of this. And now, its more so my younger brother as he is experiencing the exact same thing - hes only 21 btw, I turn 26 next month.

Now, I'm not saying theres anything wrong with this, but just that I dont see how anyone can be so close minded towards meeting people of the opposite sex. A lot of the white girls Ive known, tend to only want to date guys of the same race. Wait, let me rephrase that...a lot of white girls Ive known only wanted anything to do with guys of the same race.

Even if its just friends, they will automatically disqualify you as dating material if you are not their race. Personally, I think this is being very ignorant and judgemental - and if not...very very close to racial discrimination because you are obviously viewing guys who arent the same race as you as unqualified material - people lesser than you. Please people, dont give me that "oh everyone just has preferences" excuse, its a crock of crap as far as Im concerned, and very misleading, otherwise this would NOT even be an issue to them at all. It would be the LEAST of their worries.

Sure I have my preferences, for instance, Im hugely attracted to white, spanish, and mixed girls (im half ***, half flip), and Im not all that physically attracted to indian, asian or black girls. But you dont see me limiting my connections with them just because they arent my race. Really, give me a break...I was never one to have such crazily high standards in race when it came to meeting girls. Frankly it really bothers me when for instance my brother, who is trying to get to know these girls and they want nothing to do with him or even get to know him because he's not the girls race.

Why is this so common in a lot of the white girls Ive known? I would say almost one in three will act this way. To me, its always been a deal breaker. Having a girl who puts so much emphasis on this when really it shouldnt be an issue at all. i know what everyone will say, everyone has certain races in which they are more physically attracted to than in others and I understand. But to not even want anything to do with them as in friends? Please dont be so close minded when it comes to meeting new people, life is short enough as is and we only live once. One can never know too many people in life.

"So youre white right?" "So youre white right?" "So youre white right?" Haha I remember back in the day when I would be set up on blind dates and god knows how many times I would hear this. Its almost like when I would hear a girl say that - I knew race was obviously an issue to her, so goodbye. Even worse, when they are the very first words that come out of her mouth HA!

Im just saying, there are beautiful people of all races in this world. If I happen to meet a really nice black girl tommorow who wants to be friends, I'm not going to push her aside like shes nobody just because shes black.

Would any of you guys/girls let something like this bother you, seeing a person who sees life this way? Thankfully I dont have to, but I have dated girls like this in the past and trust me, they dont last. Im sorry, but the colour of somebodys skin would be the last thing of my mind...ever. If its such an issue to them, move on, dont waste anymore of your time as you deserve better.

I do hope that some of you are able to see my point Im trying to get across.

[Cyber6]

I feel your pain

this woman rejected me
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nq20b4eb6z0

it hurt
very painful

she said that I was too young for her
what's age got to do with it?

I looove Tina, I wish I can have legs like that when I am... 80??

edit: Forgot to say that I looove her sax player...


C.

[d_jedi]

White girls aren't the only ones like that..

[ullyeus]

For someone who doesn' care you sure seem to care.


*shrug* I don't know many people like you describe.

[Andro]

i don't see any problem with people who want to date within their race....... i mean should they just jump all over you because you said so, it's their personal preference let it be.

[ericyjh85]

get this body and a lot of money.

[drucillica]

Whereas I see where you're coming from, you can't really help who you're attracted to. Meh.

On a side note, I've recently reconnected (through Facebook) with a bunch of people I haven't talked to since highschool. Seems to me that everyone is in an interracial relationship now.

[MrKat]

Whereas I see where you're coming from, you can't really help who you're attracted to. Meh.

On a side note, I've recently reconnected (through Facebook) with a bunch of people I haven't talked to since highschool. Seems to me that everyone is in an interracial relationship now.

Hey all my sisters are married to white guys, one even a black guy. Even they admitted, they werent hugely attracted to their hubbys race...up until they met them. And that is because they were so open in what kind of guys they would meet.

[that_staples_guy]

I can somewhat feel what the OP is feeling to a lesser extent. I'm a south indian guy, born here in canada. I've had g/f's before of many colours including your run of the mill white girl who has blood from every european country ( you know, i'm a bit irish, and french and...).

I do have my preferences, i.e. i'm slightly inclined to certain races and i'm sure 99% of you are too, I haven't completely written off white females, but because i feel that most white girls would rather be with someone of their own race as its somewhat clear to see, i've kinda started ignoring white girls altogether as dating prospects

[grant]

I do hope that some of you are able to see my point Im trying to get across.

No, what IS your point?

Sometimes people aren't attracted to different races? How is that different than people who aren't attracted to ugly people, or poor people, or whatever?

[MrDisco]

yeah i didn't quite get the point either. asians (etc) can be just as closed-minded as the hypothetical white girl in the op's post.

[Anessa]

I don't think that's true at all. You just have to give them a reason to want to date you eg. personality, charm, wit, looks. Not fair to single out white girls as only wanting their own. All cultures have individuals who will only date or marry within their own ethnic group.

[BlueMax]

yeah i didn't quite get the point either. asians (etc) can be just as closed-minded as the hypothetical white girl in the op's post.

Even moreso, according to the "date asian" threads here!

[i6s1]

Girls are more likely then guys to prefer one race over another.


What I really mean is that guys will take anything.

[DaVibe]

Maybe it's because you're in Calgary, but welcome to North York where all the white girls are going out with other races ... I have friends doing it right now come to think of it.

Besides, its peoples preferences. Let them live how they want to. I'm white and I have a white preference. Doesn't mean I would NEVER DATE an indian girl or a black girl, but I've come to PREFER white women ... so what, that's my choice.