Would you go under this situation?

[nickia]

Your GF, guy A, and another bf/gf couple are going out to mall and have a meal later on.

Guy A likes your GF.

Your gf asks you to come with her, would you go with her even though you are not invited by the other three people. (presumably)

[mlc2000]

Why is the other couple inviting some guy who likes her, and not you?
Of course you go. Don't need some other man mowing your lawn,
or at trash talking you about your lack of 'mowing prowess'

[nickia]

Why is the other couple inviting some guy who likes her, and not you?
Of course you go. Don't need some other man mowing your lawn,
or at trash talking you about your lack of 'mowing prowess'

actually they are gf's friends but that guy was my co-worker.

[3weddings]

Ummm...yeah I'd go....and I'd give the coworker a talking to!

[nickia]

Ummm...yeah I'd go....and I'd give the coworker a talking to!

Hmmmm... I'm thinking about this: I'll go but ill tell gf not to let that dude know that I'll be going. I want to give him a surprise and ruin his day
It will be brutal since there will be 2 couples and he will be left alone. Hopefully my plan will work out LOL.

AM I　EVIL?

[izzyzz]

Hmmmm... I'm thinking about this: I'll go but ill tell gf not to let that dude know that I'll be going. I want to give him a surprise and ruin his day
It will be brutal since there will be 2 couples and he will be left alone. Hopefully my plan will work out LOL.

AM I　EVIL?

If your gf asks you to go, you should. If I were you, I'd do the same thing... no advance warning.

[Nav]

Hmmmm... I'm thinking about this: I'll go but ill tell gf not to let that dude know that I'll be going. I want to give him a surprise and ruin his day
It will be brutal since there will be 2 couples and he will be left alone. Hopefully my plan will work out LOL.

AM I　EVIL?

thats the way to do it!

that way she (the GF) is letting the guy (that likes her) know that she is off limits!

[ji2o0k]

definitely go and make sure that other guy doesn't know you are going.

Also make sure you are affectionate with your woman in front of him. I am not talking about necking in front of him, open mouth but hug her, hold her hands, get her to try your food (feed her a little), touch her shoulders etc. Not outrageous but just little signs here and there to show you guys are very much a couple.

Make sure he knows that your gf is all yours and only you mow her lawns.....

[JiffyPB]

Make sure he knows that your gf is all yours and only you mow her lawns.....

Good god, are you people this insecure? Definately go, you were invited and all, but go because you want to hang out with these people, not try and prevent someone from making a move. Act as you would normally act with your girlfriend when out with friends, no need to *prove* she is your girlfriend. Making yourself look like an insecure fool is a good way to lose a GF.

[ji2o0k]

Also make sure you are affectionate with your woman in front of him.

Not outrageous but just little signs here and there to show you guys are very much a couple.

Make sure he knows that your gf is all yours and only you mow her lawns.....

Act as you would normally act with your girlfriend when out with friends, no need to *prove* she is your girlfriend. Making yourself look like an insecure fool is a good way to lose a GF.

yes...as I said....just be affectionate as a couple would, to show you guys are very much a couple. Not "proving" anything but behaving as you would as a couple.

Some guys might think "Oh the relationship might not be so close, so I might have a chance". But if he sees you guys are very much a couple, then he realizes he doesn't have a chance.

[ADIL86]

In the end what does this prove? That you don't have enough trust in your girlfriend to reject the advances of another man. If your relationship is good, and you are not getting complacent then really your g/f wouldn't give 'Guy A' another thought.

I can see myself getting jealous but these elaborate schemes really reflect poorly on your own perception of your current relationship. The one saving point is that your g/f did ask you to come, she might just want your company or she doesn't feel comfortable being around that other guy.

Either way a sound judgment is your responsibility, I merely implore you to review your thinking process. Guys will always try, but short of him drugging/raping her, the responsibility to shoot him down is your g/f's responsibility, not necessarily yours.

[CSAgent]

Ah, the return of relationship threads.. good drama.

Wait here, I'm gonna go get the popcorn.

[ADIL86]

I secretly read the 'Dear Abby' section
every time that I am reading the Metro

[qster]

First off... you GF should have declined the invite to go to the mall.
Any eating...entails a date, even if its at the Mall.

It looks like your GF's friends are meddling in the department of "Fixing her up"
And if this is a co-worker of yours, doesn't he know better? unless your GF's friends don't like you and they like the other guy and want her to date the other.

But then again, if you trust your GF and your relationship is healthy, then you really have nothing to worry about. If she's testing you, this could be trouble... since you weren't invited by the other three to start off.
Its better to find out now, if your GF can be trusted or not and not 5-10years down the road if you guys go the next route in life.

You are in a pickle here.

[CSAgent]

I secretly read the 'Dear Abby' section
every time that I am reading the Metro

Me too.. >_< But I don't ride the Metro, I read it at work in the cafeteria.