7 months and still not over his death
I’m still struggling everyday with the death of my dog and I’m not even sure if this is normal to still grieve 7 months later.
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so sorry for your lost. He sounds very speical.Karala wrote: ↑ I just lost my cat yesterday, I've lost other animals my whole life and never taken it this hard; this was more unexpected. He was a special cat - I actually tamed him from outdoors.
I and my family have had a lot of cats our whole life and none of us have had a cat like him, we all agree he was unique and just the best - played fetch, hide and seek, loved his toys and packed them everywhere yowling, wrestled with the dogs, so gentle that he never used his claws, bit or hissed, friendly with even unknown animals which is very unusual in a cat (they're territorial), very chatty with so many sweet chirping vocalizations, would jump on my lap for nail trims, and just so loving, he even had seperation anxiety... what a character. He was the closest you could get to a dog in a cat's body. And to think he used to be feral ... I'll always have a scar as a reminder when he bit through my oven mitt while I was taming him.
He was a member of my family. Some people don't understand that, but grief is a process for loved ones no matter what species they are, and everyone processes their loss differently. I have other animals in my house, including other cats, but they all pale in comparison. I totally had a favorite and don't ever expect to find a replacement. With time, I do expect to be able to look back on the fond memories and smile. I hope you're able to get to that point too.
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