Well, I’m obviously in the minority here. Or rather, the loner.
I paid the house with all of my funds. I brought significant savings to the relationship so to speak. No thought of a pre-nup. Recognition that if the relationship breaks up, we are both entitled to 50/50. It’s fair because both parties contribute significantly to what we have.
Love is not a dream nor is it a calculation. It’s hard to find that type of relationship but I hope that people don’t lose faith - of course, it’s about finding a good person and someone of character. OP’s girlfriend sounded like a very decent woman too.
Not everyone is as greedy as we might imagine or fear.
YMMV.
I paid the house with all of my funds. I brought significant savings to the relationship so to speak. No thought of a pre-nup. Recognition that if the relationship breaks up, we are both entitled to 50/50. It’s fair because both parties contribute significantly to what we have.
Love is not a dream nor is it a calculation. It’s hard to find that type of relationship but I hope that people don’t lose faith - of course, it’s about finding a good person and someone of character. OP’s girlfriend sounded like a very decent woman too.
Not everyone is as greedy as we might imagine or fear.
YMMV.