Questions for parents with teenagers
I never had children and none of my friends had children so I'm totally out of touch with what teenagers do nowadays.
I have the following situation. My neighbor's 14 yr old son and 15 yr old daughter are leaving the house through the window of the laundry room of the house around 1-2am and coming back around 3-5am. My understanding is that they can't leave the house through doors/patio doors because the house has alarm with Rogers.
I know they are leaving the house at those hours because I have cameras and they always end up walking right in front of my house. I do not have cameras pointing at their windows. The only reason I know they are leaving the house through that window is that once I was having a smoke in my backyard at 2am and saw it.
My second question to you is what would you do with this situation given the following. Both parents are lawyers and unfortunately are snob/pretentious. I did speak to them on a few occasions over the last 4 years since they moved in. But of course I'm not their kind of people.
I'm concerned for the well-being of the children but telling the parents might not be appreciated to say the least. Once last year I mentioned to them that I had seen their daughter smoking pot on many occasions. Their daughter was hiding on the side of the house with friends to smoke pot. And after informing the parents I've seen the daughter hiding even more to keep on smoking.
Leaving the house through the window is something that only started in late July of this year. And they never leave the house together. It is either the girl or the boy. The girl has a boyfriend who is sometimes waiting for her on the street in front of my house at 1-2am. I'm not talking to them anymore. And I'm concerned informing the parents could eventually lead her children + some of their friends to do damage to my property. They can be quite wild.