Just provide the store address as a shipping address via Amazon or Paypal.
The store I use (Ogdensburg, NY) doesn't generally call upon receipt of a package (but I usually have tracking info). However, they will call on receipt of a larger box e.g. a TV. Sometimes I call to check if packages are there.
One final thing. The fees seem to be in-store rather than a fixed policy, so it's a good idea to call ahead and check. My favored store charges a flat-rate ($5/box), but I used a store in Florida that charged $5/day. YMMV.